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Post by LR63402 on Nov 25, 2020 11:50:33 GMT
This thread is for anyone that has been away from healthy eating, had a gain and is recommitting. We accept all forms of healthy eating here, whatever that means to you. We touch base daily for accountability and to encourage one another. This is a judgment free zone.
We all struggle to get the weight off and keep it off. Sometimes this is a challenge, but we never give up and that is the key. Regardless of our situation or where we are in reaching our goal, we count on talking to each other every day and are blessed to have one another as friends.
All are welcome here.
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Post by Jarmstrong on Nov 25, 2020 11:53:40 GMT
Good morning everyone and Happy Thanksgiving Eve to you all.
Lora I think we are probably posting at the same time. Did DD come in last night? I hope they arrived ok. I hope your back is feeling better this morning.
Ok I need to brb - I need to rearrange - LOL I went into the office late yesterday and got my large monitors and they are too big for my tiny desk and they are very wobbly - I am afraid I am going to lose one to the floor.
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Post by LR63402 on Nov 25, 2020 12:11:41 GMT
Good morning friends.
Well I ended up getting a lot done yesterday. All that is left to do today is to vacuum the area rug in the family room and do a little dusting on the mantle and bookshelf Mark will run the vacuum, the dusting should be something I can handle. I also plan to fillet out the pork loin today and get it stuffed, rolled and tied. Then wrap it well and put it back in the fridge so tomorrow I'll just have to pop it in the oven and prep the sauce and side.
My back was feeling pretty good when I had to get up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom, but when I got out of bed this morning I felt the muscles seize up again, and this time it was really hard. It took me a few minutes to actually make it all the way to my feet, moving very slowly. I hobbled to the kitchen and poured a coffee and headed to the hot shower to try to loosen it up a little. That did help some and now I'm enjoying coffee and the heating pad for a bit before I start of the things I need to do today. Janet - Ahhhhh! So it's actually your friends step son. That makes more sense to me now. Honestly, I just think it's probably time for social services to step in if there is no family there to help. In the shape she is in, she is probably going to be needing A LOT of assistance, and she can't possible think that you can handle everything for her. You have your own responsibilities, and it's not fair to you. Just my thoughts.
Susie - Sounds like yesterday was a very good day! I'm so glad! Enjoy your visiting and cooking and everything you have happening today and through the holiday weekend. I know I'm so looking forward to spending time with my DD.
Jana - I wonder if you need to lay down some ground rules with your father regarding what is and is not acceptable during your work hours? I get that it can probably get quite frustrating at times.
Waving to everyone and wishing you all a very happy and safe day! I'll do my best to check back later.
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Sometimes I forget to thank the people who make my life so happy in so many ways. Sometimes I forget to tell them how much I really do appreciate them for being an important part of my life. So thank you, all of you, for always being here for me.
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Post by LR63402 on Nov 25, 2020 12:13:16 GMT
Jana - Yikes! Get those monitors secured. Lol DD will arrive this afternoon sometime.
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Post by success4susie on Nov 25, 2020 12:30:07 GMT
Good Morning...got to bed very late last night and didn't get much sleep, but I am up and ready to head to outdoor exercise. I am bundled up! BBL...
