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Post by cindy on Jun 14, 2024 11:03:12 GMT
Welcome to Alcohol Free is What We Want To Be!We are glad you are here with us! If you have been struggling with your weight and have found this board you undoubtedly have your own unique, complicated relationship with alcohol and food. Laying out the problem honestly can give you the extra push you need to succeed in getting it under control. A few questions for you to think about...do you wake up at 3 AM wondering what did you do? Do you sometimes have no recall of the evening before or do you try to recover your memory of the evening before you even get out of bed? Is your spouse angry with you...or do you simply think that A is taking over too much of your life, affecting your weight loss? These are hard questions but know that you will find understanding, love, encouragement and support on this thread. We are each in a different stage of this journey but you will find others have shared your experiences. There is no judgment, just an acknowledgement that we have been there, done that. This board of great people will support you in your journey.
Some of us have been here for several years, others are new, but all are welcome and if you have visited before but didn't stay, there is still and always a place for you. Don't get overwhelmed, take your time, if something strikes you, respond. We are great at giving advice, whether you want it or not....you will get tough love, if necessary, but you will also find help. We practice positive self-talk and support, we encourage and gently hold each other accountable. We each have stories to tell, share and suggestions to help. We post different challenges during the year. Please join us if you think this is the group for you. You will be glad you did.
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Post by cindy on Jun 14, 2024 11:03:51 GMT
NEW CHALLENGE! Declaration of Independence from Alcohol June 1 - July 4
Freedom from alcohol? Does that make sense to you? Are you held hostage to it, use it to calm yourself, to forget what is going on, to get through the evening or even the day? What once was an enjoyable treat has become a daily necessity? Or are you wondering if you are drifting into some kind of undefined, gray area of casual dependency? Then it is time to take a stand and declare yourself independent. It isn't easy, if it was there would be no need for the support of this board. But together we stand and together we can fight it.
Think about the freedom from alcohol. It isn't just about the money, but it is about your health and well-being.
How is your Pursuit of Happiness being affected by alcohol?
The focus of this board is to be ALCOHOL FREE. The focus of our new challenge is be alcohol free from June 1 - July 4, one day at a time. Starting June 1 and ending July 4, we are challenging ourselves to make the right choices, and go alcohol free. Can you let yourself be the person you want to be? Can you reach out for help if need be? The rules are simple, no alcohol for the challenge (understanding for a very special occasion is given). Post your stats daily, it is an essential component to success. One misstep does not mean throw away the day, the night, the week. We are works in progress.
This is a challenge about control....you are in control of what goes in your mouth. Give yourself the gift of THINDEPENDENCE and be selfish if that is what is needed to take care of you!
If you slip, post to the board and find some understanding. If you slip and report you are AF, you are not hurting us, you are hurting yourself. Slips happen, pick yourself up and start again. There is no judgement, we are very supportive of each other.
As with all of our challenges, everyone is welcomed. For some making the commitment to the challenge is the way to go. For others, one day at a time is the way to go. No one will be cut from the challenge. And feel free to post to the board even if you choose not to commit to the challenge. But you might want to ask yourself why.
June 1 - June 7: What is your PREAMBLE (your intention for the challenge?)
June 8 - June 14: What are your BIll of RIghts as a Weight Watcher? (the right to eat fruit, the right to exercise, the right to feel good about yourself, etc.)
June 15 - June 21: What is your pursuit of Happiness?
June 22 - June 29: What does Freedom mean to you by working this life plan?
July 4: Get ready for your own fireworks to happen by declaring your Truths! Kick tyranny of alcohol and a few extra pounds aside as we celebrate THINDEPENDENCE.
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Post by cindy on Jun 14, 2024 11:04:16 GMT
THE EIGHT GOOD HEALTH GUIDELINES 1. Eat at least five servings of vegetables and fruits each day. 2. Choose whole-grain foods, such as brown rice and oats, whenever possible. 3. Include two servings of milk precuts – low fat (1%) or fat-free – each day. 4. Have some healthy oil (olive oil, canola, sunflower, safflower or flaxseed each day. 5. Ensure that you are getting enough protein by choosing at least a serving or two of meat, poultry, fish, eggs or dried beans each day. Many dairy products are also good sources of protein. 6. Limit added sugar and alcohol. 7. Drink at least 6 8-ounce glasses of water a day. 8. Take a multiple vitamin-mineral supplement each day.
NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: One or more fruit daily: One or more vegetable daily: Dairy: Healthy Oils:
AF: AIM: ANIM: Exercise goal:
HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY
Journal: Move Accountability: Sleep Accountability: Nutrition Accountability: Happiness Accountability: Habit Accountability: Check in Daily Accountability: Time Management Accountability: What did you do for yourself today?
Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote Start weight June 1: June 8: June 15: June 22: June 29: July 4: Celebrate! Final weigh in:
Great success!
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Post by cindy on Jun 14, 2024 11:06:16 GMT
Good Morning!
