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Post by murphy1288 on Sept 7, 2024 12:26:35 GMT
Welcome to Alcohol Free is What We Want To Be!We are glad you are here with us! If you have been struggling with your weight and have found this board you undoubtedly have your own unique, complicated relationship with alcohol and food. Laying out the problem honestly can give you the extra push you need to succeed in getting it under control. A few questions for you to think about...do you wake up at 3 AM wondering what did you do? Do you sometimes have no recall of the evening before or do you try to recover your memory of the evening before you even get out of bed? Is your spouse angry with you...or do you simply think that A is taking over too much of your life, affecting your weight loss? These are hard questions but know that you will find understanding, love, encouragement and support on this thread. We are each in a different stage of this journey but you will find others have shared your experiences. There is no judgment, just an acknowledgement that we have been there, done that. This board of great people will support you in your journey.
Some of us have been here for several years, others are new, but all are welcome and if you have visited before but didn't stay, there is still and always a place for you. Don't get overwhelmed, take your time, if something strikes you, respond. We are great at giving advice, whether you want it or not....you will get tough love, if necessary, but you will also find help. We practice positive self-talk and support, we encourage and gently hold each other accountable. We each have stories to tell, share and suggestions to help. We post different challenges during the year. Please join us if you think this is the group for you. You will be glad you did.
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Post by murphy1288 on Sept 7, 2024 12:26:54 GMT
HOCUS POCUS, WE NEED TO FOCUS!
September 3 - October 31
The focus of this challenge is to become a healthier, happier, Boo-ti-ful person for Halloween and it won’t be a costume.
As always we are working towards/maintaining being AF! We need to take a look at what is our witching hour and how do we prevent it. What can you replace your brew with? One suggestion is make a list of treats that you will be able to have if you don’t give into the brew. Give yourself a face mask (facial) or maybe make mummy jalapeño poppers.
For this challenge to work you have to commit and take it seriously in spite of the puns. Respect the importance of the challenge. RESPECT YOURSELF by focusing on your health and taking care of yourself.
This isn't easy, no one said it would be. Are you in an emotional war when it comes to alcohol? Declare a moratorium and determine that it isn't helping you, in fact it may be causing you problems. Can you decide to be alcohol free for the challenge? Can you determine your detours, not necessarily to take them but to plan so it isn't a free fall into AIE? Don't give yourself an excuse that oh my day has been a fright so I will have a drink or I'm bored so I will drink to get through the evening. During the challenge the primary goal is to abstain from alcohol. We understand there may be special occasions for which you may plan for an AIM detour. However please remember if AIM becomes a relapse....we still want you back! Don't berate yourself. Come back to the board, 'fess up and get back on track. We are here to be supportive of each other in reaching our goals.
So what are you going to be for Halloween and beyond? A much healthier, happier person sounds great! RIP alcohol and junk food. AND you will be going into the final two months of the year in great shape!
Have a healthy, happy Halloween!
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Post by murphy1288 on Sept 7, 2024 12:27:14 GMT
THE EIGHT GOOD HEALTH GUIDELINES 1. Eat at least five servings of vegetables and fruits each day. 2. Choose whole-grain foods, such as brown rice and oats, whenever possible. 3. Include two servings of milk products – low fat (1%) or fat-free – each day. 4. Have some healthy oil (olive oil, canola, sunflower, safflower or flaxseed each day. 5. Ensure that you are getting enough protein by choosing at least a serving or two of meat, poultry, fish, eggs or dried beans each day. Many dairy products are also good sources of protein. 6. Limit added sugar and alcohol. 7. Drink at least 6 8-ounce glasses of water a day. 8. Take a multiple vitamin-mineral supplement each day.
NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: One or more fruit daily: One or more vegetable daily: Dairy: Healthy Oils:
AF: AIM: ANIM: Exercise goal:
HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY
Journal: Move Accountability: Sleep Accountability: Nutrition Accountability: Happiness Accountability: Habit Accountability: Check in Daily Accountability: Time Management Accountability: What did you do for yourself today?
Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote Start weight September 3: September 10: September 17: September24: October 1: October 8: October 15: October 22: October 28
Happy Halloween! Final weigh in:
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Post by murphy1288 on Sept 7, 2024 12:33:47 GMT
THE EIGHT GOOD HEALTH GUIDELINES 1. Eat at least five servings of vegetables and fruits each day. 2. Choose whole-grain foods, such as brown rice and oats, whenever possible. 3. Include two servings of milk products – low fat (1%) or fat-free – each day. 4. Have some healthy oil (olive oil, canola, sunflower, safflower or flaxseed each day. 5. Ensure that you are getting enough protein by choosing at least a serving or two of meat, poultry, fish, eggs or dried beans each day. Many dairy products are also good sources of protein. 6. Limit added sugar and alcohol. 7. Drink at least 6 8-ounce glasses of water a day. 8. Take a multiple vitamin-mineral supplement each day.
NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: Needs improvement! One or more fruit daily: Yes One or more vegetable daily: Nope Dairy: Yep Healthy Oils:
AF: 42 AIM: ANIM: Exercise goal: Did nothing yesterday!!
HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY
Journal: Yes Move Accountability: No! Sleep Accountability: Good last night Nutrition Accountability: Happiness Accountability: Habit Accountability: Check in Daily Accountability: Time Management Accountability: What did you do for yourself today?
Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote Start weight September 3: 165.8 September 10: September 17: September24: October 1: October 8: October 15: October 22: October 28
Happy Halloween! Final weigh in:
Good morning all! Oh my I was a slug yesterday. The side effects of the shingles shot triggered a small fibre flare and I felt like my joints had locked up. I stayed on the couch all day long! Didn't go to the gym, didn't do my exercises here, didn't even do my devotions! I slept good last night and while I'm not at 100% I am much better than yesterday! No big plans for today. I have a new slip cover to put on the couch. Need to weed through some of my makeup and straighten up my closet.
Cindy - a slug is kind of bug. Think of a snail with no shell! An apartment I lived in during college had slugs crawling up the walls! Very yucky! Interesting to know it has two meanings though! BBL Murphy
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Post by tatermom on Sept 7, 2024 15:12:37 GMT
I look to 2024 with a renewed commitment to Progress” “Out the Door in 2024” NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: daily goal 70: 80 oz One or more fruit daily: 1 One or more vegetable daily: 2 Sober Spring AF: 224 Sober September: 6what day of the year AIM: 24 ANIM: 2 Fitbit Goal/burned: 2,000/2,312 JUST JOURNAL! HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY Move Accountability: Step goal 8,500: 5,678! steps, 10/11 hours, 105 PU, 7 floors, stretched, walking stores/outside Sleep Accountability: 7 hours, ?? sleep, ?? stress, restin HR 71 slept ok, not sure why no scores Nutrition Accountability: 33/23 14 weeklies, eggs, turkey sausage, eng muffin, popcorn, banana, banana muffin, cookie, BBQ sand, corn, onion rings Fitbit Macros: calorie goal @1500/1,558 cal 44% carbs, 191g, 34% fat, 61g, 22% protein 189g, fiber 32g, 101 over Happiness Accountability: 4 feeling happy Habit Accountability: Exercise bar 2/4. Morning routine, FB meditation Check in Daily Accountability: 5 I'm here!! Time Management Accountability: 4 Blood work, grocery, baked muffins, knit, TV time, filled bird feeders, read Sluggy What did you do for yourself today? 4 knit, read in bed Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or quote: "Nobody can make you happy until you're happy with yourself " HOCUS POCUS, WE NEED TO FOCUS! Start weight September 3: 195 cabin September 10: September 17: September24: October 1: October 8: October 15: October 22: October 28 Happy Halloween! Final weigh in: Good morning all. Waking up with a clear head when I know so many in Wisconsin are suffering from a bad hangover this morning feels really good. DH had gone to the store last night and said the number of people just filling their carts with booze for the game was just crazy. My FOMO passed and I'm so glad I stayed AF. Tough loss for the Packers, think the QB could have pulled it out but hurt at the last plaus of the game. Oh well, I'm waiting to watch the Bears tomorrow, and of course Miami and DUcks today. We'll only get to listen to some of the Ducks tonight as more "dumb" streaming games on Peacock which we don't get. I need to get out and get some more steps yesterday. There was a walk/run this morning by the house but I see they are already clearing up the barricades so it must be done already. We just had a big breakfast of pancakes, berries, sausage and coffee. Yikes. No wonder