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Post by amyj on Apr 25, 2024 11:04:23 GMT
Welcome to Alcohol Free is What We Want To Be! We are glad you are here with us! If you have been struggling with your weight and have found this board you undoubtedly have your own unique, complicated relationship with alcohol and food. Laying out the problem honestly can give you the extra push you need to succeed in getting it under control. A few questions for you to think about...do you wake up at 3 AM wondering what did you do? Do you sometimes have no recall of the evening before or do you try to recover your memory of the evening before you even get out of bed? Is your spouse angry with you...or do you simply think that A is taking over too much of your life, affecting your weight loss? These are hard questions but know that you will find understanding, love, encouragement and support on this thread. We are each in a different stage of this journey but you will find others have shared your experiences. There is no judgment, just an acknowledgement that we have been there, done that. This board of great people will support you in your journey.
Some of us have been here for several years, others are new, but all are welcome and if you have visited before but didn't stay, there is still and always a place for you. Don't get overwhelmed, take your time, if something strikes you, respond. We are great at giving advice, whether you want it or not....you will get tough love, if necessary, but you will also find help. We practice positive self-talk and support, we encourage and gently hold each other accountable. We each have stories to tell, share and suggestions to help. We post different challenges during the year. Please join us if you think this is the group for you. You will be glad you did.
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Post by amyj on Apr 25, 2024 11:04:55 GMT
New Challenge: CARING April 1 - May 31
“Your body is precious. It is our vehicle for awakening. Treat it with care" - Buddha
This challenge is about caring about and for yourself. So often we get caught up in taking care of everyone else that we don’t give ourselves the care we need. Or we give up caring about ourselves. A variety of reasons and for no reason, it just happens. The hard part is to recognize it and once you do, it is hard to explain because very few want to acknowledge it. You get kudos for taking care of others, not so much for taking of yourself. Not caring about yourself can leave an emptiness that you may try to fill with food and alcohol. The emptiness remains, just stuffed down. We want and need more for ourselves. So let’s begin!
Treat yourself the way you’d treat someone you love.
Love yourself first and the rest will follow.
Focus on health and well being
So how do you begin to care about yourself?
Eating fruits and vegetables sounds like a plan. So does drinking water!!
Walking up a flight of stairs without gasping for breath. Your heart will thank you.
If you don’t want to be AF then restrict the amount and limit the days you will allow yourself a drink. But remember if 10 is not enough, one is too many.
Start with baby steps. Making too many changes at once can be discouraging so start small. Have you been slacking on flossing daily? Then start making it a ritual. Do you drink soda for energy? Start cutting back by one.
Treat yourself to something you enjoy. Buying the store brand face cream will sit on the counter. If you have a favorite, budget it in as a necessity….better than buying alcohol! Maybe getting a manicure or pedicure is important to you yet you deny it for yourself. Ask yourself why.
Make a list of indulgences that aren’t food or alcohol and start sprinkling them into your life.
Ask for what you need. Too many times we get into a funk and we don’t ask for help. You are loved and we want to help each other.
Curb all the justification. Sometimes you just have to do something because you want to do it. You don’t have to explain yourself!
Think of your successes….add three things that went well today to your daily journal. What?? you aren’t journaling? Journaling is caring!
LET THE CARING BEGIN!!
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Post by amyj on Apr 25, 2024 11:05:16 GMT
THE EIGHT GOOD HEALTH GUIDELINES 1. Eat at least five servings of vegetables and fruits each day. 2. Choose whole-grain foods, such as brown rice and oats, whenever possible. 3. Include two servings of milk precuts – low fat (1%) or fat-free – each day. 4. Have some healthy oil (olive oil, canola, sunflower, safflower or flaxseed each day. 5. Ensure that you are getting enough protein by choosing at least a serving or two of meat, poultry, fish, eggs or dried beans each day. Many dairy products are also good sources of protein. 6. Limit added sugar and alcohol. 7. Drink at least 6 8-ounce glasses of water a day. 8. Take a multiple vitamin-mineral supplement each day.
NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: One or more fruit daily: One or more vegetable daily: Dairy: Healthy Oils:
AF: AIM: ANIM: Exercise goal:
HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY
Journal: Move Accountability: Sleep Accountability: Nutrition Accountability: Happiness Accountability: Habit Accountability: Check in Daily Accountability: Time Management Accountability: What did you do for yourself today?
Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote
Start weight, April 1: April 8: April 15: April 22: April 29: May 6: May 13: May 20: May 27: End of Challenge, May 31:
Great Success!
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Post by amyj on Apr 25, 2024 12:07:27 GMT
Out the door in 2024!
