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Post by amyj on Oct 26, 2024 12:32:48 GMT
Welcome to Alcohol Free is What We Want To Be!We are glad you are here with us! If you have been struggling with your weight and have found this board you undoubtedly have your own unique, complicated relationship with alcohol and food. Laying out the problem honestly can give you the extra push you need to succeed in getting it under control. A few questions for you to think about...do you wake up at 3 AM wondering what did you do? Do you sometimes have no recall of the evening before or do you try to recover your memory of the evening before you even get out of bed? Is your spouse angry with you...or do you simply think that A is taking over too much of your life, affecting your weight loss? These are hard questions but know that you will find understanding, love, encouragement and support on this thread. We are each in a different stage of this journey but you will find others have shared your experiences. There is no judgment, just an acknowledgement that we have been there, done that. This board of great people will support you in your journey.
Some of us have been here for several years, others are new, but all are welcome and if you have visited before but didn't stay, there is still and always a place for you. Don't get overwhelmed, take your time, if something strikes you, respond. We are great at giving advice, whether you want it or not....you will get tough love, if necessary, but you will also find help. We practice positive self-talk and support, we encourage and gently hold each other accountable. We each have stories to tell, share and suggestions to help. We post different challenges during the year. Please join us if you think this is the group for you. You will be glad you did.
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Post by amyj on Oct 26, 2024 12:34:50 GMT
HOCUS POCUS, WE NEED TO FOCUS!
September 3 - October 31
The focus of this challenge is to become a healthier, happier, Boo-ti-ful person for Halloween and it won’t be a costume.
As always we are working towards/maintaining being AF! We need to take a look at what is our witching hour and how do we prevent it. What can you replace your brew with? One suggestion is make a list of treats that you will be able to have if you don’t give into the brew. Give yourself a face mask (facial) or maybe make mummy jalapeño poppers.
For this challenge to work you have to commit and take it seriously in spite of the puns. Respect the importance of the challenge. RESPECT YOURSELF by focusing on your health and taking care of yourself.
This isn't easy, no one said it would be. Are you in an emotional war when it comes to alcohol? Declare a moratorium and determine that it isn't helping you, in fact it may be causing you problems. Can you decide to be alcohol free for the challenge? Can you determine your detours, not necessarily to take them but to plan so it isn't a free fall into AIE? Don't give yourself an excuse that oh my day has been a fright so I will have a drink or I'm bored so I will drink to get through the evening. During the challenge the primary goal is to abstain from alcohol. We understand there may be special occasions for which you may plan for an AIM detour. However please remember if AIM becomes a relapse....we still want you back! Don't berate yourself. Come back to the board, 'fess up and get back on track. We are here to be supportive of each other in reaching our goals.
So what are you going to be for Halloween and beyond? A much healthier, happier person sounds great! RIP alcohol and junk food. AND you will be going into the final two months of the year in great shape!
Have a healthy, happy Halloween!
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Post by amyj on Oct 26, 2024 12:35:06 GMT
THE EIGHT GOOD HEALTH GUIDELINES 1. Eat at least five servings of vegetables and fruits each day. 2. Choose whole-grain foods, such as brown rice and oats, whenever possible. 3. Include two servings of milk products – low fat (1%) or fat-free – each day. 4. Have some healthy oil (olive oil, canola, sunflower, safflower or flaxseed each day. 5. Ensure that you are getting enough protein by choosing at least a serving or two of meat, poultry, fish, eggs or dried beans each day. Many dairy products are also good sources of protein. 6. Limit added sugar and alcohol. 7. Drink at least 6 8-ounce glasses of water a day. 8. Take a multiple vitamin-mineral supplement each day.
NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: One or more fruit daily: One or more vegetable daily: Dairy: Healthy Oils:
AF: AIM: ANIM: Exercise goal:
HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY
Journal: Move Accountability: Sleep Accountability: Nutrition Accountability: Happiness Accountability: Habit Accountability: Check in Daily Accountability: Time Management Accountability: What did you do for yourself today?
Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote Start weight September 3: September 10: September 17: September24: October 1: October 8: October 15: October 22: October 28
Happy Halloween! Final weigh in:
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Post by amyj on Oct 26, 2024 12:39:49 GMT
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Post by amyj on Oct 26, 2024 12:40:23 GMT
M-W Word of the Day
categorical adjective | kat-uh-GOR-ih-kul What It Means Categorical is a synonym of absolute and definite that describes something that is said in a very strong and clear way. It can also mean "of, relating to, or constituting a category" or "involving, according with, or considered with respect to specific categories." // The organization has issued a categorical denial about its involvement in the deal. // The library relies on a categorical system for classifying books.
