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Post by amyj on Apr 16, 2024 12:53:07 GMT
Welcome to Alcohol Free is What We Want To Be! We are glad you are here with us! If you have been struggling with your weight and have found this board you undoubtedly have your own unique, complicated relationship with alcohol and food. Laying out the problem honestly can give you the extra push you need to succeed in getting it under control. A few questions for you to think about...do you wake up at 3 AM wondering what did you do? Do you sometimes have no recall of the evening before or do you try to recover your memory of the evening before you even get out of bed? Is your spouse angry with you...or do you simply think that A is taking over too much of your life, affecting your weight loss? These are hard questions but know that you will find understanding, love, encouragement and support on this thread. We are each in a different stage of this journey but you will find others have shared your experiences. There is no judgment, just an acknowledgement that we have been there, done that. This board of great people will support you in your journey.
Some of us have been here for several years, others are new, but all are welcome and if you have visited before but didn't stay, there is still and always a place for you. Don't get overwhelmed, take your time, if something strikes you, respond. We are great at giving advice, whether you want it or not....you will get tough love, if necessary, but you will also find help. We practice positive self-talk and support, we encourage and gently hold each other accountable. We each have stories to tell, share and suggestions to help. We post different challenges during the year. Please join us if you think this is the group for you. You will be glad you did.
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Post by amyj on Apr 16, 2024 12:53:37 GMT
New Challenge: CARING April 1 - May 31
“Your body is precious. It is our vehicle for awakening. Treat it with care" - Buddha
This challenge is about caring about and for yourself. So often we get caught up in taking care of everyone else that we don’t give ourselves the care we need. Or we give up caring about ourselves. A variety of reasons and for no reason, it just happens. The hard part is to recognize it and once you do, it is hard to explain because very few want to acknowledge it. You get kudos for taking care of others, not so much for taking of yourself. Not caring about yourself can leave an emptiness that you may try to fill with food and alcohol. The emptiness remains, just stuffed down. We want and need more for ourselves. So let’s begin!
Treat yourself the way you’d treat someone you love.
Love yourself first and the rest will follow.
Focus on health and well being
So how do you begin to care about yourself?
Eating fruits and vegetables sounds like a plan. So does drinking water!!
Walking up a flight of stairs without gasping for breath. Your heart will thank you.
If you don’t want to be AF then restrict the amount and limit the days you will allow yourself a drink. But remember if 10 is not enough, one is too many.
Start with baby steps. Making too many changes at once can be discouraging so start small. Have you been slacking on flossing daily? Then start making it a ritual. Do you drink soda for energy? Start cutting back by one.
Treat yourself to something you enjoy. Buying the store brand face cream will sit on the counter. If you have a favorite, budget it in as a necessity….better than buying alcohol! Maybe getting a manicure or pedicure is important to you yet you deny it for yourself. Ask yourself why.
Make a list of indulgences that aren’t food or alcohol and start sprinkling them into your life.
Ask for what you need. Too many times we get into a funk and we don’t ask for help. You are loved and we want to help each other.
Curb all the justification. Sometimes you just have to do something because you want to do it. You don’t have to explain yourself!
Think of your successes….add three things that went well today to your daily journal. What?? you aren’t journaling? Journaling is caring!
LET THE CARING BEGIN!!
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Post by amyj on Apr 16, 2024 12:53:57 GMT
THE EIGHT GOOD HEALTH GUIDELINES 1. Eat at least five servings of vegetables and fruits each day. 2. Choose whole-grain foods, such as brown rice and oats, whenever possible. 3. Include two servings of milk precuts – low fat (1%) or fat-free – each day. 4. Have some healthy oil (olive oil, canola, sunflower, safflower or flaxseed each day. 5. Ensure that you are getting enough protein by choosing at least a serving or two of meat, poultry, fish, eggs or dried beans each day. Many dairy products are also good sources of protein. 6. Limit added sugar and alcohol. 7. Drink at least 6 8-ounce glasses of water a day. 8. Take a multiple vitamin-mineral supplement each day.
NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: One or more fruit daily: One or more vegetable daily: Dairy: Healthy Oils:
AF: AIM: ANIM: Exercise goal:
HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY
Journal: Move Accountability: Sleep Accountability: Nutrition Accountability: Happiness Accountability: Habit Accountability: Check in Daily Accountability: Time Management Accountability: What did you do for yourself today?
Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote
Start weight, April 1: April 8: April 15: April 22: April 29: May 6: May 13: May 20: May 27: End of Challenge, May 31:
Great Success!
