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Post by amyj on Oct 22, 2024 12:49:47 GMT
Welcome to Alcohol Free is What We Want To Be!We are glad you are here with us! If you have been struggling with your weight and have found this board you undoubtedly have your own unique, complicated relationship with alcohol and food. Laying out the problem honestly can give you the extra push you need to succeed in getting it under control. A few questions for you to think about...do you wake up at 3 AM wondering what did you do? Do you sometimes have no recall of the evening before or do you try to recover your memory of the evening before you even get out of bed? Is your spouse angry with you...or do you simply think that A is taking over too much of your life, affecting your weight loss? These are hard questions but know that you will find understanding, love, encouragement and support on this thread. We are each in a different stage of this journey but you will find others have shared your experiences. There is no judgment, just an acknowledgement that we have been there, done that. This board of great people will support you in your journey.
Some of us have been here for several years, others are new, but all are welcome and if you have visited before but didn't stay, there is still and always a place for you. Don't get overwhelmed, take your time, if something strikes you, respond. We are great at giving advice, whether you want it or not....you will get tough love, if necessary, but you will also find help. We practice positive self-talk and support, we encourage and gently hold each other accountable. We each have stories to tell, share and suggestions to help. We post different challenges during the year. Please join us if you think this is the group for you. You will be glad you did.
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Post by amyj on Oct 22, 2024 12:50:17 GMT
HOCUS POCUS, WE NEED TO FOCUS!
September 3 - October 31
The focus of this challenge is to become a healthier, happier, Boo-ti-ful person for Halloween and it wonât be a costume.
As always we are working towards/maintaining being AF! We need to take a look at what is our witching hour and how do we prevent it. What can you replace your brew with? One suggestion is make a list of treats that you will be able to have if you donât give into the brew. Give yourself a face mask (facial) or maybe make mummy jalapeño poppers.
For this challenge to work you have to commit and take it seriously in spite of the puns. Respect the importance of the challenge. RESPECT YOURSELF by focusing on your health and taking care of yourself.
This isn't easy, no one said it would be. Are you in an emotional war when it comes to alcohol? Declare a moratorium and determine that it isn't helping you, in fact it may be causing you problems. Can you decide to be alcohol free for the challenge? Can you determine your detours, not necessarily to take them but to plan so it isn't a free fall into AIE? Don't give yourself an excuse that oh my day has been a fright so I will have a drink or I'm bored so I will drink to get through the evening. During the challenge the primary goal is to abstain from alcohol. We understand there may be special occasions for which you may plan for an AIM detour. However please remember if AIM becomes a relapse....we still want you back! Don't berate yourself. Come back to the board, 'fess up and get back on track. We are here to be supportive of each other in reaching our goals.
So what are you going to be for Halloween and beyond? A much healthier, happier person sounds great! RIP alcohol and junk food. AND you will be going into the final two months of the year in great shape!
Have a healthy, happy Halloween!
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Post by amyj on Oct 22, 2024 12:50:38 GMT
THE EIGHT GOOD HEALTH GUIDELINES 1. Eat at least five servings of vegetables and fruits each day. 2. Choose whole-grain foods, such as brown rice and oats, whenever possible. 3. Include two servings of milk products â low fat (1%) or fat-free â each day. 4. Have some healthy oil (olive oil, canola, sunflower, safflower or flaxseed each day. 5. Ensure that you are getting enough protein by choosing at least a serving or two of meat, poultry, fish, eggs or dried beans each day. Many dairy products are also good sources of protein. 6. Limit added sugar and alcohol. 7. Drink at least 6 8-ounce glasses of water a day. 8. Take a multiple vitamin-mineral supplement each day.
NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: One or more fruit daily: One or more vegetable daily: Dairy: Healthy Oils:
AF: AIM: ANIM: Exercise goal:
HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY
Journal: Move Accountability: Sleep Accountability: Nutrition Accountability: Happiness Accountability: Habit Accountability: Check in Daily Accountability: Time Management Accountability: What did you do for yourself today?
Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote Start weight September 3: September 10: September 17: September24: October 1: October 8: October 15: October 22: October 28
Happy Halloween! Final weigh in:
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Post by amyj on Oct 22, 2024 13:10:48 GMT
THE EIGHT GOOD HEALTH GUIDELINES 1. Eat at least five servings of vegetables and fruits each day. 2. Choose whole-grain foods, such as brown rice and oats, whenever possible. 3. Include two servings of milk products â low fat (1%) or fat-free â each day. 4. Have some healthy oil (olive oil, canola, sunflower, safflower or flaxseed each day. 5. Ensure that you are getting enough protein by choosing at least a serving or two of meat, poultry, fish, eggs or dried beans each day. Many dairy products are also good sources of protein. 6. Limit added sugar and alcohol. 7. Drink at least 6 8-ounce glasses of water a day. 8. Take a multiple vitamin-mineral supplement each day.
NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: 96/75 oz goal One or more fruit daily: Y One or more vegetable daily: Y Dairy: Y Healthy Oils: Y
AF: (mostly alcohol free since August 16, 2006): 6641 AIM: 0 ANIM: 1 (021221) Fitbit Goal/burned: 2170/1883
HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY
Journal: Y Move Accountability: 3, 11,000+ steps, 250 steps 8/8 hours, walked the nature trail, yoga, laps in the basement, counter PU, wall stretches Sleep Accountability: 3, slept well, 7+ hours, Fitbit score 91, stress management 84 Nutrition Accountability: 3, fruit, yogurt, breakfast wrap, pork chop, chile rellenos casserole, ice cream cone, protein shake MacrosFirst: Protein: 117/137 (35%), Carbs: 107/100 (27%), Fiber: 27gm, Net Carbs: 80, Fat: 50/45 (33%), Calories: 1288/1353, 65 under, gold star, good macros Happiness Accountability: 3, enjoyed the day, watched Hallmark movie, read before bed Habit Accountability: 3, more water than Diet Coke Check in Daily Accountability: 3, I'm here! Time Management Accountability: 3, walking, canned green beans, prepared veggies for chow chow, couch time What did you do for yourself today? reading, time outside
Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote: âA diamond is merely a lump of coal that did well under pressure.â âUnknown
Start weight September 3: 154.6 September 10: 154.4 September 17: 153.6 September 24: 153.4 October 1: 152.6 October 8: 152.2 October 15: 151.4 October 22: 150.4 October 28
Happy Halloween! Final weigh in:
2024 Goals: 11,000 steps each day: 279/295 At least 7 hours sleep: 145/295 Lift weights twice/week: Wk 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13:only once, 14, 15, 16, 17:only once, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37, 38, 39, 40, 41, 42 Starting weight: 179.8 Get to the 160's: March 10, 2024 150s: June 24, 2024 140s:
DH & I walked the nature trail yesterday morning, saw deer 3 times. The third time, they ran across the trail ahead of us, went through the woods, crossed the creek. "Rustle, rustle, splash!" When we got back I snapped green beans, cut up veggies and chopped them in the food processor for chow chow. The veggies are soaking in salt overnight, I'll finish canning them today. I ended up with 5 more pints of green beans, that will be that for this year. I used up a lot of the green tomatoes in the chow chow, as well as some of the peppers. I've still got a bunch of peppers to freeze. I had some couch time yesterday but didn't nap. The last Monday evening yoga class was good. I'll miss the instructor and the other people that go. We had grilled pork chops, leftover chile rellenos casserole, green beans, and sliced tomatoes for dinner. I watched a Hallmark Christmas movie after dinner and was having trouble staying awake.
It's another pretty day today, off to yoga in a few minutes.
Jan- WTG steps, PU, AP, blue dot, AF. Yay for a beautiful day, enjoy the Jude Devereaux book from the Free Little Library.
Vicki- At least it wasn't a Lost Weekend due to A! We could all do with a happy dance, joy party, and hugs!
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Post by amyj on Oct 22, 2024 15:32:47 GMT
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Post by amyj on Oct 22, 2024 15:33:19 GMT
M-W Word of the Day
betwixt adverb or preposition | bih-TWIKST What It Means Betwixt is a synonym of between that lends an old-fashioned feel to both speech and writing. It is sometimes used in the phrase "betwixt and between" to mean "in the middle" or "neither one thing nor the other." // Charley took a seat betwixt two other passengers. // They sat on the long bench, a pile of books betwixt them. // The novel's protagonist is at the edge of early adulthood, when one is betwixt and between.
