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Post by amyj on Apr 11, 2024 12:46:34 GMT
Welcome to Alcohol Free is What We Want To Be! We are glad you are here with us! If you have been struggling with your weight and have found this board you undoubtedly have your own unique, complicated relationship with alcohol and food. Laying out the problem honestly can give you the extra push you need to succeed in getting it under control. A few questions for you to think about...do you wake up at 3 AM wondering what did you do? Do you sometimes have no recall of the evening before or do you try to recover your memory of the evening before you even get out of bed? Is your spouse angry with you...or do you simply think that A is taking over too much of your life, affecting your weight loss? These are hard questions but know that you will find understanding, love, encouragement and support on this thread. We are each in a different stage of this journey but you will find others have shared your experiences. There is no judgment, just an acknowledgement that we have been there, done that. This board of great people will support you in your journey.
Some of us have been here for several years, others are new, but all are welcome and if you have visited before but didn't stay, there is still and always a place for you. Don't get overwhelmed, take your time, if something strikes you, respond. We are great at giving advice, whether you want it or not....you will get tough love, if necessary, but you will also find help. We practice positive self-talk and support, we encourage and gently hold each other accountable. We each have stories to tell, share and suggestions to help. We post different challenges during the year. Please join us if you think this is the group for you. You will be glad you did.
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Post by amyj on Apr 11, 2024 12:47:00 GMT
New Challenge: CARING April 1 - May 31
“Your body is precious. It is our vehicle for awakening. Treat it with care" - Buddha
This challenge is about caring about and for yourself. So often we get caught up in taking care of everyone else that we don’t give ourselves the care we need. Or we give up caring about ourselves. A variety of reasons and for no reason, it just happens. The hard part is to recognize it and once you do, it is hard to explain because very few want to acknowledge it. You get kudos for taking care of others, not so much for taking of yourself. Not caring about yourself can leave an emptiness that you may try to fill with food and alcohol. The emptiness remains, just stuffed down. We want and need more for ourselves. So let’s begin!
Treat yourself the way you’d treat someone you love.
Love yourself first and the rest will follow.
Focus on health and well being
So how do you begin to care about yourself?
Eating fruits and vegetables sounds like a plan. So does drinking water!!
Walking up a flight of stairs without gasping for breath. Your heart will thank you.
If you don’t want to be AF then restrict the amount and limit the days you will allow yourself a drink. But remember if 10 is not enough, one is too many.
Start with baby steps. Making too many changes at once can be discouraging so start small. Have you been slacking on flossing daily? Then start making it a ritual. Do you drink soda for energy? Start cutting back by one.
Treat yourself to something you enjoy. Buying the store brand face cream will sit on the counter. If you have a favorite, budget it in as a necessity….better than buying alcohol! Maybe getting a manicure or pedicure is important to you yet you deny it for yourself. Ask yourself why.
Make a list of indulgences that aren’t food or alcohol and start sprinkling them into your life.
Ask for what you need. Too many times we get into a funk and we don’t ask for help. You are loved and we want to help each other.
Curb all the justification. Sometimes you just have to do something because you want to do it. You don’t have to explain yourself!
Think of your successes….add three things that went well today to your daily journal. What?? you aren’t journaling? Journaling is caring!
LET THE CARING BEGIN!!
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Post by amyj on Apr 11, 2024 12:47:17 GMT
THE EIGHT GOOD HEALTH GUIDELINES 1. Eat at least five servings of vegetables and fruits each day. 2. Choose whole-grain foods, such as brown rice and oats, whenever possible. 3. Include two servings of milk precuts – low fat (1%) or fat-free – each day. 4. Have some healthy oil (olive oil, canola, sunflower, safflower or flaxseed each day. 5. Ensure that you are getting enough protein by choosing at least a serving or two of meat, poultry, fish, eggs or dried beans each day. Many dairy products are also good sources of protein. 6. Limit added sugar and alcohol. 7. Drink at least 6 8-ounce glasses of water a day. 8. Take a multiple vitamin-mineral supplement each day.
NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: One or more fruit daily: One or more vegetable daily: Dairy: Healthy Oils:
AF: AIM: ANIM: Exercise goal:
HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY
Journal: Move Accountability: Sleep Accountability: Nutrition Accountability: Happiness Accountability: Habit Accountability: Check in Daily Accountability: Time Management Accountability: What did you do for yourself today?
Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote
Start weight, April 1: April 8: April 15: April 22: April 29: May 6: May 13: May 20: May 27: End of Challenge, May 31:
Great Success!