THE EIGHT GOOD HEALTH GUIDELINES 1. Eat at least five servings of vegetables and fruits each day. 2. Choose whole-grain foods, such as brown rice and oats, whenever possible. 3. Include two servings of milk precuts – low fat (1%) or fat-free – each day. 4. Have some healthy oil (olive oil, canola, sunflower, safflower or flaxseed each day. 5. Ensure that you are getting enough protein by choosing at least a serving or two of meat, poultry, fish, eggs or dried beans each day. Many dairy products are also good sources of protein. 6. Limit added sugar and alcohol. 7. Drink at least 6 8-ounce glasses of water a day. 8. Take a multiple vitamin-mineral supplement each day.
NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: 48 oz One or more fruit daily: Y One or more vegetable daily: Y AF: (mostly alcohol free since August 16, 2006): 6471; ANIM: 1 (021221) AIM: N ANIM: N Fitbit Goal/burned: 2170/2245 JUST JOURNAL!
HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY
Move Accountability: 3, 11,600+ steps, 250 steps 7/8 hours, packing, walked at the airport, laps in basement Sleep Accountability: 1, trouble falling asleep on the plane, no Fitbit score, stress management 85 Nutrition Accountability: 3, chicken curry, plane snacks, chocolate mousse Macrosfirst: Protein: 54/137, Carbs: 134/100, Fiber: 25g Net Carbs: 119, Fat: 43/45, Calories: 1072/1353 Happiness Accountability: 3, enjoyed the day, exciting to be on the trip, read on plane Habit Accountability: 3, drinking more water than diet Coke Check in Daily Accountability: 3, I'm here! Time Management Accountability: 3, packing, travelling to airport, waiting for takeoff What did you do for yourself today? Reading, on an adventure
Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote: “Some people want it to happen, some wish it would happen, others make it happen.” ―Michael Jordan
Start weight, April 1: 168.8 April 8: 168 April 15: 167.8 April 22: 166.6 April 29: May 6: May 13: May 20: May 27: End of Challenge, May 31:
2024 Goals: 11,000 steps each day: 112/114 At least 7 hours sleep: 54/114 Lift weights twice/week: Wk 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13:only once, 14, 15, 16, 17:only once Blue dots: 101/112 (no longer tracking) Starting weight: 179.8 Get to the 160's: March 10, 2024 150s:
It's a good thing that our flight didn't leave until after 7pm b/c it took me all morning to pack and take care of last minute stuff around the house. We drove to Cory's place to park, the Uber showed up within 15 minutes and got us to the airport in one piece. The traffic was terrible as always in Atlanta. The line for security was short, so we had about 3 hours to kill before the plane left. I had never flown Virgin before, very nice people, economy seats were comfortable enough. We got blankets, pillows, and headphones. We had a choice of chicken curry on rice or rigatoni. I had the chicken curry, figuring it would be a better choice for protein. It was pretty good. DH got clammy shortly after we ate, had a regular Coke and felt better, so I guess his blood sugar must have dropped. He didn't eat as much yesterday as he usually does, so lesson learned there. I read until around 11pm, wasn't sleepy, but tried to sleep anyhow. I dozed a bit, but apparently didn't sleep enough for Fitbit to track it. The full moon was beautiful to see out the window of the plane. I was amazed how quickly it got light around 5-6 this morning. London Heathrow airport was busy and chaotic, but we made it through Immigration and got our bags without any problems. There was a Globus rep waiting for us with a driver to take us to the hotel. It was about an hour drive to our hotel which is very nice, new and modern. We got here about 11:30 London time, we've checked in but our room isn't ready yet, so we're hanging out in a coffee shop in the lobby. The concierge has our bags until the room is ready. We are very close to Westminster Bridge and the Abbey. As soon as our room is ready we're going out to walk around a bit.
Jan- WTG 11/11, PU, stretches, blue dot, AF, good day, bulbs in ground. It's good that you got an early start. I did read House Rules, enjoyed it very much. I really liked My Sister's Keeper. DH's jeans did not show up before we left, I doubt he would wear a kilt though, LOL.
Liz- Good to see you here.
Vicki- Sorry your regular water aerobics instructor wasn't there. Happy birthday to DS, GL shopping for DH. Yay for Murphy, glad you've seen online activity from Murphy.
Carole- WTG for the workout, lots of steps at work.
Cathy- WTG having a plan for eating in Beirut with Rosalie.
