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Post by amyj on Jul 24, 2024 12:12:02 GMT
Welcome to Alcohol Free is What We Want To Be!We are glad you are here with us! If you have been struggling with your weight and have found this board you undoubtedly have your own unique, complicated relationship with alcohol and food. Laying out the problem honestly can give you the extra push you need to succeed in getting it under control. A few questions for you to think about...do you wake up at 3 AM wondering what did you do? Do you sometimes have no recall of the evening before or do you try to recover your memory of the evening before you even get out of bed? Is your spouse angry with you...or do you simply think that A is taking over too much of your life, affecting your weight loss? These are hard questions but know that you will find understanding, love, encouragement and support on this thread. We are each in a different stage of this journey but you will find others have shared your experiences. There is no judgment, just an acknowledgement that we have been there, done that. This board of great people will support you in your journey.
Some of us have been here for several years, others are new, but all are welcome and if you have visited before but didn't stay, there is still and always a place for you. Don't get overwhelmed, take your time, if something strikes you, respond. We are great at giving advice, whether you want it or not....you will get tough love, if necessary, but you will also find help. We practice positive self-talk and support, we encourage and gently hold each other accountable. We each have stories to tell, share and suggestions to help. We post different challenges during the year. Please join us if you think this is the group for you. You will be glad you did.
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Post by amyj on Jul 24, 2024 12:12:28 GMT
Labor of Love NEW CHALLENGE July 5 through September 2
The word labor implies a specific task or effort, many times painful or arduous. A labor of love is doing something because you really want to, not because of any monetary reward you might get for it even though it involves hard work.
This challenge is all about a labor of love, reminding yourself to love yourself so it becomes your norm.
How often do we do something for someone else because it makes them happy and in turn makes us happy. But as the saying goes “how can you love someone else if you can’t love yourself”.
There are many ways we don’t show ourselves love. We are harder on ourselves than on anyone else. We go over and over “why did I drink too much” and the ever popular "if I lost weight I would be so much happier”. We are not showing ourselves love by overeating and over drinking, we are doing the opposite. To start, give yourself grace and tell yourself yesterday is done, tomorrow isn’t here, so let’s deal with the present.
We worry about so many things, things we have no control over. Resilience, happiness and freedom comes from knowing what to care about and what to not let us get bogged down. Let go of things that do not work for you, help you, or encourage you. It is hard! You want to be a good person but be good to yourself first. Send out positivity but give yourself positivity.
We all have bad days, nothing goes right, nasty people out and about, stress levels are over the top and you have no control. This can be true in many ways but your control is to step away, love yourself.
Journal it, put it down on paper, and then let it go.
So each morning give yourself an affirmation. Here are some suggestions:
#1. I am worthy. #2. I am enough. #3. I am beautiful inside and out. #4. Even my “flaws” have good and helpful aspects. #5. I love and approve of myself. #6. I am delighted with who I am. #7. I fully approve of who I am, even as I better myself. #8. I approve of myself and love myself completely. #9. I am happy in my own skin and in my own circumstances. #10. I am surrounded by love. #11. I am treasured for who I really am. #12. I am worthy of happiness and love. #13. I enjoy my own company as I get in touch with my true self. #14. I am at peace and happy when I’m alone.
It may sound like Stuart Smiley but go with it!
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Post by amyj on Jul 24, 2024 12:12:48 GMT
THE EIGHT GOOD HEALTH GUIDELINES 1. Eat at least five servings of vegetables and fruits each day. 2. Choose whole-grain foods, such as brown rice and oats, whenever possible. 3. Include two servings of milk products – low fat (1%) or fat-free – each day. 4. Have some healthy oil (olive oil, canola, sunflower, safflower or flaxseed each day. 5. Ensure that you are getting enough protein by choosing at least a serving or two of meat, poultry, fish, eggs or dried beans each day. Many dairy products are also good sources of protein. 6. Limit added sugar and alcohol. 7. Drink at least 6 8-ounce glasses of water a day. 8. Take a multiple vitamin-mineral supplement each day.
NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: One or more fruit daily: One or more vegetable daily: Dairy: Healthy Oils:
AF: AIM: ANIM: Exercise goal:
HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY
Journal: Move Accountability: Sleep Accountability: Nutrition Accountability: Happiness Accountability: Habit Accountability: Check in Daily Accountability: Time Management Accountability: What did you do for yourself today?
Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote Start weight July 5: July 12: July 19: July 26: August 2: August 9: August 16: August 23: August 30: Yay we have done great! September 2
Celebrate! Final weigh in:
Great success!