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Post by amyj on Apr 11, 2024 13:22:33 GMT
Out the door in 2024!
THE EIGHT GOOD HEALTH GUIDELINES 1. Eat at least five servings of vegetables and fruits each day. 2. Choose whole-grain foods, such as brown rice and oats, whenever possible. 3. Include two servings of milk precuts – low fat (1%) or fat-free – each day. 4. Have some healthy oil (olive oil, canola, sunflower, safflower or flaxseed each day. 5. Ensure that you are getting enough protein by choosing at least a serving or two of meat, poultry, fish, eggs or dried beans each day. Many dairy products are also good sources of protein. 6. Limit added sugar and alcohol. 7. Drink at least 6 8-ounce glasses of water a day. 8. Take a multiple vitamin-mineral supplement each day.
NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: 72 oz One or more fruit daily: Y One or more vegetable daily: Y AF: (mostly alcohol free since August 16, 2006): 6457; ANIM: 1 (021221) AIM: N ANIM: N Fitbit Goal/burned: 2170/2363 JUST JOURNAL!
HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY
Move Accountability: 4, 13,400+ steps, 250 steps 8/8 hours, walked the nature trail, worked in yard, workout with weights, counter pushups, stretches Sleep Accountability: 2, slept well, but awake early, 4.5+ hours, Fitbit score 70, stress management 74 Nutrition Accountability: 3, 23/23, 21 weeklies left, blue dot, grilled cheese Happiness Accountability: 3, enjoyed the day, time outside, stitched, read before bed Habit Accountability: 3, drinking more water than diet Coke Check in Daily Accountability: 3, I'm here! Time Management Accountability: 3, filled bird feeders, put out new hummingbird feeder, puttered in yard, stitched on Santa #3 What did you do for yourself today? Reading, couch time, time outside
Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote: “Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.” ―Dalai Lama XIV
Start weight, April 1: 168.8 April 8: 168 April 15: April 22: April 29: May 6: May 13: May 20: May 27: End of Challenge, May 31:
2024 Goals: 11,000 steps each day: 98/101 At least 7 hours sleep: 50/101 Lift weights twice/week: Wk 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13:only once, 14 Blue dots: 91/101 Starting weight: 179.8 Get to the 160's: March 10, 2024 150s:
DH & I took the golf cart to the nature trail to walk yesterday morning. It was still overcast when we left, but we did get a bit of sun occasionally. When we got back I filled the bird feeders and looked at one of the raised beds that was falling apart. Moved about half the dirt out of it, relocated the big parsley plant, got DH to help put it back together. Then I did some weeding. I needed a shower and a change of clothes after playing in the dirt. I think I'll plant the tomatoes and peppers seedlings and plant some green beans, zinnias, cosmos, etc. as soon as it stops raining, maybe later today. There are no frosts in the forecast for the rest of the month, so it should be safe. I had some couch time, made broccoli soup for dinner, with grilled cheese sandwiches. After dinner I watched a Hallmark movie and stitched on Santa #3. I fell asleep fairly easily, but woke up around 4:30 and could not go back to sleep. I read until around 8, dozed a bit, then finally got up.
It was windy and rained hard overnight, may still be some light rain this morning. DH is missing, Dr. appointment? He thought he had one tomorrow, but maybe he was off on the day.
Cindy- Yay for being able to flush the toilets again. Glad you got to see the eclipse, definitely something not to miss.
Jan- WTG steps 11/11, PU, stretches, blue dot, AF, not throwing out much food this week, doing errands. Yay for a nice day, getting your eye exam and new glasses.
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Post by amyj on Apr 11, 2024 13:26:32 GMT
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Post by amyj on Apr 11, 2024 13:27:26 GMT
M-W Word of the Day aegis Audio pronunciation
noun | EE-jus What It Means Aegis is a formal word that refers to the power to protect, control, or support something or someone. It is often used in the phrase under the aegis of. // The issue will be decided under the aegis of an international organization.
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Post by cathygeha on Apr 11, 2024 13:41:13 GMT
Start weight, April 1: 165.2 April 8: 165 April 15: April 22: April 29: May 6: May 13: May 20: May 27: End of Challenge, May 31: April 11: 165.6
Tomorrow is the trip to Indira Guesthouse. I have no idea what will be on the brunch menu but plan to enjoy the trip if it is not cancelled. I had a haircut and the beautician put dry shampoo on my hair to give it bulk...not sure what to think of that but...it was interesting. I will wash it tomorrow before I get ready to go and will bet you that it doesn't look the same as when he did it today!