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Post by tatermom on Apr 16, 2024 13:05:03 GMT
"I look to 2024 with a renewed commitment to Progress” “Out the Door in 2024” NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: daily goal 70: 70 oz One or more fruit daily: 3 One or more vegetable daily: 2 Sober Spring AF: 107 Fitbit Goal/burned: 2,000/2,274 JUST JOURNAL! HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY Move Accountability: Step goal 7500: 8867 steps, 10/11 hours, 75 PU, 5 floors, stretches, toe touches, walked at park, AP Sleep Accountability: 7 hours, 86 sleep, 87 stress, Nutrition Accountability: 22/23 pts, New week, tortilla fritatta, fruit bowl, peanut butter pretzels, chili, potato skin, LO steak, hot pretzel, Cottage cheese “pudding” Fitbit Macros: 1,397calories, 46% Carbs, 28% fat, 26% protein. 377 left Happiness Accountability: 5 feeling happy Habit Accountability: Exercise bar 1/4. AP. Morning routine Check in Daily Accountability: 5 I'm here!! Time Management Accountability: 4 worked 2 1/2 hours, shopped at Menards, planted flowers, walked the park, knit What did you do for yourself today? 4 TV time, talked to DS, bought flowers, read Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote. “A beautiful day begins with a beautiful mindset" Unknown CHALLENGE START WEIGHT 4/1/24: 198 officially at WW this morning  April 8: 197.8 April 15: April 22: April 29: May 6: May 13: May 20: May 27: End of Challenge, May 31: Good morning all. Going to head off to my meeting. Had a good day yesterday, but that was just to make up for all the other detours of the week. Now to string together a group of good days since I’ll be done working after this morning. Yesterdays files took a long time and my cuticles can tell the story. I get so many paper cuts trying to jam the files back in the tight drawers. But next week I’ll get a big enough paycheck to go get a full service haircut and color, that I have been putting off. I hate spending the $$$ for a salon, but figure it’s probably been over a year so doing it for ME. I”m hoping this afternoon when Iget home from work and errands that the rain holds off to get some more of the bark spread. The Lowe’s sale goes off tomorrow and I’d like to go get 20 more bags. At least if we can get them in the truck they would be covered and not so soggy when we finally get to move the next batch. I was looking out back yesterday and seeing all the plants that need cutting back, weeds starting, got a bit overwhelmed and just came in . But if I focus on just one little patch back in the corner, get it cleaned up and barked, then move on to the next little patch. Like the WW, make a tiny goal first and get that done, then chose another. Guess I better get moving so I can go WI. Will check in later. Thanks for starting us Amy Jan
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Post by amyj on Apr 16, 2024 13:40:52 GMT
Out the door in 2024!
THE EIGHT GOOD HEALTH GUIDELINES 1. Eat at least five servings of vegetables and fruits each day. 2. Choose whole-grain foods, such as brown rice and oats, whenever possible. 3. Include two servings of milk precuts – low fat (1%) or fat-free – each day. 4. Have some healthy oil (olive oil, canola, sunflower, safflower or flaxseed each day. 5. Ensure that you are getting enough protein by choosing at least a serving or two of meat, poultry, fish, eggs or dried beans each day. Many dairy products are also good sources of protein. 6. Limit added sugar and alcohol. 7. Drink at least 6 8-ounce glasses of water a day. 8. Take a multiple vitamin-mineral supplement each day.
NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: 72 oz One or more fruit daily: Y One or more vegetable daily: Y AF: (mostly alcohol free since August 16, 2006): 6462; ANIM: 1 (021221) AIM: N ANIM: N Fitbit Goal/burned: 2170/2255 JUST JOURNAL!
HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY
Move Accountability: 3, 11,200+ steps, 250 steps 8/8 hours, walked at doctor's office, worked in yard, laps in basement, yoga, counter pushups, stretches Sleep Accountability: 3, slept well, >7.5 hours, Fitbit score 89, stress management 77 Nutrition Accountability: 3, 28/23, 20 weeklies left, blue dot, ice cream, sweet and salty bar Happiness Accountability: 3, enjoyed the day, time outside, stitched, read before bed Habit Accountability: 3, drinking more water than diet Coke Check in Daily Accountability: 3, I'm here! Time Management Accountability: 3, went with DD to doctor, yard work, couch time, stitched on Santa #3 What did you do for yourself today? Reading, couch time, time outside
Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote: “If something is important enough, even if the odds are stacked against you, you should still do it.” —Elon Musk
Start weight, April 1: 168.8 April 8: 168 April 15: 167.8 April 22: April 29: May 6: May 13: May 20: May 27: End of Challenge, May 31:
2024 Goals: 11,000 steps each day: 103/106 At least 7 hours sleep: 52/106 Lift weights twice/week: Wk 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13:only once, 14, 15 Blue dots: 95/106 Starting weight: 179.8 Get to the 160's: March 10, 2024 150s:
DD had an appointment with her PCP yesterday morning, DH & I went along. We walked around the parking lot during her visit. It was her first visit and she wants to see her again in 4 weeks which is concerning. After the doctor, we went to Home Depot to pick some dirt for the raised beds. When we got home I filled the beds that needed soil and planted tomatoes, peppers and marigolds, potted a hibiscus, then watered everything and put out fresh hummingbird nectar. I put together a second trellis and planted yard long green bean seeds. Then I had a shower, lunch, and some couch time. We had 6 for yoga. We had leftover veggie lasagna for dinner with spicy turkey sausage and salad. After dinner I watched a Hallmark movie and stitched. I fell asleep easily and slept well.
