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Post by murphy1288 on Feb 20, 2024 10:23:10 GMT
Welcome to Alcohol Free is What We Want To Be! We are glad you are here with us! If you have been struggling with your weight and have found this board you undoubtedly have your own unique, complicated relationship with alcohol and food. Laying out the problem honestly can give you the extra push you need to succeed in getting it under control. A few questions for you to think about...do you wake up at 3 AM wondering what did you do? Do you sometimes have no recall of the evening before or do you try to recover your memory of the evening before you even get out of bed? Is your spouse angry with you...or do you simply think that A is taking over too much of your life, affecting your weight loss? These are hard questions but know that you will find understanding, love, encouragement and support on this thread. We are each in a different stage of this journey but you will find others have shared your experiences. There is no judgment, just an acknowledgement that we have been there, done that. This board of great people will support you in your journey.
Some of us have been here for several years, others are new, but all are welcome and if you have visited before but didn't stay, there is still and always a place for you. Don't get overwhelmed, take your time, if something strikes you, respond. We are great at giving advice, whether you want it or not....you will get tough love, if necessary, but you will also find help. We practice positive self-talk and support, we encourage and gently hold each other accountable. We each have stories to tell, share and suggestions to help. We post different challenges during the year. Please join us if you think this is the group for you. You will be glad you did.
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Post by murphy1288 on Feb 20, 2024 10:23:39 GMT
SHAPING UP FOR SPRING EQUINOX! February 11 - March 31
Spring is coming!
Supportive Friends Progress not Perfection Renewal of Being Inspiration New Habits Great Success!
This can be your Spring! This can be your success! No more rationalizing and making excuses.
This challenge isn't just about being alcohol free though it is the focus of the board. It is about finding and giving encouragement, getting healthy, loving ourselves, and finding what works and what doesn't. This is NOT about making ourselves feel badly about the unhealthy choices, it is about celebrating the healthy ones. So let's go for it!
As always, the rules aren't complicated. Simply no alcohol and staying on your food plan. If you get off track, don't give up....don't throw away the day, the night, the week. We are working on progress not perfection.
You may have alcohol issues that you cannot manage on your own and our group is here to support you and encourage you to get the help you might need. You may have alcohol issues that you can control but have to exert the motivation and our group is here to support you.
Spring clean your cupboard early! If you have junk food, tempting alcohol, or trigger foods in your kitchen, you are setting yourself up for failure. Give it away, dump it, GET RID OF IT! Temptation is always going to happen. Don't make it easier for yourself to give in to it. Assess your kitchen, ask if this helps or hinders me. DO NOT have sentimental attachment to food or alcohol. The stuff will always be there, it does not magically disappeared but your health can be compromised! This is your life! Make it the best!
REMEMBER…. 1. Work the Plan and the Plan works! Think of your new eating plan as a lifestyle change -- one that will have ups and downs, with good days and (very few) bad.
2. Don't deprive yourself. A food plan should be about SATISFACTION. Find foods you LOVE that will help you meet your goal.
3. Drink lots of water. Water is good for you.
4. Listen to your body. It knows things. Pay close attention to your body cues.
5. Live one day (or even one MEAL) at a time. Don't be discouraged and beat yourself up if you fall off the wagon. Just get back on with lots of helping hands.
6. Get exercise with activities you enjoy. If you don't like what you are doing, then you won't stick with it.
7. Keep track of what you eat. Write it down. You WILL 100% without a doubt make better choices if you hold yourself accountable for what you eat by keeping a food journal. (kinda sorta HG ideas)
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Post by murphy1288 on Feb 20, 2024 10:24:06 GMT
THE EIGHT GOOD HEALTH GUIDELINES 1. Eat at least five servings of vegetables and fruits each day. 2. Choose whole-grain foods, such as brown rice and oats, whenever possible. 3. Include two servings of milk precuts – low fat (1%) or fat-free – each day. 4. Have some healthy oil (olive oil, canola, sunflower, safflower or flaxseed each day. 5. Ensure that you are getting enough protein by choosing at least a serving or two of meat, poultry, fish, eggs or dried beans each day. Many dairy products are also good sources of protein. 6. Limit added sugar and alcohol. 7. Drink at least 6 8-ounce glasses of water a day. 8. Take a multiple vitamin-mineral supplement each day.
NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: One or more fruit daily: One or more vegetable daily: Dairy: Healthy Oils:
AF: AIM: ANIM: Exercise goal:
HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY
Journal: Move Accountability: Sleep Accountability: Nutrition Accountability: Happiness Accountability: Habit Accountability: Check in Daily Accountability: Time Management Accountability: What did you do for yourself today?
Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote
CHALLENGE START WEIGHT 2/11:
February 18 weigh in: February 25 weigh in: March 3 weigh in: March 10 weigh in: March 17 weigh in: March 24 weigh in:
Final Weigh March 31:
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Post by murphy1288 on Feb 20, 2024 10:27:46 GMT
"I look to 2024 with a renewed commitment to Progress” “Out the Door in 2024”
SHAPING UP FOR SPRING EQUINOX! February 11 - March 31
Spring is coming!
Supportive Friends Progress not Perfection Renewal of Being Inspiration New Habits Great Success! NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: This is my #1 goal for this challenge One or more fruit daily: not yesterday One or more vegetable daily: salad at lunch Dairy: skim milk with breakfast Healthy Oils:
AF: 8 AIM: ANIM: Exercise goal: Stepper, counter ups, walking
HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY Journal: Need to improve Move Accountability: Counter ups and stepper Sleep Accountability: very good Nutrition Accountability: so-so Happiness Accountability: very happy Habit Accountability: need to get back to healthy habits Check in Daily Accountability: I'm here! Time Management Accountability: pretty good yesterday! What did you do for yourself today? I got more water in!
Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote: I want to be the best version of ME!
CHALLENGE START WEIGHT 2/11: 165 February 18 weigh in: 166 February 25 weigh in: March 3 weigh in: March 10 weigh in: March 17 weigh in: March 24 weigh in:
Final Weigh March 31:
Good morning all! Had crazy crazy dreams last night but I feel ok so I guess I got enough sleep! I was glad for the alarm to go off and get me out of those dreams! LOL. Anyway - I'm up and having tea and will get cleaned up and have my devotions. I need to run to the bank when it opens and then head to see DB and DSIL. Praying for a good day. Murphy
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Post by cathygeha on Feb 20, 2024 12:11:21 GMT
CHALLENGE START WEIGHT 2/11: 163.6 February 18 weigh in: 163 February 25 weigh in: March 3 weigh in: March 10 weigh in: March 17 weigh in: March 24 weigh in: Final Weigh March 31:
February 20 = 165.2 [up due to going way over on points last night...at least I have some left for Saturday's luncheon AND can accrue some by exercising]
Nothing exciting happening...will review a book and have started to read another one. There is sunshine today and that is a nice change indeed!
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Post by tatermom on Feb 20, 2024 13:32:17 GMT
"I look to 2024 with a renewed commitment to Progress” “Out the Door in 2024”
SHAPING UP FOR SPRING EQUINOX! February 11 - March 31
Spring is coming!
Supportive Friends Progress not Perfection Renewal of Being Inspiration New Habits Great Success!
NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: daily goal 70= 80oz One or more fruit daily: 2 One or more vegetable daily: 2 Dryuary AF: 51 Dampuary AIM: Sauced ANIM: Fitbit Goal/burned: 2,000/2,349 JUST JOURNAL!
HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY Move Accountability: 5,453 steps, 8/11 hours, 85 PU, 6 floors, stairs, stretches Sleep Accountability: 6 hours, 80 sleep, 81 stress, some crazy dreams Nutrition Accountability: 20/23 points New week! Egg sandwich on bun, banana, clementine, red beans and rice, Choc almonds, chicken fajitas, Fitbit Macros: 1,411 cal. 54% Carbs, 25% fat, 21% protein. 438 left Happiness Accountability: 4 will be better when I'm healthy again. Habit Accountability: Exercise bar. 1/4. did tiny habits, morning journal, quiet time, tracking it all Check in Daily Accountability: 5 I'm here!! Time Management Accountability: 4 work, napped, stitched, knit, TV time, finished my book What did you do for yourself today? 4 TV time, journaled, finished my hat binding off, worked on x stitch, read Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote. "Ask yourself today if what you're doing is getting you closer to where you want to be tomorrow."
