lizlor
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Post by lizlor on Jul 17, 2020 6:13:20 GMT
Day 17 End Overeating
Overload Your Plate—and Don’t Eat It All
Beck says: Today, you’ll practice not overeating by purposely putting more food on your plate than you plan to eat. Pick one meal, preferably lunch or dinner. Choose a food that’s on your plan, but then I want you to purposely give yourself a larger portion than you would normally allow. Also, choose a food that you’re not supposed to eat and put it on your plate. At the beginning of the meal, push the extra portions to the side on your plate. Then eat only the food on your plan.
If you find that you still want to eat what’s left on your plate, counter your sabotaging thoughts. Continue to notice your thoughts. Are there also sabotaging thoughts are getting in the way of completing this experiment?
Here are some common ones along with helpful responses. Sabotaging Thought: I don’t need to do this. I’ll be able to stop eating without practicing this skill. Helpful Response: This isn’t a big deal. I should try it anyway. The worst thing that could happen is that I didn’t need to do it. I might not learn from this, but I also might learn a lot. Sabotaging Thought: I hate to deliberately waste food. Helpful Response: Which is better: deliberately wasting food or overeating and gaining weight? What would I tell my best friend if she had this problem? The truth is that the extra food will either go to waste in my body or go to waste in the garbage. Either way, it’ll go to waste.
Is anyone going to try this? How do you think this exercise might help?
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Post by lizlor on Jul 17, 2020 6:18:10 GMT
I immediately had the sabotaging thought as noted: I don’t need to do this. I’ll be able to stop eating without practicing this skill. But then I reminded myself that cherry picking Beck assignments didn’t help on previous attempts. And then I also remembered what usually happens when we order easy to overeat foods like pizza. And that I’ve mindlessly eaten to many cookies, or crackers, or croutons, etc.
So yes, I’m willing to give this a try.
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Post by cathygeha on Jul 17, 2020 8:07:53 GMT
I would be more willing to do this if we still had chickens. Then the food would not go to waste. The only way I can see doing this is to put the food to the side then put it into a storage container when finished eating.
That said...if I am full I stop eating. I always weigh and measure the food before it goes on the plate so that would mean what when tracking? I can see this if eating out and having the server put the food into a box to go when the meal arrives, maybe?
So...I will not be doing this one though I understand the value of doing it.
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Post by lani on Jul 17, 2020 16:07:45 GMT
I have done this one. You don't have to throw the extra food away; put it in the fridge or back into storage.
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Post by bbbearsmom on Jul 17, 2020 16:39:18 GMT
I will be doing this. This is one exercise I actually do. It will be my salad which I finish even though I am full. It will be good for me to leave a bite or two. I read somewhere that thin people leave food on their plate. This goes back a few years and I was out and socializing three different times and I watched what the thin woman did. All three of them left some food on their plate. The rest of us were part of the clean-plate-club. I have difficulty leaving food on my plate. Sometimes if we are eating out and I can't take the food home I do listen to my stomach and stop, but there are times I soldier through and clean my plate.
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Post by luvvinlife on Jul 17, 2020 18:14:13 GMT
I will be doing this one. My usual servings seem to be more than I need in order to feel satisfied so I’m paring down. This exercise will help since I’m a card-carrying member of the clean plate club. 😊
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Post by surfgirl on Jul 17, 2020 19:53:44 GMT
I will be doing this tonight with our Friday evening take out. I normally give myself a normal portion but I'll overload it tonight and pack up and put away the leftovers like I normally do. Doing these exercises is important to reinforce the learning, it helps switch on the mind/body connection so these Beckisms aren't just theories we file away in our heads and then ignore. Doing them actually imprints them into our subconscious.
To me, doing all the exercises in the Beck book are a No Choice until I am at my goal weight and even then, I'd have to wean myself off them so I don't slip back into the abyss!
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