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Post by success4susie on May 15, 2019 10:38:19 GMT
This thread is for anyone that has been away from healthy eating, had a gain and is recommitting. We accept all forms of healthy eating here, whatever that means to you. We touch base daily for accountability and to encourage one another. This is a judgment free zone.
We all struggle to get the weight off and keep it off. Sometimes this is a challenge, but we never give up and that is the key. Regardless of our situation or where we are in reaching our goal, we count on talking to each other every day and are blessed to have one another as friends.
Our motto is persistence, not perfection.
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Post by success4susie on May 15, 2019 10:40:04 GMT
Good Morning ROs...I haven't gotten here this early for quite awhile...just getting us started, then heading out to my gym class. I think it is supposed to be warmer today with no rain...yippee! Hope you all have a great day.
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Post by keshet51 on May 15, 2019 11:57:48 GMT
We have sunshine here today!!! OMG I'm so excited - I haven't seen a clear day like this since visiting Lora. It will even get up into the 60's. Rain returns on Friday, I think. I definitely need to walk outside a bit today. Am working at home so can walk around my development a few times. I have PT this morning at 8:30 so the serious exercise part will be done beforehand.
Good morning Susie and ATF. I had a rough night, up coughing my brains out at 2:30, got back to a fitful sleep at 4 and slept off and on until almost 7. Feeling better today than yesterday despite the night, so at least the general trend is in the right direction. But the coughing is super annoying. It's not a deep or painful one at least so I'm not worried about bronchitis or pneumonia. For now.
Working at home today, doing evaluations, then have to be at the hotel where we're having the joint board meetings tonight by 5:30. I will get there a little early and it's not to far from my house, so no long drives today. Definitely have a few pre-meeting jitters, not sure yet what I plan to say, will try to talk to my counterpart at some point during the day so we can plan this out. Yikes, we're in the big times now!
Fell off my food plan yesterday but tracked it all and it was my birthday after all. Definitely back on course today. We're going out to dinner Friday night but aside from that, I have no major events coming up until I go away to DD on June 9th. Time to focus in and up my game.
Have a great day all.
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Post by Jarmstrong on May 15, 2019 12:00:11 GMT
Good morning everyone!
We have a training class in our building today so I will have techs in and out all day. The leader who brought breakfast said he was thinking of me so he brought bagels and cream cheese <face palm> I told him thank you, I appreciate it. LOL (I have told him I don't eat bread - but oh well) I have my breakfast so I am fine.
I did really well yesterday and I didn't cave to any of my cravings. Hopefully Day 2 will be just as successful.
DS was taken back to the ER last night. I just heard from DBIL and she was admitted around midnight last night. They are trying to get in touch with her Dr. from the big University Hospital. This is the 3rd time she has gone to the ER and been admitted for dehydration since she has been home from the hospital. I really hope she gets some answers and they can figure out what is going on with her.
I hope everyone has a wonderful day today.
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Post by LR63402 on May 15, 2019 12:48:59 GMT
Good morning all! Took me a little while to get here today, when I got up about 2 hours ago I decided to start some laundry, and get a couple other household chores out of the way so I'm just getting here. Yesterday evening DH was feeling a little antsy so we drove into Guntersville and ran by WM to pick up some sunscreen and a couple of other things. I had a zillion varieties before we moved, but of course have no clue where they are now. Maybe they were expired and I tossed them? Maybe they're in one of the few unopened boxes in the garage? IDK. While out we also popped into Aldi just before they closed and I found 2 bags of the Horchata flavored coffee that I've been wanting to try. So not exactly the excursion that I'd planned for myself yesterday, but I did get the things I needed. Susie - Yes, you do know all too well about dealing with scary eye issues. This morning he said the flashes are gone, and the floater seems not quite so prominent. Enjoy your sunshine! Andi - Yay for a sunny, clear day!! Mine is sunny, clear and cool at the moment (55 degrees), stormy weather is supposed to move in around noon today. Tomorrow partly cloudy and then BOOM! Friday and Saturday sunny and low 90s. I totally prefer 70s. Haha! My first thought with DHs eye was ocular migraine as well, but mine never last more than a half hour or so. When he said it had been happening since the night before, I got concerned. Plus as far as I know, he has never been a sufferer of migraines. Actually he almost never even gets a