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Post by amyj on Sept 20, 2024 12:43:03 GMT
Welcome to Alcohol Free is What We Want To Be!We are glad you are here with us! If you have been struggling with your weight and have found this board you undoubtedly have your own unique, complicated relationship with alcohol and food. Laying out the problem honestly can give you the extra push you need to succeed in getting it under control. A few questions for you to think about...do you wake up at 3 AM wondering what did you do? Do you sometimes have no recall of the evening before or do you try to recover your memory of the evening before you even get out of bed? Is your spouse angry with you...or do you simply think that A is taking over too much of your life, affecting your weight loss? These are hard questions but know that you will find understanding, love, encouragement and support on this thread. We are each in a different stage of this journey but you will find others have shared your experiences. There is no judgment, just an acknowledgement that we have been there, done that. This board of great people will support you in your journey.
Some of us have been here for several years, others are new, but all are welcome and if you have visited before but didn't stay, there is still and always a place for you. Don't get overwhelmed, take your time, if something strikes you, respond. We are great at giving advice, whether you want it or not....you will get tough love, if necessary, but you will also find help. We practice positive self-talk and support, we encourage and gently hold each other accountable. We each have stories to tell, share and suggestions to help. We post different challenges during the year. Please join us if you think this is the group for you. You will be glad you did.
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Post by amyj on Sept 20, 2024 12:43:17 GMT
HOCUS POCUS, WE NEED TO FOCUS!
September 3 - October 31
The focus of this challenge is to become a healthier, happier, Boo-ti-ful person for Halloween and it wonât be a costume.
As always we are working towards/maintaining being AF! We need to take a look at what is our witching hour and how do we prevent it. What can you replace your brew with? One suggestion is make a list of treats that you will be able to have if you donât give into the brew. Give yourself a face mask (facial) or maybe make mummy jalapeño poppers.
For this challenge to work you have to commit and take it seriously in spite of the puns. Respect the importance of the challenge. RESPECT YOURSELF by focusing on your health and taking care of yourself.
This isn't easy, no one said it would be. Are you in an emotional war when it comes to alcohol? Declare a moratorium and determine that it isn't helping you, in fact it may be causing you problems. Can you decide to be alcohol free for the challenge? Can you determine your detours, not necessarily to take them but to plan so it isn't a free fall into AIE? Don't give yourself an excuse that oh my day has been a fright so I will have a drink or I'm bored so I will drink to get through the evening. During the challenge the primary goal is to abstain from alcohol. We understand there may be special occasions for which you may plan for an AIM detour. However please remember if AIM becomes a relapse....we still want you back! Don't berate yourself. Come back to the board, 'fess up and get back on track. We are here to be supportive of each other in reaching our goals.
So what are you going to be for Halloween and beyond? A much healthier, happier person sounds great! RIP alcohol and junk food. AND you will be going into the final two months of the year in great shape!
Have a healthy, happy Halloween!
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Post by amyj on Sept 20, 2024 12:43:34 GMT
THE EIGHT GOOD HEALTH GUIDELINES 1. Eat at least five servings of vegetables and fruits each day. 2. Choose whole-grain foods, such as brown rice and oats, whenever possible. 3. Include two servings of milk products â low fat (1%) or fat-free â each day. 4. Have some healthy oil (olive oil, canola, sunflower, safflower or flaxseed each day. 5. Ensure that you are getting enough protein by choosing at least a serving or two of meat, poultry, fish, eggs or dried beans each day. Many dairy products are also good sources of protein. 6. Limit added sugar and alcohol. 7. Drink at least 6 8-ounce glasses of water a day. 8. Take a multiple vitamin-mineral supplement each day.
NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: One or more fruit daily: One or more vegetable daily: Dairy: Healthy Oils:
AF: AIM: ANIM: Exercise goal:
HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY
Journal: Move Accountability: Sleep Accountability: Nutrition Accountability: Happiness Accountability: Habit Accountability: Check in Daily Accountability: Time Management Accountability: What did you do for yourself today?
Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote Start weight September 3: September 10: September 17: September24: October 1: October 8: October 15: October 22: October 28
Happy Halloween! Final weigh in:
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Post by amyj on Sept 20, 2024 13:15:46 GMT
THE EIGHT GOOD HEALTH GUIDELINES 1. Eat at least five servings of vegetables and fruits each day. 2. Choose whole-grain foods, such as brown rice and oats, whenever possible. 3. Include two servings of milk products â low fat (1%) or fat-free â each day. 4. Have some healthy oil (olive oil, canola, sunflower, safflower or flaxseed each day. 5. Ensure that you are getting enough protein by choosing at least a serving or two of meat, poultry, fish, eggs or dried beans each day. Many dairy products are also good sources of protein. 6. Limit added sugar and alcohol. 7. Drink at least 6 8-ounce glasses of water a day. 8. Take a multiple vitamin-mineral supplement each day.
NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: 96/75 oz goal One or more fruit daily: Y One or more vegetable daily: Y Dairy: Y Healthy Oils: Y
AF: (mostly alcohol free since August 16, 2006): 6609 AIM: 0 ANIM: 1 (021221) Fitbit Goal/burned: 2170/2101
HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY
Journal: Y Move Accountability: 4, 13,300+ steps, 250 steps 8/8 hours, aerobics, walked at the clubhouse, workout with weights, laps in the basement, counter PU, wall stretches Sleep Accountability: 3, slept well, 7.5 hours, Fitbit score 88, stress management 84 Nutrition Accountability: 3, protein bar, protein shake, egg wrap, yogurt, fruit, broccoli soup, ice cream cone MacrosFirst: Protein: 97/137 (28%), Carbs: 123/100 (36%), Fiber: 30gm, Net Carbs: 83, Fat: 54/45 (35%), Calories: 1286/1353, 67 under, gold star, better day Happiness Accountability: 3, enjoyed the day, watched The Morning Show and more of Emmys recording, stitched, read before bed Habit Accountability: 3, more water than Diet Coke Check in Daily Accountability: 3, I'm here! Time Management Accountability: 3, aerobics, walked, cleaned cabinets, polished granite, stitched, couch time What did you do for yourself today? reading, time outside, stitched
Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote: âYou have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose. Youâre on your own. And you know what you know. And YOU are the one whoâll decide where to go.ââDr. Seuss, Oh, the Places Youâll Go!
Start weight September 3: 154.6 September 10: 154.4 September 17: 153.6 September 24: October 1: October 8: October 15: October 22: October 28
Happy Halloween! Final weigh in:
2024 Goals: 11,000 steps each day: 248/269 At least 7 hours sleep: 126/269 Lift weights twice/week: Wk 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13:only once, 14, 15, 16, 17:only once, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 Starting weight: 179.8 Get to the 160's: March 10, 2024 150s: June 24, 2024 140s:
Low impact aerobics was fun but I was really tired afterwards. DH met me at the clubhouse and we walked around for a while. When we got home I picked green beans, cherry tomatoes, and a cucumber. Then I got busy on my project of the day, cleaning the wood of the kitchen and bathroom cabinets. There was a lot of sitting on the floor but I did pretty well getting up and down. While everything was off the counters I polished the granite. Then lunch and couch time. I made broccoli soup for dinner. DH & DD had grilled cheese with it, I had a slice of French bread with butter. After dinner I started watching The Morning Show, figured I would check it out since it's always nominated for awards. I'm enjoying it so far. I was in bed earlier and slept well.
It's another sunny morning in the mid-60's. It's getting a bit warmer every day and we're supposed to be in the 90's over the weekend. I was hoping we were done with the 90's for this year.
Jan- WTG steps, PU, stretches, tracking, AF. Yay for seeing the sights, sampling treats, seeing reunion pics of FB. Glad your friend made it safely home to Oregon. We haven't had any more issues with the smoke alarms.
