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Post by suewms on Mar 13, 2020 23:27:53 GMT
Good Evening, WW Friends ~
My head is spinning from all that is going on. We’ve been watching our Governor and then the President speak and the news and then there are the notifications from our school district, all every time things change! Now our schools are closed from now through April 12th. That’s four weeks with the final one being our scheduled Spring Break week. Another email arrived today from him saying we would all be paid for this time, and I am certainly hoping that is true!
Pam ~ Yes, the first class I went to was a Yoga class last Saturday. I LOVED it!! It was way more work out than the Silver Sneakers Yoga I used to do. I had it on my calendar to go again this Saturday and even adjusted the time to meet VBF for lunch; but when our school district closed down so did the Fitness Studio (and Fitness Center and Pool) as they are all school related. Since then I have been to the Fit & Fabulous work out class on Tuesday which I also LOVED!!
Ann ~ You were wise to postpone your WW. I plan to go Wednesday (provided they are still open) as our building is ONLY a WW Studio. We WI in the first room where the receptionists are behind the counter (so some distance) and we don’t stay for the meeting. I am excited about this week as I have been working really hard. I also fall right smack dab in the middle …. I am not panicking or stockpiling though I do take the health threat very seriously.
Judy ~ I bet your DD was disappointed. I am glad we didn’t have any travel plans in the works. I can relate to what your DH said, as I went to Costco yesterday afternoon and it looked like they had had a “going out of business” sale!! Empty boxes, empty shelves, so sad! At least the deli was full and orderly and I brought home our favorite stuffed peppers for supper. I do hope they start stocking the shelves again SOON!
I shopped at Costco yesterday and came home with a big bag of frozen Tilapia loins as well as a 6 lb bag of chicken tenders. Those will last us a long time. I got my coffee (which had gone on sale) and DH’s Cheerios. Can you believe? They were almost out of Cheerios??
This morning I went and got my nails done, so my errands are almost all done. I need to go to Meijer tomorrow to pick up some Rx. The medical reporter on TV said to have 2 weeks of food, water and medications and we’ll be more than good. I probably have enough food for a month <LOL>
DH and I celebrated our Friday the 13th mock anniversary tonight with supper at Logan’s Road House. We had gift cards, and they usually aren’t busy – plus we went early (5 o’clock) so it was quiet. Also they still had their 3-6 pm specials on so we saved calories and $$. I had a 6 oz sirloin, coleslaw, corn and a half side order of mac ‘n cheese (DH and I split it). Fun night!! Now we’re home and safely tucked in.
BBL. Make a great night!!
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Post by ann1953 on Mar 14, 2020 11:53:51 GMT
Good morning all. Slept okay last night. LuLa was feeling 'off' and woke us up several times to go out. We will stay close to home today to monitor how she is doing. Sue so happy you and DH got to enjoy your mock Friday the 13th anniversary  How fun. Nice that you meals were both tasty and you got to save $$. Waving to y'all and will CBL...... |
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Post by sunshinep396 on Mar 14, 2020 19:04:04 GMT
I'll give you fair warning--there is a vent coming.
I noted spots on the floor in the hallway, so went to the utility room to check for any socks DH had put in the laundry. It didn't take long to find a bloody one. To say I was upset is to put it mildly.
He was out working in the garden, so I had time to compose myself and figure out an approach. When he came in and sat down, I told him we needed to talk. He could tell by my tone I was very serious. He said, "About what?" and I replied, "The wound on your foot." He immediately said yeah, he needs to call and make an appointment with the wound care doctor. I asked how long it has been there and he never gave me a straight answer, just that it got better, then got worse, so I know it's been a while. I reminded him that in the hospital after his amputation he promised he would never lie to me and yet this is the second time he has. He tried to say he didn't lie, but I cut that short and told him that NOT telling me and pretending all is well is a lie and we had discussed that the last time he hid it. Now I know why he didn't make an appointment to get fitted for new inserts and shoes as they advised him when he finished physical therapy. I am at my wit's end with this man! Not a good time to have to be pretty much homebound with only each other for company. Say a prayer for us, please.
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Post by ann1953 on Mar 14, 2020 20:39:07 GMT
((((Pam)))) Holding you up in prayer. This can't be easy for you. Please keep is posted. I am lighting a candle after this post. Huge hugs your way.
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Post by suewms on Mar 14, 2020 22:36:31 GMT
Pam ~ Glad you had the opportunity to vent. We all here worry about the health of our DH's (perhaps more than our own). But when male stubbornness sets in, we don't have control of the situation. I am so sorry about your DH and your current dilemma. I do hope you get him to seek medical care and get this fixed.
I had a great time today. I went to Meijer and they had just set out 2 big pallets of cases of toilet paper, so I picked up 2 more packs for downstairs. Also the other day when I shopped I looked for my toothpaste and they didn't have it on the shelf. I was low, so I went and looked again today and there it was!! I also filled my gas tank and at a very low price.