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Post by tatermom on Apr 25, 2024 13:14:29 GMT
"I look to 2024 with a renewed commitment to Progress” “Out the Door in 2024” NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: daily goal 70: 60 oz One or more fruit daily: 2 One or more vegetable daily: 2 Sober Spring AF: 116 Fitbit Goal/burned: 2,000/2,449 JUST JOURNAL! HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY Move Accountability: Step goal 8,000: 6,928 steps, 11/11 hours, 60 PU, 8 floors, stretches, toe touches, Sleep Accountability: 7 hours, 82 sleep, 83 stress, Nutrition Accountability: 31/23 pts 26 weeklies eggs, 1/2 bagel, ham sandwich, pretzels and dip, chicken parm (WW) broccoli, french bread, trail mix, berry crumble finally gone! Fitbit Macros: calorie goal @1500/ 1,791 calories, 48% Carbs, 31 fat, 21% protein 92 over Happiness Accountability: 5 feeling happy, thinking about vacation, Habit Accountability: Exercise bar 2/4. Morning routine,tracking Check in Daily Accountability: 5 I'm here!! Time Management Accountability: 4 Aldi run, cleaned under the beds, outside time, ordered "bed" for camper, made dinner, read in bed What did you do for yourself today? 4 TV time, shopping, outside time, read in bed Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote. “A beautiful day begins with a beautiful mindset" Unknown CHALLENGE START WEIGHT 4/1/24: 198 officially at WW this morning  April 8: 197.8 April 15: 197.5. at home this morning. April 22: 197.5 at home April 29: May 6: May 13: May 20: May 27: End of Challenge, May 31: Good morning. Going to make it a great day after feeling a bit down this morning and crabby with the scale. I know it's my behavior and choices and I can do better. Love the QOTD Amy. Last bites of crumble went down the disposal and I will get my AP bar today. I just needed to look for some positive signs this morning and realized DH brought me in a feather yesterday he found in the yard. It's a Cardinal feather, kind of orangy red, so not sure dad or mom. Then this morning I saw the male outside the window and it sparked the memory that I dreamt about my dad last night. He was telling me he had been to the cabin and had made a fire in the fireplace. Whatever, I know it's a message to keep going, my main focus right now has been to be AF and I should be celebrating that every day instead of fussing over the scale number. Stay the course and it will change. Morning rant over Glad to have knitting to go to today and then will head to Manards or Walmart to look for soil and plants. Aldi's had the best garden stuff yesterday in the Junk aisle. Got my blueberry cheap, 2 solar lanterns, a plant hook for hanging baskets, a cooler, grocery bag to take in the van and a cute plastic table cloth to use on the picnic tables while camping. I also got a 3 pot set that stacks, I'm going to do herbs in the top and strawberries in the bottom. I'll post a pic if I get it planted today or tomorrow. After 8 already so I better get moving. Hope you all have a great day. Jan Amy Top o' the morning to you!! So exciting that you are already really there. Have fun exploring today. Sure you'll be beat later but hope you can then sleep really well tonight. Are you all just on your own today or do you have any tours with Global to do? Glad DH felt better after the Coke and his sugars came back up. I'm getting in that mode of trying to remember everything I need to get done, at least I can still work on it a few things each day. We ordered a mattress topper for the van and hope it arrives soon enough to see how it is so we have time to return it and look some more if necessary. Have an awesome time, take millions of photos we will all live vicariously through you. I had to look up how many hours ahead you were. Thanks for starting us Cathy I'm with you, too many treat days and extra calories add up fast. We can do this. Have fun with Rosalie today. GG Glad you get to see the kids and watch Jack's game. We probably have 4-5 different kinds of water aerobic classes, I just need to find one I like. Yay for making good choices. Carole Hope you're not too sore this morning. At least when you are learning new things and are busy the time goes fast!! Waving hi
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Post by cindy on Apr 25, 2024 13:24:12 GMT
Good Morning!
Amy, so good to see your post this morning! Glad the journey went well and hopefully you are settled in your room and are out and about! Glad DH felt better after a coke. I hope you are able to sleep well tonight. Look forward to hearing more about your adventures.
Vicki, hope shopping with DH went well. Glad that you saw Murphy was online. Hopefully she will check in with us.
Cathy, enjoy your outing with Rosalie.
Jan, I keep looking at bulbs but haven't been inspired yet to buy. It might help if I went to an actual nursery! How was DH's birthday? Glad that you are feeling better today. Positive dreams always help! Glad the cardinal came to visit.
Liz, good to see your post!
Carole, I could not keep up with you. DS still does not have any answers. It would be helpful if he quit stalling on giving up more blood for testing.
Queen Carolina is still nesting. I filled the feeders early evening and I don't know if she goes there. We've been having several male cardinals. I need to get myself to Costco to pick up some basics. Hopefully motivation will come!
Will try to check back in later.
Hugs, Cindy
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