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Post by jl5549 on Nov 25, 2020 12:39:42 GMT
Good morning and happy Thanksgiving Eve! Lora, I am sure your DD is excited about being home with you. Take it easy though, and I am sure sheād be happy to help you out. Thank goodness you are taking it slowly with your movements. You sure got a lot done yesterday, even moving slowly! I bet youāll be using your new table during the next few days, how fun! Susie, ((((hugs)))) I love your DHās response and it ās true. But, it doesnāt make it easier. I totally get it! Thatās what I keep thinking about with my kids down the road. But, your DD has found a way to come visit you during these tricky times, so no doubt that will continue in non-pandemic times. YOU will always be fabulous to the grandkids no matter where they are. YOU are LOVEDā¦ ((((hugs)))) Sounds like a lovely day yesterday. Today will be a memory maker with the DDs and you cooking together. Jana, with the new space in the house, is Pop in the same vicinity as you while you work? Hopefully you have some room to get away, maybe hammock time? I giggled at your monitor bitā¦ my DH were doing the same for his space yesterday. I want to move him because heās too near the perfect Christmas tree spot. But itās the monitors that make the decisionā¦ not us. (in his mind) Janet, your partner is NOT a partner at allā¦ partners assist each other. :/ It just seems that your friend is alone, except for you. Is there any talk of having her moving to a more permanent assistance place instead of home? Yesterday I couldnāt wait to pick up DS from Tampa. I sang and sang Christmas songs with the students all day while they did their activities. Itās so nice having him home. Today I have to run to the grocery store for a few last minute items. The dusting still needs to get done. :/ This afternoon, Iāll go to the fitness center with my DH. This afternoon and evening Iāll bake and prep which will help for tomorrow. DH works at 2, so we are eating at noon, which is a bit early for me. So it seems busy, but not really since itās all happy stuff. What I am really stressing about is our 5 kernel thanks tradition we do around the table. Pretty much each person takes turns saying what they are thankful for 5 times. So, this year I want to focus on the five other peopleā¦ my DD, and YDS I know what to sayā¦ I am in a panic about my MDS, I want the words to encourage him and make a difference. But heās had such a hard year. So, I better spend some time really making sure my words make sense and are helpful. I want him to feel special. DDās school is open today, so sheāll drive up early tomorrow. I love this time alone in the morning with my coffee and you all. ā¤ļø Thank you! Waving hi to Robin MD and all of you!
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Post by Jarmstrong on Nov 25, 2020 13:06:16 GMT
Ok I am back and monitors are situated better. I am not concerned they are going to fall in the floor anymore LOL. Yesterday was a better day work wise. Pop stayed in his room most of the day and only came in from time to time to chat for 5 minutes or so. I told him I wasn't ignoring him but I really did have work to do. The day was better but then in the evening............ little back story my DS was in a car accident a couple of weeks ago. She is ok but her car was damaged pretty bad. We were all supposed to go to my DA's house for Thanksgiving tomorrow. DS's car will be ready on Friday and she needs to pay her co-pay to pick her car up. Their $ is tight in the best of situations but with the accident and she just had to take a pay cut at work because of Covid they decided they were not going to DA's house for Thanksgiving. They are supposed to come here in a few weeks for our Christmas. Long story short - Pops has decided he is going to DS's house. She doesn't want him to go there. He is stressing her out. He has called her every night after he has gotten intoxicated being stubborn and insisting he is going to her house. I talked to him this morning - I don't know if he will remember it or not - but it is all I can do at the moment.
Lora I am glad you are able to get things done despite your back. I really hope it loosens up and feels better soon. I am glad Mark is helping you with the vacuuming and other things. Enjoy your time with DD and DSIL.
Janet - I agree with Lora you may want to get social services involved with your DF. You can't do it all yourself.
Jill your posts sound so happy and positive. I will say it again, I am so glad you found us, seems like you fit right into our little group.
Susie I hope you have a great day today. Are you feeling any better?
RobinMD not sure if you are working or off (I think you said you had a short week this week). I hope things are going well with you.
I have a short work day today. However I need to take the dogs to the kennel, I schedule a manicure for this afternoon and I have a 4 p.m. dental appointment. I also need to get packed so we can leave first thing tomorrow morning. I am not sure what I was thinking when I scheduled a dental appointment for so late in the afternoon. It is just my regular cleaning.
If I don't make it back here today, I hope you all have an amazing holiday!
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Post by Jarmstrong on Nov 25, 2020 13:09:11 GMT
Jill you asked about my office space. Our new house is big - we have 5 bedrooms. 4 of them are all on one end of the house (or as I like to refer to it - another wing - lol) So DH's office, my office, a guest room and Pop's room are all kind of all on the same hall. Pop has what used to be the old master bedroom in this house so he has his own bathroom and a nice walk in closet. DH's has the next largest room for his office. He always works from home so I felt like he should have that space. I have the smallest of the rooms as my office/craft room. I wanted to have a guest room that was roomy enough that people could actually stay in it. There is also another bathroom on this end of the house.