I met my VBF for lunch (Ruby Tuesday salad bar) and we had a great chat and sat and visited for a couple of hours. The restaurant was anything BUT busy so no one was seated near us and we felt totally safe. We agreed to go to WW on Wednesday (as it is a free standing studio) but will wait to decide about coffee afterwards ??
I also got an email cancelling the upcoming Retrouvaille Post Sessions, so we don't have to present on March 5th after all. We weren't looking forward to that one, and now it's off the calendar ..... so good!
My DH is finally feeling better. The Z-pack seemed to have done the trick and it is supposed to continue working for 5 more days. Then he goes for a blood draw on Wednesday and then a Cardiology check-up on Thursday.
Take care all, and stay safe!!
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Post by ann1953 on Mar 14, 2020 22:55:35 GMT
Sue they are cancelling WW meetings until 4/4 You probably have the email from them. We will all get some sort of an app to have the meeting via the internet. Not sure if I'll even bother to check it out, unless it quick and simple to download and use.
Happy that DH is feeling better and that you had a good lunch with your friend at Ruby Tuesdays. I cancelled my hair cut/color as I just don't feel safe going. Lord knows I need it badly!
Our last walk of the day was cut short as it clouded up and the wind picked up. It felt much colder than the real feel of 39!
Sleep well......Judy hope all is well with you and DH.
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Post by sunshinep396 on Mar 15, 2020 4:21:29 GMT
Well, a rip-roaring fight took place tonight, with 10 years worth of suppressed emotions spewing all over. Loudly. Thus far, we are both still here and scheduled to sleep in the same bed. We hugged and kissed before he headed to bed, so I am hoping we can move forward and correct some of the grievances we both expressed. Our crazy pattern is to yell and vent and then the next day ignore it all. I don't think that is healthy. We need to change the things that bother each of us to be able to move forward in a healthy way. Please continue to pray for us. Meanwhile, LA has its first corona virus death.  |
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Post by ann1953 on Mar 15, 2020 12:05:36 GMT
(((Pam))) praying that you and DH can come to an agreement and work things out.
Another great sleeping night for me. Today will be spent much like it was yesterday...laying low and just taking hood walks. During this time I believe it's very important to do what you feel most comfortable in doing to 'get through'. For me, that's to stay put!
Take care, all...and I'll CBL
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Post by suewms on Mar 15, 2020 12:37:39 GMT
Good Morning, WW Friends ~
Happy Sunday! We have another cold damp day so far. But then we aren't going anywhere except maybe out to lunch later on. I also slept quite well last night which was very welcome.
Ann ~ Thanks for the heads up about WW. I got a text from my VBF this morning letting me know, so we cancelled our planned WI for this Wednesday. We had already put on our calendars April 8th and 22nd. We both want to lose some and think twice monthly WI's will help more. Then when I opened my email, I found a notification of my own. I think that is probably a wise decision.
Pam ~ My heart just goes out to you!! I know how upsetting marital discord can be. DH and I present a four-hour workshop in Retrouvaille on Conflict Management (and have for almost 25 years) and through that have learned a whole lot about it. We both know how hurtful and destructive it can be, so we try to avoid letting things get that far. But it is very hard to do!! Please know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers in the coming day.
I had a text and VM both on my phone from the school district - mostly just telling me to check my email. There were more instruction regarding the shut-down plus an answer from my principal so I am totally clear now. In fact, they are allowing teachers, etc., to come to the building from 12-2 on Monday, after which our badges (key cards) access will be discontinued. This is the first time I have experienced this.
So, I have planned to strip and deep clean my bathroom tomorrow and change the color scheme (for Spring) and so far have put away some towels and gotten out the new color, along with shower curtain & rugs. That way I can start early in the morning and get 'er done.
BBL. Make a great day!!
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Post by ann1953 on Mar 15, 2020 12:48:50 GMT
Sue happy you got the email. I'm very happy that ww is doing this. Next appointment for me to cancel is my gel manicure.
Take care all.
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Post by suewms on Mar 15, 2020 14:09:01 GMT
Ann ~ OH MAN! I don't mind cancelling so many of my appointments/plans -but I am so glad I just recently had my hair cut (the 6th) and my nails done (the 13th). Priorities, doncha' know?? Of course I would have cancelled them if need be but I have to confess that I am glad it wasn't needed. Take care .........
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Post by ann1953 on Mar 15, 2020 15:25:33 GMT
I can deal with my nails as they were just done. I go every 3 weeks and it's not till the end of this month. My hair?  ? A totally different story but I'll survive. I just hope I don't start frightening little children lol. |
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Post by judy709 on Mar 15, 2020 16:08:18 GMT
Hi all,
I’ve been out of touch for a bit but just read all your posts and I am glad to catch up.
It’s been another world here and pretty stressful as I’m sure it is for all of you. We have our first on campus possible corona virus staff member and there was an emergency meeting this morning so I suspect we won’t be working on campus tomorrow. I’m not risking it no matter what because I tick off all the vulnerable boxes with lung issues, age, heart and a husband with heart disease. We won’t go out to dinner and we have enough food on hand at home for a long while. We did takeout lobster rolls last night. And we met with the builder and architect for 3 hours yesterday. We received the proposal and the house is amazing and beautiful but well have to look hard at finances since it is very expensive. We both love it and working with them. They are first class and top notch professionals.