No internet this morning and probably won't check in till evening or Saturday morning so will wish you well till I check in again.
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Post by WWVicki on Apr 11, 2024 16:17:44 GMT
Today is prep day. Liquids only. 2:00 starts the fun stuff. Procedure starts tomorrow at 10.
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Post by tatermom on Apr 11, 2024 19:11:23 GMT
"I look to 2024 with a renewed commitment to Progress” “Out the Door in 2024” NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: daily goal 70: 60 oz One or more fruit daily: 2 One or more vegetable daily: 2 Dryuary AF: 102 Fitbit Goal/burned: 2,000/2,275 JUST JOURNAL! HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY Move Accountability: Step goal 7500: 5,349 steps, 11/11 hours, 60 PU, 8 floors, stretches, toe touches. Sleep Accountability: 7 hours, 84 sleep, 86 stress, Slept better Nutrition Accountability: 34/23 pts, 20 weeklies, 1/2 quest, eggs, bacon, pancakes, banana, ham, chips, BLT, 2 chocolates Fitbit Macros: 1,570 calories, 45% Carbs, 35% fat, 20% protein 205 left Happiness Accountability: 5 feeling happy Habit Accountability: Exercise bar 2/4. did tiny habits, morning journal, quiet time, tracking it all Check in Daily Accountability: 5 I'm here!! Time Management Accountability: 4 work, took van in, picked up, eye appt. puzzle, groceries, dinner, knit, TV time What did you do for yourself today? 4 Knit on hat, puzzle, TV time, journaled, read in bed got new glasses Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote. “Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day-in and day-out" CHALLENGE START WEIGHT 4/1/24: 198 officially at WW this morning  April 8: 197.8 April 15: April 22: April 29: May 6: May 13: May 20: May 27: End of Challenge, May 31: Hi all At home and ready for some couch time. Went to knitting and lunch with my friends. Peggy is currently doing radiation and will start Chemo so we miss her. She seems to be keeping up her spirits. Headed to the office after lunch and did my filing for @ an hour. Going to sit here and read for a bit and then work on some more knitting. Do the things that need concentration and aren't good social projects. I did finish the hat I was doing at knitting today and will make a pom pom for it. DH was just getting ready to leave for the green waste when I was getting home. That has given me a little quiet afternoon time to do some marching around to my music, get some steps in and type without anyone talking No big plans for this evening, I avoided the burger and fries for lunch as I think that's what for dinner. I had a smoked turkey sand and a side salad. Then of course I got into the candy at work, but only one chocolate covered caramel from the good candy store. It's trying to sprinkle. just home it gets done so we can drive to Chicago in the morning and not have messy weather. At least it's not snow. Hope you all have a great evening. Jan Amy Hope you wayward DH returned and you got in your walk. Did you get out to plant your veggies and flowers or still too wet? Are these seeds or seedlings you bought or started? GG Good luck with your procedure, or really with the prep which is worse Will DH drop you off at the hospital and come back for you or wait? Cathy Have fun on your field trip tomorrow. Hope your internet comes back. yay for a haircut. That's next on my list. Waving hi.
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Post by flower on Apr 11, 2024 22:23:39 GMT
Hi friends! Back to work tomorrow. I did have a nice couple of days. When Tyler played travel baseball, we met Gina (a mom) . Such a nice woman with great parents. Her mom passed away. She was such a sweet lady. Her husband took us out for pizza one time. Her wake is 9-11:00 AM Monday. My boss said I can come in late.
Amy, do they have “regular “ hallmark movies or just Christmas ones?
Jan, have fun in the city! It’s supposed to be gorgeous! Are you staying the whole weekend?
Gg, good luck with the colonoscopy. I have to have one this summer—ugh! Cindy, any news about DS?
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Post by cindy on Apr 11, 2024 23:26:31 GMT
Hi,
Just wanted to check in. More rain yesterday so problems have returned. At least with some sunshine the "lake" is smaller. Hopefully tomorrow will be sunny too.
All was going fine this morning and when I went in to check on DS to see if he could take a break I fell back on the sofa. I thought my knee had given out. I could not get back up from the sofa because the room was just spinning. It took about two hours before I felt I could stand up but all day has been iffy, feeling like I could pass out and off balance. I don't feel that I have vertigo, just don't know what. Fingers crossed all will be fine in the morning. This messed up my day!
Hugs to all, will chat tomorrow. Cindy
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