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Post by success4susie on Nov 25, 2020 20:52:10 GMT
Exercise class went really well today... I actually smiled like I used to during class (even though it was cold - ha).
Lora - so sorry about your back...I will give you the advice DH gives me...don't do too much to straighten up and clean...your DD knows what your house looks like and it is neat anyway!
Jill - love the "thankful" tradition. We have tried it a couple times and people keep saying the same things ie. family, home, health - which is good, but it sounds like you say specific things to encourage each child.
Jana- hope Pops stays with the plan and doesn't try heading to DS's house - she has enough on her plate too. Glad WFH went a little better. You do have a lot going on today..enjoy the manicure- that will be the best part - lol!
I am feeling better...we went out to lunch with YDD, her DBF and our MDGD. We sat outside at Sedona Grill and it was nice in the sun with our coats on, but by the time we left, I was c-o-l-d.
DH and I are both ready to rest now... I am going to read and hope I fall asleep immediately for a nice nap.
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Post by janjasmine on Nov 25, 2020 23:47:44 GMT
Hi Everyone,
I am getting here later tonite. I was finished with our zoom sessions early today. Yeah! My partner as questionable as that it is doesn't understand the way the links work for zoom. She calls me when I am in the session. I ignored her the first session because I was using my phone to show the kids a story on the tablet. IF I stopped to start messing with the links I lose the kid's attention.
It did appear tho that I only sent her the 10:3O one but I had already sent her others for the same time for this week. She just doesn't get it. Once we are back at school maybe I will show her but not sure that I want to waste my time or breath on it as it probably won't change anything.
I took a short walk around my development since I cant go to the gym and need to get out some for fresh air.
Jana, sorry about your father being annoying when you are trying to work.
I hope everyone has a nice meal together of those who are planning to eat together
I called a while back to the Philadelphia Corporation for Aging. Right about the time they transferred my friend to the rehab someone called me for an update because she couldn't reach her at home. My friend said that the lady did call her there. I havent heard from her since but I do still have her in one of my messages. Tommorow will be a quiet day. It's supposed to rain a good part of the day anyway so not doing much but hang with Cassie, read,etc. I still dont have results yet but my coworker said it would actually take longer than what the other person told me. Also, according to her that if it was positive they would call but if negative they will send an email. All I was told look for an email. They gave no follow up directions that were written. My coworker / partner didn't bother to get one either and she said she is going to NY which when she comes back may need to quarantine but I think according to her it seems like she doesn't really want to be in the center so I guess it wouldn't bother her to quarantine as she can stay home. Ok, have a good night!
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Post by robinmd on Nov 26, 2020 1:46:37 GMT
Hello all,
Home from work and looking forward to a relaxing day off tomorrow. No big plans here. I only work a half day on Friday, off Saturday, then work at the station on Sunday. And off Monday. Not too bad. Work is just busy right now, so I am DONE by the time I get home.
Jana, I thought I remembered that you had your own office space. Now that you really need it, you can get it set up in a good useful space.
Lora, I sure hope your back loosens up again. Hopefully, you will be so relaxed and enjoy the time with DD, that your muscles will relax a little.
Susie, I'm glad you are having such a fun week with family. I think we all get to delve into some self-pity and sadness every now and then. It is part of the process of dealing with what you really feel. We have to put a better face forward, but we can't deny that inside we are feeling a totally different way. I have been a little down thinking about family lately, and I do feel sorry for myself sometimes. It doesn't last, and I do feel gratitude, but I just miss people and wonderful times spent with them, and how life and "things" have changed over time. I think it is just natural to feel that way...especially when we have been so lucky to have good things to remember.
Jill, glad you have your happy home full of family again. Enjoy every minute (I know you will). It sounds great.
Janet, enjoy your relaxing with Cassie! I will be hanging with the dogs tomorrow and taking it easy.
I am going to get the kitchen cleaned up. I will be back tomorrow. I hope everyone is having a great start to your Thanksgiving weekend!
RobinMD
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