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Post by bbbearsmom on Jun 26, 2020 16:11:32 GMT
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Post by luvvinlife on Jun 27, 2020 2:20:38 GMT
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Post by bbbearsmom on Jun 27, 2020 2:55:29 GMT
luvvinlife, Glad it was of help. I really like the blogs because they are about real life situations.
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Post by cathygeha on Jun 27, 2020 7:05:45 GMT
bbbearsmom, Thank you - great way to think about it. So often in the past I have worried about the hostess providing the food for a Wednesday get together. I am now thinking more about what *I* need and though polite in declining or taking smaller portions or just a taste of some things I do stick to what is best for me. Love the idea it is not about their feelings or making them change but instead about ME and what works and is best for ME and ultimately it is about changing ME and not changing someone else.
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Post by bbbearsmom on Jun 27, 2020 16:35:19 GMT
cathygeha, When the onus is on us it gives us the power to do something about the situation.
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