Carole- Happy anniversary!
Cindy- Glad your SIL is selling the house and in a good place. Yay for successful kneeling! Sorry about the heat and DS being sad about DSIL selling house. My haircut isn't that different, it's a stacked bob, maybe a little shorter in the back.
Cathy- Glad you had a quiet day at home reading on the patio with Bella in your lap. Stay safe!
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Post by amyj on Sept 20, 2024 13:17:51 GMT
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Post by amyj on Sept 20, 2024 13:18:32 GMT
M-W Word of the Day
winnow verb | WIN-oh What It Means In general contexts, winnowing is about removing what is not wanted. One can winnow items, or one can winnow something that has items: you winnow less important or less desirable items by removing them from a group, list, etc.; and you winnow a list or group by removing the less important or less desirable items from it. In agricultural contexts, to winnow chaff (unwanted seed coverings and other debris) is to remove it from grain by throwing the grain up in the air and letting the wind blow the unwanted parts away. // The search committee is finding it extremely difficult to winnow the list of job candidates down to three finalists; many of them are highly qualified. // We'll need to winnow down our options. // Harvesters winnowed the chaff from the wheat.
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Post by tatermom on Sept 20, 2024 13:39:22 GMT
I look to 2024 with a renewed commitment to Progressâ âOut the Door in 2024â NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: daily goal 70: 90 oz One or more fruit daily: 2 One or more vegetable daily: 3 Sober Spring AF: 241 Sober September: 16 AIM: 19 ANIM: 4 Fitbit Goal/burned: 2,000/2,049 JUST JOURNAL! HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY Move Accountability: Step goal 8,500: 6,009 steps,11/11 hours, 105 PU, 6 floors, stretched, walked each hour Sleep Accountability: 8 hours, 86 sleep, 80 stress, resting HR 69 Nutrition Accountability: 34/23 -16 weeklies HB eggs, ham, banana, pizza, custard, pie filling, apple, salad, Fitbit Macros: calorie goal @1500/1,648 cal 37% carbs, 158g, 45%fat, 81g, 18% protein 75g, fiber 9 g, 349 over Happiness Accountability: 4 feeling happy Habit Accountability: 4 Journal, stretch, FB meditation Check in Daily Accountability: 5 I'm here!! Time Management Accountability: 4 drive to airport, knitting, out for pizza, stopped at another orchard, nap, TV time What did you do for yourself today? 4 visit with friend, explored new places, TV, knit Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or quote: "Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself. " GB Shaw If you are waiting on weight loss to love and accept your body, I hate to break it to you...but true love and acceptance should be unconditional. Your body doesn't need to look like or do anything specifically to be loved, accepted, appreciated or deemed worthy. (Some words from a Connect Post.) HOCUS POCUS, WE NEED TO FOCUS! Start weight September 3: 195 cabin September 10: 193 September 17: ? September24: October 1: October 8: October 15: October 22: October 28 Happy Halloween! Final weigh in: Good morning all. Day one of trying to get back in the routine and OP. Of course messed up a bit already as DH is up with TV on and my brain gets a bit scrambled with the extra noise Slept pretty well, some crazy dreams but going to be a good day. Have a grocery list made out, a plan for dinner and what I can use out of the freezer. DF sent a message yesterday that she was home and all went well. Glad her flight went well as we got some rain and storms last night but going to warm up again today. By the weekend we are supposed to be starting in the fall mode of high 60's low 70's. Debating a Costco run this morning, try to beat the weekend rush. Only "Need" is the protein drink but I know I would find other distractions so I may wait until next week. I have plenty of things to work on around here, just need to get started and stick with it. HOpe you all have a great Friday and can enjoy your weekend. DS sent a text that he will be calling today or tomorrow as it's been awhile since we could chat. Something to look forward to for sure. Later, Jan Cindy Sure glad your friend figured out about her tire ha ha. Yay for being able to kneel, now don't