CHECK-IN: 🦋🌞🌻TUESDAY 8/11/2020🌻🌞🦋 - All are WELCOME!

Diva, I'm sorry that BigBro is creating these challenges for you, and ultimately himself. I don't know what causes him to do that, but it is common among some people I know.

I've been working on various projects to prepare for a possible move abroad. When the move will be, we're no sure. But it could be very soon, potentially. Yet again, my husband and his department colleagues face possible layoffs. It could happen as soon as October. We're traveling abroad before then, for various reasons. Two flights have been canceled and needed to be rescheduled. Obviously these challenges are related to coronavirus.

Prayers to all. Trying times indeed.
Yes, that's the way technology works these days MJ and that makes it tough for you to help control the Russ situation.
Cyndee - That's a lot to coordinate
Linda- Hope you get good news
I'm in, planned and tracked

diva, what happens if you just let be what will be? since he's already in the hole in negative funds (if i recall what you said correctly), and in the meantime apply for guardianship? and as POA can you put a lock on his credit so that he can't apply for future credit? one of my friends just lost his mom recently and he and his wife didn't know she had run up a whole slew of credit card debt. the creditors didn't get anything in the end and when she passed it was all forgiven.

just wondering if this game of whack a mole is even worth it. maybe it is. but this is feeling like someone else's problem and not sure it needs to be yours if it's causing endless headache and stress.

and i can tell you for sure that if my brother was doing this, it would be a case of "oh that sucks for you, i'm sorry you're going through that" and then go about my business and even moreso if it was my brother in law.

great news fin!

DH's Doctor appointment did not go very well. He has had a retina issue with both eyes and had eye surgery on the right eye in 2018 with no problems. The left eye had the retinal surgery in 2019 and a repeat in 2020 but he's still having an issue with a "pucker" on the retina wall. The doctor is having him try 2 different eye drops to see if it will resolve but since this past January's surgery there has been no improvement. It's affecting his vision and his mood. We return in 6 weeks to assess it again. Thanks for the concern. 

VW this morning. Down a lb from last week which is a good thing. I’m rededicated to planning, tracking, hydrating and moving forward as I keep smiling. Have a great evening everyone.

I hope the drops help linda72 dangit.

WTG pamthomas46!