headache. Jana - Well, cripes....Bagels and cream cheese. While a total carb bomb, at least it's not straight up sugar. In my life, that is easier to resist, hope it's the same for you. Girl, you remember what a bagel tastes like, right? I mean they good, but not great and just sit in your belly like a brick. So no need to put your body through that, right? I can't believe that DS is dehydrated again. What in the world? Hoping they find what's causing it so that she can put an end to this repetition. I feel so bad for her. Robin - yes, I'm rock painting. I'm not really interested in selling, but am enjoying the process of making them and putting them out, and the prospect of somebody stumbling across them and it bringing a little joy into their day. It must be getting close to the wedding day, isn't it? I'm sorry, I don't remember the date. Yes, it was fortunate that we were able to seen at an Ophthalmology group that specializes in retina care same day. We had a little help...Lol. One of DHs best friends from high school is an Ophthalmologist in Huntsville, she specializes in cataracts, Lasik surgery...things like that. But he called her office and left a message for her. She called back almost immediately, told him which group to call and which Dr. to ask for. Then she called ahead to that office and told them that he would be calling, and needed to be seen today if at all possible. One of the benefits to living in a smaller city, everybody knows everybody. Also a drawback at times...just try to keep a secret....Haha. This time it definitely worked to our advantage though. Our hectic mad dash to the Dr. yesterday and the stress surrounding that has left me a little emotionally drained. I think I'm just going to take today to relax, do a little painting and keep processing laundry...Which strangely I now enjoy and find relaxing.
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Post by vtfishstick on May 15, 2019 13:58:53 GMT
Good morning everyone -
Yesterday was tiring. I'm glad that I'm doing a little less workwise today. I still want things to get done. Don't get me wrong. Meeting up with a friend after work to work on a few personal things together and likely will get dinner out.
Jana I'm so sorry to hear about Ds - I hope she gets answers. I just can't imagine.
Andi sorry for the restless night. That coughing is just awful sometimes. I am glad to hear that you're feeling a little better overall.
Susie it's been chilly out this way too - we're supposed to be back up in 70s today.
Hope everyone has a lovely hump day!
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Post by Jarmstrong on May 15, 2019 14:58:57 GMT
Hello it's me again -
Andi I am so happy you are getting some sunshine. It is supposed to warm up here today too. Although right now I am sitting in my office with my little space heater one. Our conference room is either the hottest room in the building or the coldest room. There are 20 something grown men packed in there today so they are all hot - I have the AC on for them and it is cooling my office off quickly. I don't mind too much- at least I have my heater to run.
Susie I hope you enjoy the sunshine and our warmer weather today.
Lora the bagels do not tempted me at all. Even when I am not eating well, I still pretty much stay away from bread. I just thought it was funny that was his idea of a healthier option for me. Donuts and pastries are another story. Sorry about the scare with DH yesterday. I completely understand being emotionally drained after that.
Amanda any update on DB adoption process? Do they have any idea how long it takes or when they will know something? I have a co-worker who adopted a child from another country. It was all before I started working here though.
DS has been admitted to the hospital once again. She had to sit in the waiting room at the ER for 4 hours last night before they admitted her. They are trying to get in touch with her Dr. today and I hope they get some answers.
I have some news - DH and I have found a house (already built) that checks off a lot of the things we want in a house. It is on 5 acres and somewhat secluded. It has beautiful views onto a pond. it has a full basement that could eventually be converted into an in-law suite for my parents. We aren't sure we can make it work - but we are going to go and look at it. Our biggest fear is selling our current house. It does need some work - in the very least paint and flooring. I am trying to not get too excited about it - I need to try and remember if it is meant to be then we will figure out a way to make it work - and we might look at it and go - nope this is not for us. The one thing - the bathrooms look like they could use some updating - but other wise it looks really nice.
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Post by RobinS811 on May 15, 2019 14:59:41 GMT
Lora, funny how that networking works out, even with doctors. But definitely great that you had a little help.
Jana, if people only knew how many calories were in a bagel most people wouldn't eat them. I can't remember the last time I actually had a whole bagel, but once in a while I eat a half. Sorry your DS had to go back to the hospital. I hope they can figure things out.