CHALLENGE START WEIGHT 2/11: 201 official at WW: 201.8
February 18 weigh in: February 25 weigh in: March 3 weigh in: March 10 weigh in: March 17 weigh in: March 24 weigh in:
Final Weigh March 31:
Good morning all. Getting myself ready for the day and will head off to WW meeting this morning. Will take what the scale tells me and move forward. I know I've eaten more carbs this week as I have had more appetite, but with tracking I also know I had weeklies left over and my calorie intake was pretty steady. It will keep going down if I keep consistent. No junk food at work yesterday, I ate the almonds I had counted out and brought with me. I have them again today. I was SO tired yesterday afternoon, I was done with appts at 1 and stayed until 2, then came home and napped. Not sure why I'm so beat, left over Covid? need vitamins? low Blood pressure or wacky thyroid. Hope after I get my blood work and see the dr next month I can get it figured out. I do still have a lot of crud in my sinus etc so I know I'm just still healing. Today will be a long day, just have to power through. Going to make a meatloaf for dinner tonight. I have 1/2 turkey so will be a bit more WW friendly. It's supposed to be nice today, mid 40's DH hopes to get out in the garage to work on his car. I'm thinking maybe if I get my little lunch break I will at least go outside and walk the parking lot once just to get the fresh air and sun. Maybe it will help keep me awake in the afternoon. At least felt like I got some things done last night, binding off my hat and finishing my book. Now to see what I want to read next. Hope you all have a great day. Will check in after work. Jan
Murphy Glad you got some sleep. Hope you have a good day with DB and DSIL gets to have some free time. Will they have already talked to the hospice people? Thanks for the start this morning.
Cathy You can earn those points back. Yay for the sunshine, I am feeling the same way.
Cindy Thanks for checking in. Hope each day gets a little better. Are you talking to DSIL each day or giving her some time.
GG Glad you didn't get hurt using the Oculus. Sorry about losing the power but glad DH was able to bring home dinner and you didn't lose anything plugged into the surge protectors. DH probably won't bring out our smoker until late March or early April, smoked turkey sure sounds yummy!! Enjoy your soup.
Amy Hope the new dose of meds tamps down the appetite a bit again. Will you now be on the highest dose that is prescribed for you? Your heart biscuit looked yummy, did you get that when out with DD for her appt? You are so good about getting your steps everyday. I'm trying to get my 7500 at least 3 days a week. In March I will up it to 4 or 5. I have the time, it's the motivation, especially when I don't get outside to walk. So jealous of all your spring pictures and the trees blooming. Enjoy.
Need to get moving.
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Post by amyj on Feb 20, 2024 14:48:55 GMT
SHAPING UP FOR SPRING EQUINOX! February 11 - March 31
THE EIGHT GOOD HEALTH GUIDELINES 1. Eat at least five servings of vegetables and fruits each day. 2. Choose whole-grain foods, such as brown rice and oats, whenever possible. 3. Include two servings of milk precuts – low fat (1%) or fat-free – each day. 4. Have some healthy oil (olive oil, canola, sunflower, safflower or flaxseed each day. 5. Ensure that you are getting enough protein by choosing at least a serving or two of meat, poultry, fish, eggs or dried beans each day. Many dairy products are also good sources of protein. 6. Limit added sugar and alcohol. 7. Drink at least 6 8-ounce glasses of water a day. 8. Take a multiple vitamin-mineral supplement each day.
NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: Y One or more fruit daily: Y One or more vegetable daily: Y AF: (mostly alcohol free since August 16, 2006): 6405; ANIM: 1 (021221) AIM: N ANIM: N Fitbit Goal/burned: 2210/2192 JUST JOURNAL!
HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY
Move Accountability: 4, 12,300+ steps, 250 steps 8/8 hours, walked the neighborhood next to the doctor's office, walking video, yoga, laps in the basement, counter pushups and stretches Sleep Accountability: 4, slept well, 8.5+ hours, Fitbit score 89, stress management 90 Nutrition Accountability: 2, 37/23, 11 weeklies left, Biscuit Belly sandwich and bonuts Happiness Accountability: 3, enjoyed the day, watched The Way Home and part of a Hallmark movie, stitched, read before bed Habit Accountability: 3, drinking more water than diet Coke Check in Daily Accountability: 3, I'm here! Time Management Accountability: 3, walking, driving to and from doctor office, couch time, working on UGA tissue box cover What did you do for yourself today? Reading, couch time, time outside
Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote: “Success is going from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm.” ―Winston Churchill
CHALLENGE START WEIGHT 2/11: 173.0 February 18 weigh in: 173.2 February 25 weigh in: March 3 weigh in: March 10 weigh in: March 17 weigh in: March 24 weigh in: Final Weigh March 31:
2024 Goals: 11,000 steps each day: 50/50 At least 7 hours sleep: 26/50 Lift weights twice/week: Wk 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7 Blue dots: 41/50 Starting weight: 179.8 Get to the 160's:
We left for DD's neurology appointment around 9:30, I'm glad DH came along b/c traffic was awful on I-75. We got there in plenty of time, DH & I walked the neighborhood next to the office building for a while, the weather was very pretty. There was a stand of cherry trees up the street but the sidewalk didn't go that far, I was pleased with the photo I got from so far away. We stopped at Biscuit Belly on the way home, I got my favorite, the Rockwell sandwich. It had a heart-shaped biscuit, fried chicken breast, a slice of cheese, sausage gravy and bacon. I ate it open-faced and had some jam on my leftover biscuit top. DD got Bonuts (cinnamon sugar covered biscuit donuts, also heart shaped, the size of donut holes) and a sampled a few of those with frosting. I guesstimated the points at 23. I ate a bit too fast as usual and felt uncomfortably stuffed for the rest of the afternoon. By around 4 I felt well enough to go down to the basement to get some more steps with a walking video. I made vegetable soup for dinner. We had 8 at yoga. I still wasn't really hungry after dinner so I had some vegetable soup with crackers and peanut butter. I feel back to normal this morning, so lesson learned to not eat so fast and listen to cues about feeling full.
It's another sunny day starting in the 30's, heading to the 50's.
Murphy- Thanks for getting us started. WTG for a productive day yesterday. Sorry about the crazy dreams. Hope you have a good visit with your DB & DSIL. I have a general plan for the garden in my head, will probably plant the same stuff as last year, although sometimes I find different things to try when buying plants.
Vicki- Sorry your power was out on Friday. Yay for the smoked turkey at DS's and getting the carcass for soup. Glad you didn't hurt yourself with the Oculas. GL with your busy week. I was surprised the cherry trees are blooming already.
Cindy- Glad you could check in, hugs!
Cathy- Yay for sunshine.
Jan- WTG steps 8/11, PU, stretches, tiny habits, blue dot, rollovers, AF, no junk at work. GL at WI. Sorry you were so tired after work. Hope you can get a walk in outside. When I go up to 10 units today I'll stay there for 4 weeks then go up to the full dose of 20 units, as instructed. Depending on how I feel, I may only go up to 15 units.
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Post by amyj on Feb 20, 2024 14:59:16 GMT
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Post by amyj on Feb 20, 2024 15:00:00 GMT
M-W Word of the Day
buttress noun | BUTT-russ What It Means A buttress is a structure built against a wall in order to support or strengthen it. More broadly, buttress may refer to anything that supports or strengthens. Buttress may also refer to something that resembles a buttress, such as a projecting part of a mountain or hill, a horny protuberance on a horse's hoof at the heel, or the broadened base of a tree trunk or a thickened vertical part of it. // After the wall collapsed, the construction company agreed to rebuild it with a buttress.
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Post by lizmawmn on Feb 20, 2024 15:25:58 GMT
SHAPING UP FOR SPRING EQUINOX! February 11 - March 31
Let’s Begin!
DAILY STATS Allowed/consumed: 1,290/1,222 Fitbit Calorie Burned:1,889 Fitbit Step Goal/Actual:6,500/3,471 Exercise goal Bike: NO
AF: 2 AIM: 2 ANIM: 5
CHALLENGE START WEIGHT 2/11: 214.8 February 18 weigh in: 213.2 February 25 weigh in: March 3 weigh in: March 10 weigh in: March 17 weigh in: March 24 weigh in: Final Weigh March 31:
Good morning, It is a nippy, sunny day, with an expected high of 35 degree, lol! Yesterday was an AF/OP/Tracked day. I have kind of been off the internet, been going out, shopping, babysitting, knitting and that's about it. Not much going on, DD's tentative date for her CT is 3/19; they are trying to get a sooner one at a different location. Isabel's allergist appointment is 2/24 and we are still waiting to hear from the Celiac program at the Children's. So basically the status quo.
Murphy~ Thanks for getting us started. I am so glad you enjoyed Sunday night's Bible Study and such a great turn out as well! It is so good that you are able to visit with your DB and DSIL which gives her the opportunity for errands and time for herself. And it gives you this special time to be with your DB.
Cindy~ Glad you were able to check in. Take care of you. Sending you HUGS!