It's cloudy today but is not supposed to rain and is headed to the upper 80's. Still have lots of stuff to do outside. There's been more activity at the hummingbird feeder this morning.
Jan- WTG steps 10/11, PU, stretches, blue dot, rollover, AF. Yay for beautiful weather and getting your morning time back. Spreading all that bark is no joke. GL getting stuff done in the yard, always feels like there's so much more to do. Yay for your last day at work, hope your paper cuts heal quickly.
Vicki- Yay for feeling good, getting things done, girls trip to visit aunt and family this weekend. WTG doing WW Zoom, congrats to Jack on good game. I am getting excited for the trip which is a week from tomorrow! I haven't flown since Mom died.
Carole- Hope your tummy is better today.
Cathy- Glad your cold is better, yay for completing tax forms.
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Post by amyj on Apr 16, 2024 13:44:04 GMT
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Post by amyj on Apr 16, 2024 13:44:52 GMT
M-W Word of the Day
purloin verb | per-LOYN What It Means To purloin is to take something that belongs to someone else—that is, to steal it. Purloin is much more formal-sounding than steal, but is often—though not always—encountered in humorous contexts, suggesting that the theft is not serious. // The puppy managed to purloin a few cookies from the plate when no one was looking. // The studio stepped up security, fearing that someone might attempt to purloin a copy of the script for the show’s season finale.
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Post by tatermom on Apr 16, 2024 20:31:07 GMT
Hi all. After 3 and time to sit down Went to WI and up .2, I just keep messing around with the same bits. A new week to work it out. Came home to have breakfast and then off to work. Felt strange, all the "new" girls were gone, last day yesterday. Just the boss, the grandson and 2 others that will work for the rest of the month or so until all the late and extensions are done. The 2 girls in the back are still there printing. People even came in today and I guess they said yesterday around 4 it was just crazy busy. Took me over 2 hours again to file but I'm really Done now. Came home and DH and I went to get 20 more bags of bark. We just got done spreading 12 in the back and I said enough for today. That was after the weeding, trimming etc to get it ready for the bark. It looks SO much better already. Now the rain is supposed to come so we may bet a break until the weekend, still have 16 bags to spread around and sure we could use more. Going to make a chicken stir fry tonight and then just knit and watch some TV. Hope you have all had a good day. Jan Amy Glad there were people so yoga could happen. Hope all is good with DD, did they give any reason for seeing her again so soon? Glad you got all the starts planted. Can't believer your trip is coming up so quickly. I guess ours is too and I should start making some kind of plan, looking for campgrounds and figuring out which way we want to go and what's to see on the way. GG Sounds like a fun get away with the girls. yay for seeing your cousins and planning ahead to enjoy some special treats. I really enjoyed my meeting today. Had some good laughs and got some good ideas. Was nice as I could just wear my WI clothes and then come home to dress for work. I am determined to have a loss next week!! Cathy Glad you are feeling better. Sorry about the tax papers and having to send them now if they don't go electronically. Carole Did you feel better this morning or stay home from work? Will you be done before Memorial Day? Any plans yet for the family vacation? Waving hi.
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Post by cathygeha on Apr 17, 2024 8:30:04 GMT
Start weight, April 1: 165.2 April 8: 165 April 15: 166 April 22: April 29: May 6: May 13: May 20: May 27: End of Challenge, May 31: April 17: 166 [day three]
It seems I am still hosting the cold virus but know it will move on eventually. This is only day three, I think. I can sleep at night which is fine, I don't have a fever, my voice is still iffy and the other things that come with colds are still here. I won't be going out to socialize till it passes, that's for sure!
We have leftovers for lunch so will put some food on a dish, microwave, and eat. We have green fava beans, borlotti beans-onions-tomato sauce, rice, eggplant in tomato sauce, soup, and no doubt other items lurking in the fridge...some rotisserie chicken. Perhaps a stir fry? We will see.
My daughter said it took them a bit to figure out how to do the FreeFile forms on the IRS online page. She said she would help if I have trouble when I get ready to try again.
Mounah is off to do some shopping and I am going to head to the kitchen soon.
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