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Post by bbbearsmom on Sept 18, 2019 14:58:21 GMT
Wednesday, 09/18 This is a blog from the website for the book “The Beck Diet Solution” by Dr. Judith Beck. It talks about “off plan” mode, how we get stuck in being off plan and start to feel helpless in getting back on plan and hopeless that we can do it. The solution in the blog is to remember past successes to encourage you to get back on plan now. What struck me was the use of the terms: helpless and hopeless. In the nine years between two successful weight losses that is how I felt. What solved it for me was changing my psych meds for my depression. But I do remember the feeling of not being able to figure out how to do something about my weight. It is not a nice feeling. As I started this third weight loss journey, I also realized that previously I had quit WW meetings once I started to gain, which is the time I needed the meetings the most. This time I promised myself I would maintain the meetings and because of the old WW message boards I discovered the joys of online support groups. This is one reason I do my two Facebook groups: to provide ongoing support to people losing weight and maintaining weight loss so they have encouragement during the rough times. diet.beckinstitute.org/off-track-mode/?utm_source=newsletter&utm_medium=email&utm_content=READ%20MORE&utm_campaign=9.18-Off-Track-Mode
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Post by lani on Sept 19, 2019 14:48:50 GMT
An unpleasant reminder of how easy it is to get derailed. This is why I am pretty rigid with keeping up my good habits. I think of it as "eating hygiene".
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Post by luvvinlife on Sept 21, 2019 14:44:30 GMT
I wouldn't stop seeing my dentist, my PCP, or anyone else that provides direction when I'm in need. I realize now, that I cannot leave this circle of support.
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Post by lani on Sept 21, 2019 15:38:37 GMT
luvvinlife, I agree. The accountability and support makes it all so much easier.
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Post by bbbearsmom on Sept 21, 2019 16:15:13 GMT
luvvinlife, lani, When I was staring this weight loss journey I realized that I had quit meetings when the going got rough the two times I gained my weight back. Made a promise to myself to keep up the meetings and love that I discovered online support groups.
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Post by luvvinlife on Sept 22, 2019 15:31:09 GMT
luvvinlife , lani , When I was staring this weight loss journey I realized that I had quit meetings when the going got rough the two times I gained my weight back. Made a promise to myself to keep up the meetings and love that I discovered online support groups. This is especially important for me since I don't drive and with so many doctor appointments etc., I don't want to impose on DH to take me. At least I can still be accountable.
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Post by surfgirl on Sept 23, 2019 18:18:14 GMT
I wouldn't stop seeing my dentist, my PCP, or anyone else that provides direction when I'm in need. I realize now, that I cannot leave this circle of support. Hey, we're more valuable than a good gynecologist!
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