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Post by amyj on Oct 26, 2024 12:40:55 GMT
Be back later.
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Post by Tatermom2 on Oct 26, 2024 14:38:21 GMT
Hi girls. Well he popped the question last evening on the beach in Key Biscayne at sunset. I’m off to my Cricut class and will come check in here when I get home. Have a great day all. One excited mama. 🎉🤩 Jan
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Post by amyj on Oct 26, 2024 16:57:26 GMT
THE EIGHT GOOD HEALTH GUIDELINES 1. Eat at least five servings of vegetables and fruits each day. 2. Choose whole-grain foods, such as brown rice and oats, whenever possible. 3. Include two servings of milk products – low fat (1%) or fat-free – each day. 4. Have some healthy oil (olive oil, canola, sunflower, safflower or flaxseed each day. 5. Ensure that you are getting enough protein by choosing at least a serving or two of meat, poultry, fish, eggs or dried beans each day. Many dairy products are also good sources of protein. 6. Limit added sugar and alcohol. 7. Drink at least 6 8-ounce glasses of water a day. 8. Take a multiple vitamin-mineral supplement each day.
NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: 96/75 oz goal One or more fruit daily: Y One or more vegetable daily: Y Dairy: Y Healthy Oils: Y
AF: (mostly alcohol free since August 16, 2006): 6645 AIM: 0 ANIM: 1 (021221) Fitbit Goal/burned: 2170/1847
HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY
Journal: Y Move Accountability: 4, 12,600+ steps, 250 steps 8/8 hours, walked at Logan Farm Park/farmers market, Ingles, workout with weights, laps in the basement, counter PU, wall stretches Sleep Accountability: 2, up late with kids and reading, <5.5 hours, Fitbit score 80, stress management 91 Nutrition Accountability: 3, fruit, yogurt, egg wrap, kettle corn, pork roast, mac and cheese, ice cream cone, protein shake MacrosFirst: Protein: 94/137 (27%), Carbs: 149/100 (42%), Fiber: 23gm, Net Carbs: 126, Fat: 48/45 (31%), Calories: 1356/1353, 3 over, gold star Happiness Accountability: 3, enjoyed family time, watched IF movie, read before bed Habit Accountability: 3, more water than Diet Coke Check in Daily Accountability: 3, I'm here! Time Management Accountability: 3, ran robot vacuum, walking, shopping, couch time, stitched What did you do for yourself today? reading, time outside, stitched
Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote: “The adventure of life is to learn. The purpose of life is to grow. The nature of life is to change. The challenge of life is to overcome. The essence of life is to care.
Start weight September 3: 154.6 September 10: 154.4 September 17: 153.6 September 24: 153.4 October 1: 152.6 October 8: 152.2 October 15: 151.4 October 22: 150.4 October 28
Happy Halloween! Final weigh in:
2024 Goals: 11,000 steps each day: 283/299 At least 7 hours sleep: 145/299 Lift weights twice/week: Wk 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13:only once, 14, 15, 16, 17:only once, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37, 38, 39, 40, 41, 42, 43 Starting weight: 179.8 Get to the 160's: March 10, 2024 150s: June 24, 2024 140s: October 26, 2024 130s:
DH & I went to Logan Farm Park yesterday to walk and shop the farmer's market. We bought a couple of pansies, some kettle corn, and some frozen tamales. The walk was lovely, lots of folks at the park. We got groceries at Ingles on the way home. I had some couch time in the afternoon and started a load of laundry. We grilled a pork roast, which we had with mac and cheese, sauteed cabbage, green beans, sliced tomatoes and had leftover pistachio ice cream cones for dessert. DH didn't want to play Winky Dink, so we just watched the If movie with Ryan Reynolds and John Krazcynski (sp?). I stayed up too late reading but did quit before finishing the book.
DH, DS, & I walked the nature trail this morning, lots of pretty fall color. We had bacon, scrambled eggs, fresh fruit, and homemade banana walnut muffins for breakfast. The scale said 149.6 first thing this morning!
Jan- WTG steps, PU, tracking, AF. Yay for getting the patterns from the knitting lady. The knitted bird nest sounds interesting. LOL over the Maaarrsshhaa thing! Glad the meditation is helping you gain insight into your feelings. I've been enjoying cut up apples mixed into Greek yogurt with a little apple butter for sweetness. Yay for the question being popped!!! Exciting times ahead.
Cathy- Sorry about the smoke and odors. Hope the adjustment to the time change is an easy one.