Susie, enjoy your gym class today, and whatever else you do. I know you are always busy, so I am sure it will be something.
Andi, I hope that you start to feel better soon. Glad at least your meeting is close to home. I am sure it all works out. I forgot to mention, I know Susie said something to you about maybe your weight goal was lower than it needs to be, as she said you looked great, and I can see that from the photos, not to mention when I met you.
I know everyone says that to me about Mother's Day, and there are many times I really do miss my mother, or think I have to call her to tell her something, and realize I can't. However, I now realize how stressed I often was in more recent years especially about including my mother in everything we did. My DH was often stressed around her for some reason, really wanted to do things just with our kids, and sometimes things would blow up, so I was stressed too. We were also always the ones responsible for getting here everywhere, and towards the end it wasn't easy. Even with having to switch to using Uber when I locked myself out. I would have had a problem because my mother couldn't get into an SUV, they were too high for her. The guy who came had a Tahoe. Often I would order a car and have to cancel because there is not way to request a non-SUV. If I were driving, it would have been a problem dropping her off, having someone help her get in, then me parking, then doing everything in the reverse to get her. Even at the seder, she would have been bothering me to get the desserts out because someone wanted to leave. I would be trying to get all the food put away and the dishes ready to be washed, and she would be bugging me. I don't know if anyone ever thinks of it from my perspective. Not to sound like a complainer, and I know how lucky I was, but sometimes this is how things were.
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Post by keshet51 on May 15, 2019 15:22:40 GMT
Wow, so much going on with the ROs today!
Robin, I could so relate to the stress you felt about DM, especially toward the end. I remember hoping at times my mom would pass quickly because things were so difficult, but then they pass and it's over, you can't talk to them, hear their voices, ask them about something, tell them about something, just have their presence. So, there's relief and yet such sorrow.
Jana, oh no, DSister in the hospital again??? What causes dehydration? Obviously it's not as simple as telling someone to just drink more water... And I also have little trouble resisting bagels, but the sweet stuff...
Lora, that's so great you have a network like that to get the best care possible and I'm glad DH is already doing better. I don't envy you temps in the 90's - remind me of that when I'm whining about the cold rain again. Enjoy a peaceful recovery day today. No other Aldi finds except for coffee? Dang. I haven't been there since the avocado extravaganza.
Guess I better get back to work. PT was good this morning as always but I'm already eating too much today. I think it's partly nerves about tonight.
Amanda, you sound so much more relaxed, even though you're tired. Enjoy dinner out.
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Post by success4susie on May 15, 2019 16:24:48 GMT
Andi - yeah for the sunshine... it is in the low 70s here today and BEAUTIFUL! Good luck at the meeting this evening.
Jana - I agree...the bagels are at least better than that darn candy (and easier to resist). Oh no ...poor DS... I just can't imagine...this is ridiculous... sure hope they can figure something out.
Lora - yep...one of the perks of living in a small town. When DH and I met and he was driving from the Balt/Wash. area...and we went to the mall - he thought I knew EVERYONE....ha ... so different from a metropolitan area!
Amanda - have fun at dinner
Darn...time to run out the door again...be back later
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Post by LR63402 on May 15, 2019 17:49:09 GMT
Well here comes the rain. The clouds have taken over the sunshine and it has started to sprinkle.
Susie - haha! I moved to Huntsville my Junior year of high school, but DH has lived here since he was a toddler. He went all through school with the same kids, and then with YMCA activities, sports, etc. Between him and DBIL, it seems like they know every single person. I had a similar mall experience with DH when we first started dating. I had a very small circle of friends. His seemed enormous to me. Ha!
Andi - the coffee was really the only thing I was looking for at Aldi. I'd tried two other attempts to find it without success, so I was happy to snag the only two bags they had. Also, it was exactly 7:54 when I walked in there and they close at 8pm. Lol
Robin - yes, the whole "old friend" thing definitely worked to our advantage. The Dr. also told DH that if he had any other problems or concerns to just call. Even if it was after hours. He said, "DO NOT go to the ER, they'll just charge you a bunch of money and do nothing for you, but advise you to see a retina specialist. And with retinal concerns, time is of the essence to be able to save vision. Call us first, one of the group will call you back ASAP and we'll figure out if this might be an emergent case, and if it's decided that it is, then one of us will meet you here and get you taken care of."