I'm always so over on my carbs. I had been much more aware of trying to get in the protein, guess the next step is how to cut way back on the carbs. See from Amy, I should be closer to <150 g at least and I'm always way over. I put in my breakfast and I'm already at 64g. Not sure what is on the plan today other than football and steps. I don't need anything from the market or store. I need to stay out of shopping mode for a bit. Maybe look at some You Tube and see what I can figure out about this crochet thing before Thursday, or just work on finishing some knitting projects. Hope you all have a great Saturday. Jan Cindy Wondered if you had the streaming to get the game last night. So frustrating but sure you'll have plenty to watch today I saw a post about the wasp nests on my knitting site. Guess the ones that make the big paper nest are pretty territorial so a lady crocheted a big nest looking thing and hung it up on her porch where they used to come. Hasn't had wasps all summer she says. Wonder if it really works Maybe could fashion one by sewing or out of a paper bag and hang it up. Nice that your friend made an afghan with some of your mom's yarn. As kids I remember having some slugs, and I can tell you they didn't work in the candy gumball machines I have more experience with the garden variety slug that we would battle out west, they ate all the plants! The Santa Cruz college mascot is the banana slug. DH has a t shirt. DS used to love to try to find them when we were over on the coast, they are giant! TMI? ha ha Murphy Maybe today we find some vigor and vim together Altho a couch day or two is always nice. Will you avoid the gym on the weekends or does it maybe not get so busy? Slugs on the wall is nasty but that was also a thing in Oregon. Where did you get your slipcover? I'm thinking that might be a fix for the cabin couches to get a few more years out of them. Cathy I just made a BBQ with a Chuck roast that I shred and make a sauce my mom always made. We even had it for our wedding reception which was a buffet outside in my friends yard where we got married. All the aunts and family provided the food. Hope you get the errands run today and can talk to family this weekend. GG Glad you got to the Y and your friends were missing you. Nice to feel "seen" and know that others care. Glad Rylee is loving school, what about the other two? Will be nice for her to have a good friend in the neighborhood. Must be getting close for DD. I do get having time with just your DS. We didn't get much alone time this summer, but still so glad we got to have them here for the week. Still may try to get in a trip east before the end of the year. DH and I have talked about taking the train out, just for something different. I bet if you wanted to stitch it would come back to you. There are so many videos now to help, my sis taught herself and now learns new stitches watching online. This week at knitting we had 3 new people at the senior center and other new ones have shown up over the summer. They almost always say, "I used to do this and then didn't have time" now being retired they are looking to relearn. Amy You are probably out walking or having breakfast with family. Did you get any rain? I will need to water today or tomorrow, we are going back up into the 80's this week. Now it's supposed to be hot at reunion time and I have no idea what to wear. Was just going with jeans and a shirt but may switch to capris. I don't think anyone will be very dressed up for this one. Was you reunion fancy? or casual? Did you finish your book? Waving hi to all. Need to charge up the FB and then get moving.
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Post by murphy1288 on Sept 7, 2024 18:19:00 GMT
Jan - this is the slipcover I got. www.amazon.com/dp/B09T6656YJ?ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_fed_asin_title. My couch has those "T Cushions" on the two end pieces but you can also get them where the cushion covers are all alike. You can get ones for sofas, loveseats and even recliners. I've tried a couple of different ones and these are by far the best that I've tried. They are washable too.
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Post by amyj on Sept 7, 2024 18:38:47 GMT
THE EIGHT GOOD HEALTH GUIDELINES 1. Eat at least five servings of vegetables and fruits each day. 2. Choose whole-grain foods, such as brown rice and oats, whenever possible. 3. Include two servings of milk products – low fat (1%) or fat-free – each day. 4. Have some healthy oil (olive oil, canola, sunflower, safflower or flaxseed each day. 5. Ensure that you are getting enough protein by choosing at least a serving or two of meat, poultry, fish, eggs or dried beans each day. Many dairy products are also good sources of protein. 6. Limit added sugar and alcohol. 7. Drink at least 6 8-ounce glasses of water a day. 8. Take a multiple vitamin-mineral supplement each day.
NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: 64/75 oz goal One or more fruit daily: Y One or more vegetable daily: Y Dairy: Y Healthy Oils: Y
AF: (mostly alcohol free since August 16, 2006): 6596 AIM: 0 ANIM: 1 (021221) Fitbit Goal/burned: 2170/1840
HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY
Journal: Y Move Accountability: 3, 11,500+ steps, 250 steps 7/8 hours, walked at Logan Farm park/farmers market, Ingles, laps in the basement, counter PU, wall stretches Sleep Accountability: 2, trouble falling asleep, 6 hours, Fitbit score 83, stress management 85 Nutrition Accountability: 3, egg wrap, protein bar, protein shake, beef stew, French bread, ice cream cone MacrosFirst: Protein: 100/137 (28%), Carbs: 132/100 (37%), Fiber: 26gm, Net Carbs: 106, Fat: 56/45 (35%), Calories: 1369/1353, 16 over, gold star Happiness Accountability: 3, enjoyed family time, played Winky Dink, watched movie, read before bed Habit Accountability: 3, more water than Diet Coke Check in Daily Accountability: 3, I'm here! Time Management Accountability: 3, walked, shopped, couch time What did you do for yourself today? reading, time outside, couch time
Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote: “Twenty years from now you’ll be more disappointed by the things you did not do than the ones you did.” ―Mark Twain
Start weight September 3: 154.6 September 10: September 17: September24: October 1: October 8: October 15: October 22: October 28
Happy Halloween! Final weigh in:
2024 Goals: 11,000 steps each day: 235/256 At least 7 hours sleep: 118/256 Lift weights twice/week: Wk 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13:only once, 14, 15, 16, 17:only once, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35 Starting weight: 179.8 Get to the 160's: March 10, 2024 150s: June 24, 2024 140s:
Yesterday DH & I drove to Logan Farm Park, barely making it in time to catch the farmers market. They were out of peaches, so we didn't buy anything. I did pick up a book from the Free Little Library. We saw 6 deer in the woods. After walking we went to Ingles. They had their mums out in front of the store, I bought a pink one to put in the whiskey barrel with the sweet potato vines. I pulled the sunpatien that was there, it was leggy and not blooming. When we got home I had lunch and some couch time, watched the last episode of DBL, which I will miss. We had beef stew in the crock pot, with French bread for dinner. After dinner we played Winky Dink and watched a Netflix movie with Mark Wahlberg and Halle Berry. I went to bed at a decent time but stayed up to finish The Women and then had trouble falling asleep.
DH, DS, & I took the golf cart to the nature trail and enjoyed the nice weather. We stopped at a yard sale and bought a TV console and a stack of stoneware plates. We had bacon, scrambled eggs, fresh fruit and peach turnovers for breakfast. I cleaned up the TV console and am using it as a sofa table. It looks pretty good for $25. I also dusted in the family room, ugh, and have a load of laundry going.
ABC/Disney is in contract dispute with DirectTV so DH is missing out on all the ESPN channels. We have slugs, they especially like to eat strawberries. For those hesitating to get the shingles vaccine, I will share that my Mom got shingles late in life and had terrible leg pain from it until she died. It really diminished her mobility too. That convinced me to get the first shingles vaccine as soon as I was eligible, then I got the newer one (set of 2 shots) a couple of years ago, even though I had to pay out of pocket for it. I also had a friend in Florida that had multiple outbreaks, including in and around her eye. I will stop preaching now.
Jan- WTG steps, PU, stretches, AP, blue dot, AF, blood drawn, result good. Sorry about the clean basket of towels. Glad you are feeling less tired. I haven't crocheted much, but have made a lot of potholders where you chain on 35 stitches and keep going round and round until it becomes a square double-sided potholder. It would be a good project to work on your technique, since it's a potholder and who cares if the stitches are uneven. My Mom made tons of them and sold them at various fundraisers. It's a good way to use up scrap yarn. I'll post a picture from Pinterest. Are you talking about a rectangular tissue box cover? If so, there are lots of patterns for those too. I'm not sure if my carb goal is correct, it's just what MacrosFirst gave me. I did find a good guideline on FB about protein, calories, water, etc. which I will share below. We did not get any rain, I should probably water either today or tomorrow. The dress code for our reunion was business casual, which means black pants and a top to me, LOL.
Vicki- WTG gong to water aerobics, glad you were missed. I started out at 0.25mg of semaglutide for 4 weeks, then 0.5mg for 4 weeks, then went up to 1mg, where I am now. Supposedly you can go as high as 2.4mg. From what I've read, some can wean themselves off the shot and keep the weight off, some gain it all back. I think I can sustain the way I am eating now, but am okay with continuing to take a maintenance dose. The NP I talked to said she takes 1mg once a month.
