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Post by amyj on Mar 2, 2024 14:02:56 GMT
Welcome to Alcohol Free is What We Want To Be! We are glad you are here with us! If you have been struggling with your weight and have found this board you undoubtedly have your own unique, complicated relationship with alcohol and food. Laying out the problem honestly can give you the extra push you need to succeed in getting it under control. A few questions for you to think about...do you wake up at 3 AM wondering what did you do? Do you sometimes have no recall of the evening before or do you try to recover your memory of the evening before you even get out of bed? Is your spouse angry with you...or do you simply think that A is taking over too much of your life, affecting your weight loss? These are hard questions but know that you will find understanding, love, encouragement and support on this thread. We are each in a different stage of this journey but you will find others have shared your experiences. There is no judgment, just an acknowledgement that we have been there, done that. This board of great people will support you in your journey.
Some of us have been here for several years, others are new, but all are welcome and if you have visited before but didn't stay, there is still and always a place for you. Don't get overwhelmed, take your time, if something strikes you, respond. We are great at giving advice, whether you want it or not....you will get tough love, if necessary, but you will also find help. We practice positive self-talk and support, we encourage and gently hold each other accountable. We each have stories to tell, share and suggestions to help. We post different challenges during the year. Please join us if you think this is the group for you. You will be glad you did.
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Post by amyj on Mar 2, 2024 14:03:32 GMT
SHAPING UP FOR SPRING! February 11 - March 31
Spring is coming!
Supportive Friends Progress not Perfection Renewal of Being Inspiration New Habits Great Success!
This can be your Spring! This can be your success! No more rationalizing and making excuses.
This challenge isn't just about being alcohol free though it is the focus of the board. It is about finding and giving encouragement, getting healthy, loving ourselves, and finding what works and what doesn't. This is NOT about making ourselves feel badly about the unhealthy choices, it is about celebrating the healthy ones. So let's go for it!
As always, the rules aren't complicated. Simply no alcohol and staying on your food plan. If you get off track, don't give up....don't throw away the day, the night, the week. We are working on progress not perfection.
You may have alcohol issues that you cannot manage on your own and our group is here to support you and encourage you to get the help you might need. You may have alcohol issues that you can control but have to exert the motivation and our group is here to support you.
Spring clean your cupboard early! If you have junk food, tempting alcohol, or trigger foods in your kitchen, you are setting yourself up for failure. Give it away, dump it, GET RID OF IT! Temptation is always going to happen. Don't make it easier for yourself to give in to it. Assess your kitchen, ask if this helps or hinders me. DO NOT have sentimental attachment to food or alcohol. The stuff will always be there, it does not magically disappeared but your health can be compromised! This is your life! Make it the best!
REMEMBERā¦. 1. Work the Plan and the Plan works! Think of your new eating plan as a lifestyle change -- one that will have ups and downs, with good days and (very few) bad.
2. Don't deprive yourself. A food plan should be about SATISFACTION. Find foods you LOVE that will help you meet your goal.
3. Drink lots of water. Water is good for you.
4. Listen to your body. It knows things. Pay close attention to your body cues.
5. Live one day (or even one MEAL) at a time. Don't be discouraged and beat yourself up if you fall off the wagon. Just get back on with lots of helping hands.
6. Get exercise with activities you enjoy. If you don't like what you are doing, then you won't stick with it.
7. Keep track of what you eat. Write it down. You WILL 100% without a doubt make better choices if you hold yourself accountable for them.
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Post by amyj on Mar 2, 2024 14:03:54 GMT
THE EIGHT GOOD HEALTH GUIDELINES 1. Eat at least five servings of vegetables and fruits each day. 2. Choose whole-grain foods, such as brown rice and oats, whenever possible. 3. Include two servings of milk precuts ā low fat (1%) or fat-free ā each day. 4. Have some healthy oil (olive oil, canola, sunflower, safflower or flaxseed each day. 5. Ensure that you are getting enough protein by choosing at least a serving or two of meat, poultry, fish, eggs or dried beans each day. Many dairy products are also good sources of protein. 6. Limit added sugar and alcohol. 7. Drink at least 6 8-ounce glasses of water a day. 8. Take a multiple vitamin-mineral supplement each day.
NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: One or more fruit daily: One or more vegetable daily: Dairy: Healthy Oils:
AF: AIM: ANIM: Exercise goal:
HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY
Journal: Move Accountability: Sleep Accountability: Nutrition Accountability: Happiness Accountability: Habit Accountability: Check in Daily Accountability: Time Management Accountability: What did you do for yourself today?
Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote
CHALLENGE START WEIGHT 2/11:
February 18 weigh in: February 25 weigh in: March 3 weigh in: March 10 weigh in: March 17 weigh in: March 24 weigh in:
Final Weigh March 31:
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Post by amyj on Mar 2, 2024 14:46:42 GMT
SHAPING UP FOR SPRING EQUINOX! February 11 - March 31
THE EIGHT GOOD HEALTH GUIDELINES 1. Eat at least five servings of vegetables and fruits each day. 2. Choose whole-grain foods, such as brown rice and oats, whenever possible. 3. Include two servings of milk precuts ā low fat (1%) or fat-free ā each day. 4. Have some healthy oil (olive oil, canola, sunflower, safflower or flaxseed each day. 5. Ensure that you are getting enough protein by choosing at least a serving or two of meat, poultry, fish, eggs or dried beans each day. Many dairy products are also good sources of protein. 6. Limit added sugar and alcohol. 7. Drink at least 6 8-ounce glasses of water a day. 8. Take a multiple vitamin-mineral supplement each day.
NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: 64 oz One or more fruit daily: Y One or more vegetable daily: Y AF: (mostly alcohol free since August 16, 2006): 6416; ANIM: 1 (021221) AIM: N ANIM: N Fitbit Goal/burned: 2170/2157 JUST JOURNAL!
HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY
Move Accountability: 3, 11,100+ steps, 250 steps 8/8 hours, walking video, laps in the basement, counter pushups and stretches Sleep Accountability: 2, trouble falling asleep but then slept pretty well, <6.5 hours, Fitbit score 85, stress management 84 Nutrition Accountability: 3, 33/23, 20 weeklies left, blue dot, pizza, sweet & salty bar Happiness Accountability: 3, enjoyed the day, watched Killers of the Flower Moon, stitched, read before bed Habit Accountability: 3, drinking more water than diet Coke Check in Daily Accountability: 3, I'm here! Time Management Accountability: 3, walking, replaced zipper in hoodie, re-organized hobby room, ran robot vacuum, couch time, worked on UGA stocking ornament What did you do for yourself today? Reading, couch time
Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote: āEither you run the day, or the day runs you.ā āJim Rohn CHALLENGE START WEIGHT 2/11: 173.0 February 18 weigh in: 173.2 February 25 weigh in: 172.6 March 3 weigh in: March 10 weigh in: March 17 weigh in: March 24 weigh in: Final Weigh March 31:
2024 Goals: 11,000 steps each day: 61/61 At least 7 hours sleep: 31/61 Lift weights twice/week: Wk 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9 Blue dots: 52/61 Starting weight: 179.8 Get to the 160's:
It was a gloomy, rainy day yesterday. I got my steps in the basement in the morning by doing a walking video. Then I went up to the hobby room to replace a zipper in a hoodie that has been on my to-do list for months. It went pretty well, other than the logo doesn't quite line up in one area. DH has the same sweatshirt that also needs the zipper replaced, so now that I know I can do it I will order another zipper for his. Then DH & I moved some furniture around, hopefully now DH doesn't have to pile up his music paraphernalia on my sewing machine and chair. After lunch I had some couch time and a brief nap. While I was sleeping DH ordered a pizza for dinner. I only had one slice. I was too chilled for ice cream so I had a Nature Valley Sweet & Salty bar for dessert instead. I started watching Killers of the Flower Moon around 8, it wasn't over until around 11:30, so a late bedtime for me. Once again I had trouble falling asleep.