go crazy and hurt yourself doing it!! I wouldn't say there is anyone new I'd need to keep in contact with from the reunion but it was fun to put more faces to certain names. I do see a lot more people still posting things on Fb and sure that will die down soon too. Glad your DSIL has made a good decision for herself. the Apartment sounds beautiful. Is it still in the same town or area? Cathy Hope you can get what you need in town if you go. I'll bet Bella is glad to have you home and reading on the porch. glad you didn't feel like you missed cards. Watching the news about Beirut is scary, stay safe. Carole Congrats on 31 years. Yep, the time flies by. Sorry work has been so crazy and hot. Enjoy your time off this weekend. Amy Glad you enjoyed aerobics. Sorry you are still going to get some hot temps. Is you garden almost done now? I need to figure out something to do with the bag of apples I bought. I may make a kind of tart with just a bottom crust but then also a pot of cut up cooked apples, just like the pie filling to eat that may have less points if I use 1/2 splenda or something. Can't say I've ever watched the morning show either. Have fun with the kids tonight. Waving hi
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Post by WWVicki on Sept 20, 2024 14:56:32 GMT
Hi girls. Another quick post. Yesterday I only did the water class because I was really tired and my knee was still sore. I came home and did take a nap, but just didnât feel good all afternoon. DH gave me a B12 shot this morning, so I hope to get some vim and vigor! Iâd better, because Iâm heading up to DDâs this afternoon to get Rylee off the bus and am bringing her home with me. The best way I can help DD is to keep Rylee entertained and AWAY from her! đ Little Miss Rylee needs LOTS of attention and talks nonstop. Yes, when we went Wednesday, it was the first time we had seen the house. Itâs very nice and a good size for them. I have to admit, I was a little surprised by the size of Rylees room. Itâs smaller than I expected. There are 4 bedrooms upstairs. Hers and what will be the playroom are both small. Plus the house is dated and needs the kitchen redone. But eventually when they get done with all the changes, it will be very nice. They have some steep stairs though. Oh to be young again! I hope all of you have a wonderful weekend doing just what you want!
Cindy: I have often said, if something happens to DH, I will move into an apartment. My mom loved hers! Was this conversation with your âfriendâ in person or on the phone? I think you said it was for lunch. Hopefully she wonât be back anymore or all of a sudden, you will be very busy when she tries to get together!
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Post by flower on Sept 21, 2024 1:17:40 GMT
Hi friends! Soooo happy itâs Friday! We had a lockdown drill this morning at workâduring set up time. We sure scrambled once it was over! DH, Ty and myself went golfing today. Tyler actually got hit in the head from a shanked ball. I almost got hit on the cheek because the idiots went too soon. But it was fun(?) very frustrating game for one hole, super fun the next hole.
Amy, I love that you joined all these classes and take advantage of them.
Jan, have a great chat with DS!
Cindy, good for DSIL taking care of herself. I canât imagine how she must feel leaving all of those memories. So nice she cared enough to tell you of her plans. Yay for kneeling!! Your friend sounds exhausting. Take care of you and say youâre busy if she asks you out again!
Vicki, have fun with Rylee!
Cathy, I loved your pictures on Facebook! Bella is beautiful!
Hello Murphy and Liz! Have a great night!
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Post by cathygeha on Sept 21, 2024 8:02:36 GMT
Start weight September 3: 166.6 September 10: 166.6 September 17: 166.6 September 24: October 1: October 8: October 15: October 22: October 28 Happy Halloween! Final weigh in: Weigh-ins daily: original weigh in <166.6>168.4 [more of those salty crunchy bagged snacks leaped off the shelf and magically opened asking to be eaten]
Thanks for all of the support from afar. The AWC (American Women's Club) has tentatively scheduled a pie event in East Beirut that I may attend...depending on what happens between now and Tuesday. Fingers crossed things don't escalate.
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