Murphy- Thanks for getting us started. Glad you slept well, are feeling better and that this was your second dose. Don't feel guilty about resting when you don't feel well.
Cathy- Yay for the scale being down. I will continue with yoga and low impact aerobics through the winter, and of course, walking.
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Post by amyj on Sept 7, 2024 18:40:50 GMT
Jan- This is the potholder. It looks good with variegated yarn, but I've made them with solid colors too.
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Post by amyj on Sept 7, 2024 18:42:42 GMT
From Facebook:
Just a little helpful info to not go crazy with yourself.
To find your caloric deficit- Multiply Current weight Ă— 12= maintenance then subtract 200-500 for .5 - 2lbs weight loss/week
To find out your protein goal- Multiply .7 to 1 Ă— goal weight
Drink half your body weight of water in oz
To gain 1lb of fat you need to eat 3500 calories above your maintenance.
Your body will fluctuate 1-4lbs daily, based on food, waste, water, sodium, cycle(for woman).
If you weigh yourself do it daily, then record your weekly average. Or do it same day/time weekly.
Take measurements monthly
Take weekly or monthly progress photos.
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Post by amyj on Sept 7, 2024 18:46:25 GMT
M-W Word of the Day
vilify verb | VIL-uh-fye What It Means To vilify someone or something is to say or write very harsh and critical things about them. The word is a synonym of defame. // They were vilified in the press for their comments.
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Post by lizmawmn on Sept 7, 2024 19:57:38 GMT
Hi girls, Just a quick fly by, I am babysitting Michael while Dd & DSIL took Isabel to the circus. The vertigo has subsided and the Meclazine was a heaven sent. Will catch up on the morning.
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Post by tatermom on Sept 8, 2024 0:32:15 GMT
Hi all. Been a good day. Got my steps and AP, walked the park and danced around in the basement. Of course neither of the games we planned to watch were on TV but we enjoyed the ending of the Notre Dame game and now hoping Nebraska beats Colorado. Worked on some projects, got my bag felted and will try to post pics tomorrow if it seems dry. Finished my book and just enjoyed the nice weather, cool and sunny. We just did tuna salad for dinner with some corn on the cob. Trying to work on my macros. I figured out some numbers from Amy's calculations. My calories are pretty close to what FB says but says I need about 120+ gms of protein a day, plus, of course, less carbs. I had my tuna in a bowl as a salad with tomatoes and cucumbers instead of bread. Now I expect to lose 5# over night! ha ha. Hope you all had a great Saturday, see you in the morning. Jan Amy Thanks for the info, just more data. Sorry about the Dish mess up with Disney. That's what happened to us a few years ago with Spectrum and we went to You Tube, DH could not Wait to see if they'd figure it out and miss fall sports!! Seems like they always do it this time of year. I was thinking about the Mark Twain quote, I'll be glad to be around in 20 years and remember what I even did that day!! Just going to keep making "fun" as much as we can, go on adventures, take care of me and enjoy. Yay for some bargains at the sale. Oh, I wanted to ask how you find your net carbs from your grams. Or does your tracker do that for you? My friend says there's a puffs square box that tears down the front, hard to explain. Have to see if I can find one and take a pic. Looks like the potholder is made from cotton, I'll have to look for a pattern. Going to be brave and do my me360 tomorrow am. Liz Bet you had a fun afternoon with Michael. How did the kids like the circus? So glad the meds are helping. Murphy Thanks for the slipcover info. Now I can't even remember how the cabin couch and loveseat look, but don't thing they have the T cushions. Waving hi
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Post by cathygeha on Sept 8, 2024 7:36:03 GMT
Start weight September 3: 166.6 September 10: September 17: September24: October 1: October 8: October 15: October 22: October 28 Happy Halloween! Final weigh in: Weigh-ins daily: original weigh in <166.6> 165.6
Quiet day yesterday and another expected today. Did talk to our daughter yesterday and hope to talk to our son and granddaughters today. Rosalie and I will go to Rosemary's tomorrow for lunch and to swim/laze by the pool before heading home after lunch. I am not sure what I will take but will talk to Rosemary today to see what she thinks. Nothing exciting to share - hope you all have a wonderful day today!
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