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Post by amyj on Jul 24, 2024 12:39:03 GMT
THE EIGHT GOOD HEALTH GUIDELINES 1. Eat at least five servings of vegetables and fruits each day. 2. Choose whole-grain foods, such as brown rice and oats, whenever possible. 3. Include two servings of milk products – low fat (1%) or fat-free – each day. 4. Have some healthy oil (olive oil, canola, sunflower, safflower or flaxseed each day. 5. Ensure that you are getting enough protein by choosing at least a serving or two of meat, poultry, fish, eggs or dried beans each day. Many dairy products are also good sources of protein. 6. Limit added sugar and alcohol. 7. Drink at least 6 8-ounce glasses of water a day. 8. Take a multiple vitamin-mineral supplement each day.
NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: 80/75 oz goal One or more fruit daily: Y One or more vegetable daily: Y Dairy: Y Healthy Oils: Y
AF: (mostly alcohol free since August 16, 2006): 6551 AIM: 0 ANIM: 1 (021221) Fitbit Goal/burned: 2170/2011
HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY
Journal: Y Move Accountability: 4, 12,800+ steps, 250 steps 7/8 hours, walked the nature trail, yard work, workout with weights, counter PU, wall stretches Sleep Accountability: 3, slept well, 7 hours, Fitbit score 90, stress management 81 Nutrition Accountability: 3, protein shake, protein bar, egg wrap, chips, leftover fajitas, cake MacrosFirst: Protein: 96/137 (28%), Carbs: 109/100 (32%), Fiber: 30gm, Net Carbs: 79, Fat: 62/45 (40%), Calories: 1295/1353, 58 under, gold star Happiness Accountability: 3, enjoyed the day, watched GOT, stitched, read before bed Habit Accountability: 3, more water than Diet Coke Check in Daily Accountability: 3, I'm here! Time Management Accountability: 3, walked, laundry, yard work, couch time, stitched What did you do for yourself today? reading, stitching, time outside
Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or motivational quote: “Never give up on a dream just because of the time it will take to accomplish it. The time will pass anyway.” ―Earl Nightingale
Start weight July 5: 160.4? Mom's scale July 12: 158.6 July 19: 158 July 26: August 2: August 9: August 16: August 23: August 30: Yay we have done great! September 2 Celebrate! Final weigh in:
Great success!
2024 Goals: 11,000 steps each day: 190/211 At least 7 hours sleep: 98/211 Lift weights twice/week: Wk 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13:only once, 14, 15, 16, 17:only once, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28 Starting weight: 179.8 Get to the 160's: March 10, 2024 150s: June 24, 2024 140s:
DH & I took the golf cart to the nature trail to walk yesterday morning, it was mostly shady/overcast. When we got back I picked green beans and tomatoes, and a few strawberries. Then I went through the tomato plants and trimmed off the dead branches, they look a lot better. Then I watered the porch plants. I finished the laundry, put it away, then lunch and couch time. DH kept busy putting my new desk chair together and shaving down the door to the garage which has really been sticking in the humidity. The flooring people were supposed to come after 5:30pm, but apparently got delayed in their other job, so now are scheduled for 10am this morning. We had leftovers for dinner last night, I had another piece of cake.
It's gloomy this morning, I plan on going to water aerobics. Hopefully it doesn't get rained out.
Jan- WTG steps, PU, stretches, NJJ, blue dot, rollovers, AF, going to WW meeting, scale down. Yay for DH starting the laundry. Enjoy having the kids. Sorry the trip to Chicago may not be in the cards, and for the air show crowds. Hope you slept better.
Cindy- Sorry about your internet issues.
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Post by amyj on Jul 24, 2024 12:42:33 GMT
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Post by amyj on Jul 24, 2024 12:43:09 GMT
M-W Word of the Day
catastrophe noun | kuh-TASS-truh-fee What It Means A catastrophe is never a good thing. Catastrophe can refer to a momentous tragic event, an utter failure, a violent and sudden change in a feature of the earth, or a violent usually destructive natural event. // Despite her careful planning, the party turned out to be a catastrophe.
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Post by flower on Jul 24, 2024 12:52:57 GMT
Hi friends! I could’ve sworn I posted yesterday 🤷🏼‍♀️ last night I went to dinner with my dad, brother DSIL and their 4 friends and then to the outdoor concert. Dad had a good time but my sil does this all the time. I’m sure my dad just wants to be with my brother. Anyway, silly thing to get worked up about. Only 8 days and a wake up till FL! Going back to work is going to be a wake up call!
Amy, I hope the flooring works out perfect for you.
Jan, I saw something about the accident, I was wondering if that was the same one as by you. I’m glad you’ll have time with your boy by yourself as the gf studies!!
Cindy, we’ve been having internet issues here too.
I better get a move on. Have a great day!!