Jan~ Sounds like you got a lot accomplished with sorting out stuff and seeing what you may enter into this year's fair. Sorry you are feeling so tired, it may still be the remnants of COVID. Try not to push so hard, when you are tired, rest. Yay for finishing your hat and book!
Amy~ That Biscuit Belly sandwich and Bonuts sound yummy! Glad you were able to see the cherry trees in bloom and got a great picture!
Vicki~ Sorry about the power loss but at least you got away without having to cook dinner, lol. The smoked turkey sounds delicious! I love when DS uses his smoker even for chicken breasts, but his smoked pork belly is to die for, lol!
Cathy~ Sorry for the wonky internet. Yay for the sunshine! Glad you have left over points for the luncheon Saturday!
Hi Carole!!
Have a wonderful Tuesday!!!
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Post by flower on Feb 20, 2024 23:32:37 GMT
Hi friends! I’m so happy the interview is over. I think it went ok. Supposedly I find out Monday or Tuesday. It was scheduled for 2:15. Wouldn’t you know, they plan a lock down drill for 2:00 or so. I decide I’ll email him at lunch to figure out what to do. Then I hear Carole, you have a call! My boss says this, I go in her office where the secretary asks me if I can come after the drill. Her name is on the phone—that my boss picked up. 🤦🏼♀️ oh well, my friend said the principal already told her I applied. Next up is my MRI next Wednesday. I also need to schedule my mammogram. It’s a privilege getting old but it’s time consuming!!
Amy, that bonut sounds delicious! Especially with frosting!!
Jan, I’m doing another big cross stitch, even tho I said I’d not do that again! I’m sure it’s the lingering effects from Covid making you tired, along with winter!
Liz, I’m trying to stay off my phone a bit. Spending 4 plus hours a day is ridiculous.
Cindy, continued prayers for you all. 😘🙏🏻😘
Hi Cathy, Murphy and gg!
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Post by tatermom on Feb 21, 2024 0:58:04 GMT
Hi all. A long day but got it done. Came home around 4:15 and just wasn't feeling making a bigger dinner so we used some of the ground beef that was going to be meatloaf and just had burgers and fries. A higher point day but can get BOT for the rest of the week. Didn't get into any junk at work but been grazing some cookies at home. I was happy with my WI this morning, down -1.2 so I guess I'm "celebrating" with extra points today. I was even toying with making some brownies I have in the pantry, but know that's just a bad can of worms for now. Maybe I'll make them Thursday when sis is here and then she can take the LO home. It's always I just want a bite or 2 but then the whole 9x13 pan is calling my name. I'd also thought about going out to dinner but that would have been more $$, probably the same type meal and the temptation to drink, even if not for me, probably DH, who has not for the last 3 days. Save up that cash for something more fun. Having some tea now, kitchen is closed and after a little tv time I'll probably head up to read kind of early. Didn't feel as tired today so hoping each day it's getting a bit better but I was also busier at work and kept me more awake. Scout is trying to sit on my lap and the computer, sure he's trying to figure out how to delete my post, like Sookie Have a good evening all. Tomorrow is another day. I just try to be kind and muddle through. Hug, Jan Carole Hope you hear good news from your interview. Sorry they are making you wait over the weekend. Glad you are getting in all your appts. I go Thursday for mammo, maybe blood work and then Dr in March. Hope I'm then done for awhile. Liz Sorry for the waiting game and hope a lot of answers will all come at once. I'm just trying to make it one day at a time, resting when I need, drinking lots of water. A few days on a beach in the sun would help I'm sure I try to less screens at home after being on the computer all day at work but I still get sucked in. I do turn them off at least an hour or more before I go to bed. Amy That is a lot of food in one biscuit sandwich! No wonder you felt so full. Are they always heart shaped or is this a valentine thing this month? I laughed at your photo today, I first said it said you can start with a jiggle, that's what I do most days. ha ha Didn't get a walk outside but maybe tomorrow, we have less appts. Waving hi.
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Post by cathygeha on Feb 21, 2024 11:17:12 GMT
CHALLENGE START WEIGHT 2/11: 163.6 February 18 weigh in: 163 February 25 weigh in: March 3 weigh in: March 10 weigh in: March 17 weigh in: March 24 weigh in: Final Weigh March 31: February 21 = 164
Sunshine woke me this morning after moonlight made it hard to get to sleep last night. I had a haircut, will have a hot shower, and have good books to read. It will be a good day.
I am thinking of all of you and will post personals...eventually.
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