It's gloomy and foggy today, but is supposed to clear and get into the 60's. I'm halfway through the Oscar movies and I think I have to pay to stream the ones that are left.
Jan- WTG steps 10/11, PU, stretches, blue dot, AF on Thursday. Glad you slept well Thursday night. Hope spring is here to stay for you, you enjoy your new book, and you have a good WW month. Happy anniversary to DS & GF, glad she is patient with his timeline. Yay for DH being AF for a week, mine is doing pretty well too. Sorry for the long day at work, try not to feel guilty about your time off. I need to eat more protein too. Cynically I think they start selling the plants so early so that they can sell more when a frost/freeze zaps them.
Vicki- Yay for smaller pants that don't need shortened. I think you can attach Paypal to a credit card or just use the balance from what you get paid for buying other stuff. Is he selling stuff on eBay? I use Venmo and Zelle to get paid at craft fairs. I think Venmo is similar to Paypal, Zelle is attached to our bank accounts.
Cindy- Sorry you are feeling tired and your knee is aching. Hope today is as beautiful as forecast.
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Post by amyj on Mar 2, 2024 14:59:06 GMT
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Post by tatermom on Mar 2, 2024 15:00:13 GMT
This can be your Spring! This can be your success! No more rationalizing and making excuses. Yes, feeling this!! "I look to 2024 with a renewed commitment to Progressā āOut the Door in 2024ā SHAPING UP FOR SPRING EQUINOX! February 11 - March 31 Spring is coming! Supportive Friends Progress not Perfection Renewal of Being Inspiration New Habits Great Success! NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: daily goal 70= 90oz One or more fruit daily: 3 One or more vegetable daily: 3 Dryuary AF: 62 Dampuary AIM: Sauced ANIM: Fitbit Goal/burned: 2,000/2,574 JUST JOURNAL! HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY Move Accountability: 7,580 steps, 10/11 hours, 95 PU, 4 floors, stairs, stretches AP Sleep Accountability: 8 hours, 90 sleep, 85 stress, slept much better, Nutrition Accountability: 24/23 points 13 weeklies, eggs, refried beans, 1/2 grapefruit, bread, banana, big salad, chicken, 1/2 quest bar, 1/2 bagel and cream cheese, turkey, pie insides Fitbit Macros: 1,482 cal. 45% Carbs, 32% fat, 23% protein. 592 left Happiness Accountability: 5 feeling happy Habit Accountability: Exercise bar. 3/4. did tiny habits, morning journal, quiet time, tracking it all, Check in Daily Accountability: 5 I'm here!! Time Management Accountability: 4 Work 6 + hrs, grocery store, tv time, read in bed What did you do for yourself today? 4 TV time, journaled, read, Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote. "Ask yourself today if what you're doing is getting you closer to where you want to be tomorrow." CHALLENGE START WEIGHT 2/11: 201 official at WW: 201.8 February 18 weigh in: 200.6 WW February 25 weigh in: 200. At home March 3 weigh in: March 10 weigh in: March 17 weigh in: March 24 weigh in: Final Weigh March 31: Good morning all. Happy Saturday. I laughed when changing my stats as it said I slept 78 hours the night before. I probably needed it! Ha ha Last night I did sleep really well, woke up ready to go. Going to have some breakfast and pack a lot of healthy snacks to hit the road for the vintage hop. I have a plan to see 4-5 stores, by then Iām junk stored out but it will feel like I did something for me today. I also need to get laundry going before I leave and I promised DH I would make lemon bars this afternoon. He threw away the rest of the āsadā blueberry loaf heās bought the other day. Heās been wanting an evening snack and Iād rather he has something decent then when he goes to the store to buy some processed tasting thing. Altho maybe thatās a blessing as then I donāt want to get into it as much . Hoping to get in a lot of steps today between driving stops. Have made a list for the day and sure it has enough things on it to keep me busy for 3 or 4 days. Iāll do my best . Have a great Saturday all, Iāll check in when I get home later. Jan Cindy. Hope you wake up feeling better and can get outside for some yard activity today. Did the GF come over yesterday or planning on today? Amy Thanks for getting us going. I'm getting ready to head out the door and do some $$ shopping damage, maybe Yay for getting your steps in the basement. Glad you could get the new zipper in the hoodie. Waving hi
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Post by amyj on Mar 2, 2024 15:02:48 GMT
M-W Word of the Day
proximity noun | prahk-SIM-uh-tee What It Means Proximity is the quality or state of being near or proximate. The word proximity is synonymous with closeness. // The apartment's proximity to hiking trails is a definite plus.