Jana - Good luck on the house. I have to agree that you're taking the right attitude. If it's meant to be, then it will be. I completely understand that the work needed on the current house probably seems daunting. I still fell a little overwhelmed by what all we did on the GA house. But like my old boss used to say, "How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time."
Amanda - Enjoy your dinner out with your friend.
I'm sitting here waiting for a roofing contractor to come by. We had a few shingle come loose on the back of the house in the storm last week. So he's going to give a repair estimate, plus take a look at the general state of the roof as a whole. This is the original, and is 8 years old, so at some point we will want to replace. I think we might go with a colored metal roof. Not sure of the cost of that compared to the normal shingled roof, but that look would certainly work with this style house and I know it's lower maintenance and has about 4-5 times the life span of traditional asphalt shingles.
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Post by Jarmstrong on May 15, 2019 19:04:37 GMT
Good afternoon everyone.
I have had a pretty good eating day. I am craving "something" now but don't really know what it is. I think I get tired of drinking water and coffee all the time. I don't really want anything to eat - I just want something with flavor to drink.
We had lunch catered today for the meeting. A DF of mine has been doing some of the catering for me at work. He knows my eating limitations. He made a honey citrus chicken today and he made me a piece of chicken without any of the marinade on it. I thought it was so sweet and kind.
Andi DS is getting sick to her stomach and can't keep anything down and that leads to the dehydration. She has some meds for the nausea but the meds aren't helping. It seems to hit her suddenly. After she gets fluids at the hospital she will be ok for about 3 to 4 days and it starts all over again. I text my BIL a little bit ago to see if there was any update but I have not heard back from him.
Sorry you fell off your plan yesterday but you have a great attitude about it! It was your birthday and today is a brand new day!
Amanda enjoy your dinner out tonight.
RobinS I completely understand how you are feeling about your DM.
This house I want to look at popped up last week and I finally convinced DH to let's go look at it. It turns out that the realtor who sold my son his house is the listing agent and she is the one we would be using too. Except if we do decide we want to try and get this house, we would need to get a different realtor. Anyway I talked to her today and she told me she had gotten 5 phone calls JUST today of people wanting to look at the house. We have an appointment scheduled to go look at it on Saturday morning, who knows, it may not even be on the market by Saturday morning. It really is such a beautiful location............. anyway - whatever happens will happen.
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Post by RobinS811 on May 15, 2019 20:57:28 GMT
Good luck with the house Jana. I don't know if your sister would consider this, but how about going to the Mayo Clinic, seeing as this has been going on so long and no one seems to be able to totally figure it out. I wouldn't normally recommend this, however because of what happened with future DDIL's sister, I will. Their father is a Gastroenterologist in a very large practice. She was having issues, and no one could figure it out. They took her to the Mayo Clinic, and they got it figured out. I got more info on it than I really needed to know, but I thought it was pretty interesting.
Lora, although we live in a rather populated area, I do understand how it could happen that your DH should know so many people. When DH was practicing law in the city years ago, the joke was about how he knew someone, did he go to camp with them, high school, or did they shop in my family's store. That was a biggie, and we still use that as a connection sometimes. That doctor sounds like such a nice guy, glad you found him.
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Post by success4susie on May 16, 2019 0:18:06 GMT
Jana - exciting news about the house...is it close to where you are now?
RobinS - You were such a good daughter. You certainly did include your DM in so much that you did and were constantly checking on her often in the end. My DM only lived close to us for about 11 months and she was really not the same person as the mother I had known all of my life. She seemed to really go downhill the last few years. My DS lived closer, even though it was just under a 2 hr drive for her (about 4 1/2 for me), so she seemed to do a lot of the checking on her before we moved her to VA. Even when we moved DM here, DS was building a house here too and made the move from MD to VA shortly after DM did. I was still working at the time and just after we moved DM is when DH had the severe heart attack, so DS still did most of the checking on Mom, although I did call her each day when I left school and was on my way home.
Just a busy, busy day as usual...now I am waiting for DH to get home from his study group, and we will probably watch one TV show we have recorded and go to bed. Night all...hope everyone sleeps well.
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