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Post by tatermom on Jul 24, 2024 18:02:10 GMT
I look to 2024 with a renewed commitment to Progress” “Out the Door in 2024” NUTRITION ACCOUNTABILITY Drink more water: daily goal 70: 75 oz One or more fruit daily: 1 One or more vegetable daily: 1 Sober Spring AF: 197 AIM: 9 Fitbit Goal/burned: 2,000/2,436 JUST JOURNAL! HABIT ACCOUNTABILITY Move Accountability: Step goal 8,500: 8,753 steps, 11/11 hours, 75 PU, 10 floors, stretches, walked, AP No jiggle July, Sleep Accountability: 7 hours, 73 sleep, 74 stress, resting HR 70 Nutrition Accountability: 31/23 pts 26 weeklies, eggs, toast, ham, LO lasagna, fish filet, fries, protein drink Fitbit Macros: calorie goal @1500/1,519 cal 47% carbs, 172g, 31% fat, 53g, 22% protein 86g, fiber 8g, 167 left Happiness Accountability: 4 feeling happy Habit Accountability: Exercise bar 1/4. Morning routine, tracking, Check in Daily Accountability: 5 I'm here!! Time Management Accountability: 4 WW meeting, groceries, fold/ put away laundry, Cleared tables What did you do for yourself today? 4.journal, reading, knitting, nap Please post a NSV (non-scale victory), LSP (little sign of progress), PA (positive affirmation) or quote: "I am saying "yes" to all the things that serve my health and journey today" Start weight July 5: 194.6 cabin July 12: 194 July 19: 194.8 193.8 at cabin today July 23: 192.4 Now to hold on August 2: August 9: August 16: August 23: August 30: Yay we have done great! September 2 Celebrate! Final weigh in: Hi all. Just got home from the airport, pickup went well and so good to see the kids. GF went up for a nap, I'm going to follow shortly and figure the boy will nap too. They were up before 4 their time to get the Uber to the airport. My sleep is still messed up. DH is up late reading with the light on, waking up thinking about driving, just thinking tonight may be better Today will be pretty lowkey. GF said when she gets up they will do a Starbucks run and then study until she feels ready for the test. It's a lot of memorizing Pharmaceuticals. No other real plans for today. Have a happy Hump day all. Will check in when I can Jan Amy Hope the floor gets figured out today. How was the water this morning? Did you get any weather? Is the cake gone? Carole Glad your dad enjoyed the concert. Tik Tok for the days until Florida. Who is watching the pets while you're gone? Hi all
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Post by WWVicki on Jul 25, 2024 0:35:30 GMT
Hi girls! Talk about a change in plans! We did not go to the movies today. It ended up being a nice day and DH wanted to get some things done outside. I agreed, only after checking to make sure it will still be here next week. I told him I was going by myself if he cancels on me again! But we did go out to eat tonight. Tomorrow after the Y, I am heading up north to visit family and friends. I will be staying with 2 different aunts. When I called my mom’s sister, she was so excited to hear I was coming. A distant cousin died and she asked if I would take her to the memorial. I was happy to say yes. I know Mom would be pleased. It means I will have to leave a little later than I planned, but I should still be home before dark. I will have plenty of time to pop in and visit people while I’m there. I’m even going blueberry picking at my cousins! I doubt I’ll be able to post until I get back. Enjoy your weekend! Jan, I KNOW you will!
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Post by cindy on Jul 25, 2024 0:41:47 GMT
Hi All!
My computer was messed up this morning and took awhile to get it functioning. I couldn't get Chrome to work. Couldn't get it to turn off properly so did the hard restart. Checked out a few things but haven't a clue. It seems to be okay...I haven't gone to any weird sites so fingers crossed.
I finally knelt down on my knee. I did it on the rug and then butt dragged myself to the lower cupboard that needed to be sorted and had stuff to put away. After finishing the project I decided to get on my knees and pull myself up. Was not good so back to icing and a small amount of Tylenol. But at least the stuff is off the floor and back into the cupboard.
Amy, hope DH was able to get the chair put together, the door shaved down and that the floor people showed up and were able to get the job. Now that I have cut way back on the Tylenol I am feeling better. I'm not sure I could stop at one piece of cake. Glad you getting more produce from your garden.
Carole, hope your internet situation has improved. Yay for Florida coming up soon! School starts here on August 15. Does your Dad get any alone time with your brother?
Jan, glad the kids are safely there. Hope GF's was able to get the test done today and it went well. I hope your sleep improves greatly for tonight. Enjoy, enjoy, enjoy!
Vicki, have a wonderful time with family! Keep DH to his promise! Safe travels.
DS just got home so going to turn my computer over to him to see if he can find any issues. By the by, DS had two charges on his credit card...$13 and $19. Neither of them were made by him so he reported it for fraud. The bank did remove the charges but in talking with the fraud department, the person said that it was people will do....put a couple of small charges on the accounts and if they don't get flagged, will go for a big $$ item. The person said it was happening more and more.
Hope everyone has a wonderful evening! Hugs, Cindy
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