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Post by tatermom on Oct 22, 2024 16:10:38 GMT
I look to 2024 with a renewed commitment to Progressâ âOut the Door in 2024â NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: daily goal 70: 80 oz One or more fruit daily: 3 One or more vegetable daily: 3 AF: 253 October: 10 Fitbit Goal/burned: 2,000/2,283 JUST JOURNAL! HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY Move Accountability: Step goal 8,500: 8,486 steps, 11/11 hours, 105PU, 12 floors, walked at the river, AP Sleep Accountability: 8 hours, 78 sleep, 83 stress, resting HR 73 Nutrition Accountability: 25/23 New week! eggs, beans, delicata, pineapple, banana, 1/2 muscle milk, lo tuna in salad, chicken, arugula pear salad, blue cheese. 3 wine Fitbit Macros: calorie goal @1500/1,716 57% carb 134, 22% fat 43g, 21% protein 90g fiber 21g, 183. over. -3 weeklies for the week Happiness Accountability: 4 feeling happy Habit Accountability: 4 Journal, stretch, FB meditation, PU Check in Daily Accountability: 5. I'm here!! Time Management Accountability: 4 Cleaned in kitchen, worked on crafts upstairs, knit, TV time, walked by the University trail, read What did you do for yourself today? 4 read, knit, outside time Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or quote: âDonât be afraid to start all over again, you may like your new story better. If you are waiting on weight loss to love and accept your body, I hate to break it to you...but true love and acceptance should be unconditional. Your body doesn't need to look like or do anything specifically to be loved, accepted, appreciated or deemed worthy. (Some words from a Connect Post.) HOCUS POCUS, WE NEED TO FOCUS! Start weight September 3: 195 cabin September 10: 193 September 17: ? September24: 194 October 1: 195.2 Went to WI today October 8: 196 at home. 195.4 at home this morning. October 15: 196.4. 195.4 at home today October 22: 195.4 October 28 Happy Halloween! Final weigh in: Good morning all. Just trying to stay out of my own way and get out of my A, AF, A, AF day pattern. See if I can get the rest of the week AF, I just don't seem to have my head in the game. Do it today and then worry about tomorrow, tomorrow. Had a nice day otherwise, got a few projects done and added to my tote. I had a lot of acorn tops that I turned into little ornaments, glued old mini glass balls to them and added a string through the top. Stuffed up some more cat toys and may look online today to see if there are any easy patterns to make small things, just to have a basket full of choices. Maybe I can get sis involved in some production line tomorrow while she's here . Today I will get my steps in, have some outside time before it gets cold tomorrow. We will have left overs for dinner and then purge what's left into the garbage for tomorrow's pickup. Last night I made a yummy tarragon chicken mushroom recipe from the WW site. It was yummy with our arugula salad, even DH approved . When I came though town on the way home from WW I drove past the early voting site that's on the corner. There was a long line outside onto the sidewalk! Not sure if that is good or bad news but at least people seem to be taking the election seriously either way. I checked online and it showed my ballot was received a week or so ago. Now we just wait. Hope you all have a great day. Jan Amy. Yay you! You will make a new decade in the next week or so!! Congrats. Do you think the extra yoga and aerobics is helping move the scale along too?, as you always were walking a lot of steps. Glad the last class was nice and sorry it's ending. Did she hint at ever trying to start it up again? Sounds like you were busy in the kitchen, must be a bit of a relief to have all the Green beans done. How are your winter veggies doing? I am enjoying my book, it's called The Magnolia Tree. Easy, feel good read. Did you ever figure out Stridekick? I finally deleted it off my phone. GG. A joy party and hug sounds like good therapy. All we can do is pick up the reins and get back on the cart, whether from the food or A. I say as long as I keep coming here and going to meetings I'm aware and doing more positive things than negative. Better to savor the muffin or cake and know your next choices will be better, than to take the joy out of it by feeling angry at yourself for doing it. Let's have a good week together . Waving hi and will check back later. Need to get moving.
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Post by WWVicki on Oct 22, 2024 17:16:49 GMT
Hi girls. Guess who actually rolled over 4 points yesterday? Yes, that would be me! I went to a zoom yesterday and was determined to stay OP. At 1:30 Iâm going to attend a move party. My regular instructor wasnât at our water class today. The younger one that does a harder routine was there. I was able to keep up with her, but I will say, my knees hurt! Sheâs just not a very happy person. My goal each time I see her is to make her smile. I actually got 3 smiles out of her! đ Iâm going to run into the church and make sure my iPad can attach to the projector for tomorrowâs presentation. And tonight is bells.
Amy: You are so right about losing weekends with A. Good point. Thank you!
Jan: When I ate the cake, I wasnât savoring, I was shoveling. At this point, I just need to skip the sweets for awhile until I donât want them all the time. I did stop and get some yummy Evercrisp apples at the farm stand. My new favorite! Yes, weâll have a good week together! When are you going back to the Y?
Hi Cindy! I sure hope you are feeling better by now!
Hi Cathy. I am always amazed by all your vegan creations!
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Post by cindy on Oct 23, 2024 6:41:32 GMT
Hi All!
Will check in tomorrow. Bit by bit doing better. Hugs to all, Cindy
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Post by cathygeha on Oct 23, 2024 8:56:57 GMT
Start weight September 3: 166.6 September 10: 166.6 September 17: 166.6 September 24: 168.2 [166.2 yesterday] October 1: 168.4 October 8: 165.8 October 15: 168.8 October 22: 170.6 October 28 Happy Halloween! Final weigh in: Weigh-ins daily: original weigh in <166.6> 170.6 [day two]
Spent a couple of hours with a friend yesterday afternoon. We had a sip of whiskey, nuts, chips, and played cards. It was nice to get dressed and spend time with a human being other than my husband. We will do it again next week if the situation is stable.
Today's lunch will star white beans...not sure if they will go into soup or if I will mash them and make a wrap...the wrap with veggies sounds good for some reason
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