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Post by tatermom on Oct 26, 2024 18:01:08 GMT
I look to 2024 with a renewed commitment to Progress” “Out the Door in 2024” NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: daily goal 70: 80 oz One or more fruit daily: 2 One or more vegetable daily: 4 AF: 256 October: 13 Fitbit Goal/burned: 2,000/2,190 JUST JOURNAL! HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY Move Accountability: Step goal 8,500: 7,224 steps, 9/11 hours, 105 PU, 10 floors, walked at the stores, Sleep Accountability: 8 hours, 89 sleep, 86 stress, resting HR 75 Nutrition Accountability: 24/23 -6 weeklies. egg sand, avocado, bean and chicken burrito, pear, muscle milk, spaghetti squash "lasagne", bread, AF Fitbit Macros: calorie goal @1500/1,469 38% carb 164, 34% fat 59g, 28% protein 113g fiber 50g, at goal. Better!! Happiness Accountability: 4 feeling happy Habit Accountability: 4 Journal, stretch, FB meditation, PU Check in Daily Accountability: 5. I'm here!! Time Management Accountability: 4 Grocery, thrift store, Dollar Store, worked on craft projects, TV time, read, menu planned for week What did you do for yourself today? 4 read, knit, shopped, heard from DS!!! Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or quote: “Don’t be afraid to start all over again, you may like your new story better. If you are waiting on weight loss to love and accept your body, I hate to break it to you...but true love and acceptance should be unconditional. Your body doesn't need to look like or do anything specifically to be loved, accepted, appreciated or deemed worthy. (Some words from a Connect Post.) HOCUS POCUS, WE NEED TO FOCUS! Start weight September 3: 195 cabin September 10: 193 September 17: ? September24: 194 October 1: 195.2 Went to WI today October 8: 196 at home. 195.4 at home this morning. October 15: 196.4. 195.4 at home today October 22: 195.4 October 28 Happy Halloween! Final weigh in: HI all. Enjoyed my class, made some projects for the fair and learned a few new things. I forgot to bring my computer, duh, and I learned how to run my machine from the blue tooth on my phone with the Ap! Yay. Of course now I want a new "toy". It's the heat press you use to transfer vinyl to your products. Put it on my Xmas list. The time went so fast, brought home things to work on and may do some this afternoon or just keep knitting while I watch the Duck's game. DH is smoking a chicken for dinner, I will make a potato salad later to go with it. Just feeling happy and excited, with the knowledge that maybe this new "why" will get me going again to lose for a wedding at some future date. I don't want to be the frumpy mid west mom at the New York, or where ever, wedding . Thanks to all of you who have put up a message on my FB post. I didn't want to put anything up until they had posted some pics. Then I laughed because her mom had it up on her Instagram about 1/2 hour after I heard from DS. It's beautiful out today, should go out and get some outside time before the games that we want to watch start. Have a great weekend all. Jan Amy. Tooting the horn for your new scale reading! You have been doing so amazing and putting in the work. Congrats. Sounds like a fun day with the kids and so pretty on the trail. I looked at the weather for next weekend and it may be a little rainy on Saturday. Actually may be a good day to have the craft fair as people won't want to be outside. But I'll be glad when it's over for awhile just to not always be thinking of things I need to do. Cathy. Sorry about the burning and the smells. Hope you can be in touch with the kids today and tomorrow. Check back in later.
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Post by cathygeha on Oct 27, 2024 9:40:05 GMT
Start weight September 3: 166.6 September 10: 166.6 September 17: 166.6 September 24: 168.2 [166.2 yesterday] October 1: 168.4 October 8: 165.8 October 15: 168.8 October 22: 170.6 October 28 Happy Halloween! Final weigh in: Weigh-ins daily: original weigh in <165.8>
It is a sunny day and our time changed last night so we are a bit off kilter with the rest of the world but fine in our own little corner. We have leftover couscous with a green bean-corn-ful/fava bean stew for lunch and will have fruit for dessert. I chose NOT to eat a big meal last night because I was not hungry and will keep listening to my body's satiety levels as I go forward.
Hope to talk to our granddaughters today if they are available. Talked to our daughter yesterday. I have plenty of books to read and look forward to reading another one today.
JAN: How exciting to have your son engaged...just went to Facebook to see the photos - don't THEY look pleased with themselves When is the wedding?
AMY: Hooray for seeing the 140's! I am hoping to see them, too, eventually. Will focus on getting into the 150's first, though You have had great success this year! What program are you currently following?
Hope everyone has a good day today!
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