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Post by janelinedancer on Jan 17, 2019 21:18:29 GMT
I have done 30 min. of exercise so feel like I did some of my own SS and will plan my line dance class so will get a few more minutes of exercise. I have tossed almost every spice since they were all outdated but kept the Sea salt, pepper, basil and chili powder and the Mrs. Dash. I also cleaned the drawer under the stove so have all of this weeks organization/declutter work done.
I wrote the check for the care flight but missed today's mail so it will go out tomorrow. I need to make another call to Celebrity but could not go thru another one today and probably not tomorrow. I have to go to the bank in the morning because today's mail brought 4 checks and I like to deposit in person and get a bit of cash.
I called to see if Jeff was OK after his colonoscopy and woke him up. His MIL is in the hospital again. He said today's snow held off until they were almost home.
I have laundry going and need to take care of it.
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Post by grandmasandy2 on Jan 17, 2019 21:38:13 GMT
I really do appreciate your suggestion of telling Mike but Fred said he doesn't feel it's our place. For sure she hasn't asked her brother for any money as unlike us he would tell Mike and let the chips fall where they may. But we just don't want to be the ones to cause problems. This is something she has to work out but she does know she won't get any more money from us so if her not paying bills continues she will have to talk to Mike about it. We've done what we can.
We met Jim and Debbie at Olive Garden for lunch and we absolutely love him! So friendly, talkative, felt very comfortable with him. He tried to pay the check, funny boy you can't win that battle with Fred! Asked could he at least pay the tip and Fred said thanks but all taken care of! If this goes into something he would easily fit into the family. He's as different from Jeff as night is from day.
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Post by geritru on Jan 17, 2019 22:35:15 GMT
Sandy, I am sorry but I think Fred is wrong. This is your son's credit she is messing with as I am sure the mortgage is in both of their names. He may not even be aware that the home is in foreclosure. I am sure he would be very angry if you did not tell him. If the situation were reversed and the information was being withheld from Fred, wouldn't he want to know? Wouldn't he be angry if he was not told?
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Post by grandmasandy2 on Jan 18, 2019 0:56:50 GMT
Ruth the difference is Fred and I have never kept anything from each other even when a member of his family would say don't tell Sandy he would. But I think he does know about the house just not that she asked us for the money as that was what she didn't want us telling him. Which is exactly what she did last year. He has a lot of pressure right now and we don't want to add to it. I have left the decision up to Fred and he said we will not say anything so we won't. But she does know no more money from us.
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Post by geritru on Jan 18, 2019 1:33:07 GMT
Sandy, I can understand that. Will keep them in my prayers. Sometimes life gives us some hard blows!
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