Crazy early! for me.
Just thought I'd get the board started.
Hugs, Cindy
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Post by tatermom on Jun 14, 2024 13:02:20 GMT
I look to 2024 with a renewed commitment to Progress” “Out the Door in 2024” June 1 - June 7: What is your PREAMBLE (your intention for the challenge?) Focus on my 30 plant challenge, track it all, daily step goal June 8 - June 14: What are your BIll of RIghts as a Weight Watcher? (the right to eat fruit, the right to exercise, the right to feel good about yourself, etc.) I have the right to throw away food and say no without feeling guilty. I can buy things that help my journey, even if others don't like them.  (FF cottage cheese) ha ha NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: daily goal 70: 70 oz One or more fruit daily: 3 One or more vegetable daily: 5 Sober Spring AF: 162 AIM: 4 Fitbit Goal/burned: 2,000/2,092 JUST JOURNAL! HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY Move Accountability: Step goal 8,000: 6,348 steps, 11/11 hours, 65 PU, 8 floors, stretches, lazy day Sleep Accountability: 7+ hours, 87 sleep, 80 stress crazy dreams got me up Nutrition Accountability: 24/23 pts 19 weeklies, eggs, salmon omelette, toast, salad, soup, 1/2 bread stick, Ahi, broccoli, spinach, pilaf, cookie, trail mix Fitbit Macros: calorie goal @1500/1,633 44% carbs, 33% fat, 23% protein. 291 over Happiness Accountability: 5 feeling happy Habit Accountability: Exercise bar 4/4. Morning routine, tracking, daily steps Check in Daily Accountability: 5 I'm here!! Time Management Accountability: 4 Knitting, lunch at Olive Garden, Walgreens, Grocery store. Spied Hobby Lobby for buttons, nap, weeded What did you do for yourself today? 4.journaled, read, visit with friends, Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or quote: Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better. Maya Angelou Start weight June 1: 196 Cabin Scale June 8: (4) WW 195.8 But down 1.8 from last WW and have hit my 25# again! June 15: 196.2. June 22: June 29: July 4: Celebrate! Final weigh in: Good morning all. Had some crazy dreams, those when you can't find your car or whatever it is you're looking for and just keep wandering. Wrote I had a lazy day, but maybe it really was a rest day. Will get my steps back up today and stay out of the JUNK food. Have my to-do list made, mostly yard work and getting things cleaned up so I can head up North on Monday. Enjoying the open windows this morning before the humidity and heat come this afternoon. Need to get out in the yard early enough before the excuse of Hot gets in the way Filled the bird feeders this morning and it's amazing the squirrel radar that automatically knows there is new feed and they are in the feeders. Neighbors left this morning so I'll be on cat duty until I leave Monday. Guess I better get moving. My FB just buzzed at me to get my 7 o'clock steps. More coffee sounds good too. Will check in later. Happy Friday all. Jan Cindy Thanks for starting us. Sorry you were up so early, or maybe so late? What kind of cake will you get? I'm sure I'll wander Costco while my tires are getting put on, but I tell myself I need nothing!! ha ha see how that goes. Hope you have your pom pom's ready! Go Celtics. GG Glad Dh is doing better. All those steps, did they make you walk to Cody ha ha. Hard to believe your trip is already coming to an end. There are so many fun things out there in our country to see. Hope you got some awesome photos. Safe travels home. Cathy Hard when the kids leave and it's back to reality. Take some time to regroup and then you will be BOT. Sorry the flights were so messed up. I guess when you travel these days you just have to know most times you won't be on the schedule you think you will be. Amy How many more Santa's do you need to do? I need to work on my x stitch Santa, that just feels so slow moving after knitting, where I can actually see a finished project sooner. Waving hi.
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Post by amyj on Jun 14, 2024 13:32:27 GMT
THE EIGHT GOOD HEALTH GUIDELINES 1. Eat at least five servings of vegetables and fruits each day. 2. Choose whole-grain foods, such as brown rice and oats, whenever possible. 3. Include two servings of milk precuts – low fat (1%) or fat-free – each day. 4. Have some healthy oil (olive oil, canola, sunflower, safflower or flaxseed each day. 5. Ensure that you are getting enough protein by choosing at least a serving or two of meat, poultry, fish, eggs or dried beans each day. Many dairy products are also good sources of protein. 6. Limit added sugar and alcohol. 7. Drink at least 6 8-ounce glasses of water a day. 8. Take a multiple vitamin-mineral supplement each day.
NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: 88/75 oz goal One or more fruit daily: Y One or more vegetable daily: Y Dairy: Y Healthy Oils: Y
AF: (mostly alcohol free since August 16, 2006): 6511 AIM: 0 ANIM: 1 (021221) Fitbit Goal/burned: 2170/2016
HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY
Journal: Y Move Accountability: 3, 11,300+ steps, 250 steps 7/8 hours, walked the neighborhood, workout with weights, laps in basement, counter pushups, wall stretches Sleep Accountability: 3, slept well, 7.5+ hours, Fitbit score 92, stress management 90 Nutrition Accountability: 3, fruit, protein bar, lobster roll, chips, ice cream, Twinkie Macrosfirst: Protein: 53/137 (17%), Carbs: 133/100 (42%), Fiber: 26g, Net Carbs: 107, Fat: 57/45 (41%), Calories: 1362/1353, 9 over, gold star Happiness Accountability: 3, enjoyed the day, watched GOT, stitched, read before bed Habit Accountability: 3, drinking more water than diet Coke Check in Daily Accountability: 3, I'm here! Time Management Accountability: 3, walking, made peach salsa, couch time, finished Santa #12, started on #13 What did you do for yourself today? Reading, time outside, couch time
Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote: “It’s hard to beat a person who never gives up.” —Babe Ruth
Start weight June 1: 164.2 June 8: 162.6 June 15: June 22: June 29: July 4: Celebrate! Final weigh in:
June 1 - June 7: What is your PREAMBLE (your intention for the challenge?) Keep moving towards the 150's June 8 - June 14: What are your Bill of Rights as a Weight Watcher? (the right to eat fruit, the right to exercise, the right to feel good about yourself, etc.) Need to get better sleep, focus on protein, less fat, carbs
2024 Goals: 11,000 steps each day: 157/165 At least 7 hours sleep: 77/165 Lift weights twice/week: Wk 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13:only once, 14, 15, 16, 17:only once, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24 Starting weight: 179.8 Get to the 160's: March 10, 2024 150s:
DH & I took the golf cart to the top of the hill to walk yesterday morning. There's no shade, but there was a nice breeze. We stopped at the neighbor's on the way back to pick some more peaches. I picked some off the ground that had bites out of them since I was going to make the peach salsa right away and could cut out the bad parts. My back got tired with all the chopping, but I finished making the salsa around 1:30, got 8 small jars. I ended up being a little short on ripe peaches so I added some frozen mango. I filled the 8 jars and had nothing left over, so I haven't tasted it yet, but I've used this recipe before so it should be good. After I sample it, I plan on taking one to the neighbor as a "thank you" for the peaches. I talked to my eldest sister, she and my other sister went to Mom's yesterday to work in the yard. They want to clean out the playhouse and the old chicken house which are full of mostly junk and the plan is to do work on that when we're up there for the 4th of July. I don't think I'll mention it to DH yet as he will complain about it from now until then. I had couch time in the afternoon, did a workout video with weights. We got lobster rolls from the Cousin's food truck, delish! After dinner I watched GOT, finished Santa #12, started #13, which should be the last one.
It's another sunny day, heading to the 90's. Not sure what's for dinner yet, other than I plan on making the pistachio ice cream.
Jan- WTG steps, PU, stretches, AP, blue dot, AF. Glad you had a nice lunch with Peggy and Cathy. Hope the tire appointment goes well. You might try Etsy for the buttons. DH has been opening the bedroom windows in the morning too. I haven't spread the mulch yet, it's supposed to be a little cooler next week.
Cindy- Thanks for getting us started. Sorry you couldn't make the appointment b/c of the traffic. Enjoy the game, company, and Thai food tonight. WTG for the good workout with PT. I must roll my feet out too since I always wear down the outsides of the soles first.
Vicki- Glad you could check in. Yay for lots of steps, learning about Yellowstone and Buffalo Bill, DH getting an attitude improvement. I loved Devil's Tower. We walked the outer loop and were very tired afterwards.
Cathy- Good to hear from you too. Glad you had a nice visit with DD, sorry her flights were delayed.
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Post by amyj on Jun 14, 2024 13:35:25 GMT
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Post by amyj on Jun 14, 2024 13:36:02 GMT
M-W Word of the Day
rebuff verb | rih-BUFF What It Means To rebuff something, such as an offer or suggestion, is to reject or criticize it sharply. One can also rebuff a person by rudely rejecting or refusing them. // When their request was immediately rebuffed by upper management, the staff was left frustrated yet also more determined.
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Post by cathygeha on Jun 15, 2024 6:09:36 GMT
Start weight June 1: 170.4 June 8: 171.2 June 15: 168.6 June 22: June 29: July 4: Celebrate! Final weigh in: June 15 <168.6>
Yesterday was a healthy, OP, within points/calories, first day back on track. Today will be the second and there is a plan to also walk for at least 30 minutes as the beginning of a new routine. The weather is warm so I won't walk outside and many have all fans on while walking...we will see. We have two medium sized eggplants to use as our vegetable for lunch. I might make baba ganouj the easy way by peeling, cooking in the microwave and not bothering to bake over charcoal. Or, we can have it on rice with yogurt, chickpeas, and garlicky tahini sauce...we will see.
I have read your posts but won't be able to do personals today. Thinking of all of you and so happy to have you in my life!
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