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Post by amyj on Mar 2, 2024 15:06:22 GMT
Jan- WTG steps 10/11, PU, stretches, AP, blue dot, AF, sleeping 78 hours, LOL. Enjoy your vintage hop. Lemon bars are not my favorite.
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Post by tatermom on Mar 2, 2024 23:10:35 GMT
Hi all. 5:00 and finally sitting on the couch, getting ready for dinner in a bit. I feel like I had a productive day, shopping, chores, and driving about, seems like the day went way too fast. Also, I'm just getting old , 4-5 stores and I'm done. Ha ha. Didn't find anything I had to have. Saw some cute things, got a few trinkets to put on my little tower shelf for Easter. Bought a pair of jeans at the thrift store. Of course when I tried them on at home they are still way too snug, but I think for my $2.50 they are an investment into my motivation bank. Was getting hungry, drove thru McDonald's and only got a diet Coke. Guess I haven't been there in awhile, $1.77 for my drink. Gone are the days of the $1 special I guess. Came home and made some Lemon Bars and had some chili for lunch so I could go back to the grocery and not just buy everything in site. DH is making burgers and fries and then I hope to do some knitting later. All in all a nice day. I will go to work a few hours tomorrow just to help out and then have all afternoon to work on a few more things that make me happy Want to finish my one hat and then maybe try to learn a few crochet stitches. Have a great evening all. Jan Amy Lemon bars are not really my favorite either, DH loves them. Makes them a bit easier to have around I looked for donut pans at the thrift store, so far no luck. They will show up. How many days until your trip? How long did it take to get your passports? I'm trying to renew. Got all the papers etc but now we both need to go get our photos.
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Post by lizmawmn on Mar 3, 2024 4:10:37 GMT
Hi everyone, I know itās been a while, but I am here. I have been lazy posting but I have been trying to read your posts. My eating has been pretty good, but I still have been having one to two drinks a day and an occasional AF day. I have been trying to help DD a few days a week and they can range from 5-8 hours and needless to say I am pretty worn out by the time I get home. DDās CT is the 8th, hopefully weāll get som clarity with her cough. Isabel saw the allergist and she is doing great. Her blood levels have improved.He recommended a dermatologist for her eczema and the purplish color under her eyes. Other than that I havenāt been doing much except for knitting. I will weigh in and post stats tomorrow.
Amy~ Thanks for getting us started. Iāve watched three of the nominated movies, The Holdovers so far is my favorite.
Jan~ Yay for the Vintage Crawl and the pants for $2.50! There is supposed to be a yarn crawl this month and I have never done one. I am thinking of hitting a few stores over a couple of days. Too bad you arenāt here, it would be so much more fun with a friend. None of my BFFs are into knitting or crocheting so I will be flying solo. š
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Post by cathygeha on Mar 3, 2024 7:01:10 GMT
March 3
CHALLENGE START WEIGHT 2/11: 163.6
February 18 weigh in: 163 February 25 weigh in: 165.2 March 3 weigh in: 166.8 March 10 weigh in: March 17 weigh in: March 24 weigh in:
Final Weigh March 31:
I have been off program and the weight is up. I did walk with Rosalie in the old souks of Batroun so got some exercise in BUT the big cookie with iced latte probably didn't help...ah well...back on track this morning.
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