Pam, I’m sorry about the blow up. We all have them at times. I have a hot temper and can be very impatient. Marriage is the hardest arrangement at times and I know your DH ‘s foot issues and amputation are a very hot issue and rightly so. He must be terrified himself to face the problem. Especially now where we don’t want to go near a hospital or even doctors offices even when necessary. I’m sure he must feel badly about being secretive. So sorry but I know you’ll both patch it up because I see a whole lotta love and good stuff with you two.
Massachusetts may be one of the hardest hit due to the large Biogen conference people who all tested positive. Ugh. I’m glad to see that our government national leaders are FINALLY taking this seriously and realizing it’s not a hoax or overblown. I do think things will get better if we all hunker down and flatten that curve.
Our DD is terrified of losing her business and her income.
I’m trying to stay distracted by reading, going for walks with the pooches and watching movies. We saw Midway last night. Good movie.
Stay safe all. Waving to Ann and Sue, too. Hugs to all. Glad your DH is better Sue.
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Post by ann1953 on Mar 15, 2020 18:31:24 GMT
Judy so good to hear from you. I was worried. Yes MA surely is being hit hard. Carl normally goes into Worcester (more than me) but has cut that off his to do list. He can keep in contact with his friends via text for the time being. I do NOT miss the drive to and from LOL.
The town beside us, Orange MA which is actually Franklin County has declared it a state of emergency! So far, nobody has tested positive in our immediate area. I'm still NOT doing anywhere unless it's absolutely necessary. At some point we will make a quick trip to either to Hannaford's or Market Basket and then back home gain. Most of the time I am filling my days with hood walks, reading and binge watching a few things via hulu and Amazon prime. Like you gals, we have more than enough food.
I shall keep DD in my prayers.
Take care all........
xoxoxoxc
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Post by sunshinep396 on Mar 16, 2020 4:06:18 GMT
Hello all!
Well, I am still married and things are going better. We are talking about some of the grievances that were expressed during the "blow-out" and that is a good thing. I am hoping DH calls the wound care doctor tomorrow without me having to remind him.
I plan to make a grocery run tomorrow at 6:30 AM when Walmart opens. Then to Super 1 Foods after to pick up anything I couldn't find at Walmart. Next, I need to complete the notes for my hospice visits last week. I completely forgot to do them and already turned in the sheet with the times. I am thinking of calling the secretary and asking her to look up the times for me so I can complete the notes at home and only have to drop off the forms. I learned from DD1 today that the Hospice Director and 3 other employees made the STUPID decision to go to NOLA this weekend to watch their sons play baseball. NOLA is the epicenter of COVID-19 in LA with 74 cases and 2 deaths reported thus far. DD called today for advice on how to handle reporting her boss and getting her to stay home and self-quarantine. We gave her our thoughts, but it seems she and the other employees will be allowed to work as long as they report their temperature daily to the next highest person up the chain of command. For this reason, I am reluctant to go into the office, even though I am supposed to cover for my supervisor one more day. DD was beyond furious.
DH will take Jude to his therapy appointment tomorrow, but will wait in the pickup and not go in. I am so glad he is taking all this seriously. He did not go to Mass with me this morning and it may be the last Sunday Mass I attend for a long time. Only a handful of people attend daily Mass, so I may settle for that one or two days per week an stay home on Sunday. The bishop has given a full dispensation to anyone who, for any reason, feels they should not attend. I may also stick with the bible study at the mission in the town nearby, since only 6 or so people attend that one.
I talked with DSIS, an RN in BTR, who is fairly certain there are active cases in BTR not yet reported. Her husband is severely compromised health-wise and she is attempting to keep him homebound, with limited success thus far. He is in Gulfport, MS trying to get his sister, who recently suffered a stroke, settled in assisted living. He is a cancer survivor and extremely under-nourished as a result of the damage done to his digestive system by radiation therapy. My older brother's wife has only one kidney and is on a rheumatoid arthritis drug which suppresses the immune system, so I am also worried about her. I pray they find a cure/vaccine sooner than later.
Other than church this morning and a baptism seminar this afternoon, not much going on today. This evening, DH and I sat out in the "green room" and enjoyed the sunshine and fresh air. Most of the trees, except the pecans, have new leaves. My dad always said there was a chance of frost until the pecan trees budded, so I am watching for that. I hope we don't get another frost bc DH has planted tomatoes and bell peppers. Keeping a garden will keep him occupied while we are homebound.
I, too, am glad I got my cut and color and am good to go for at least 6 weeks. I am debating getting a pedi tomorrow, since Monday morning I would probably be the only person in the nail salon, if past experience is an indicator. I will also need to bring the car for servicing soon, but will have DH pick me up rather than waiting for it.
Hoping and praying all of you and your DH's stay well! Off to read a bit before bed.
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How fun. Nice that you meals were both tasty and you got to save $$.
? A totally different story but I'll survive. I just hope I don't start frightening little children lol.
